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Alice2017

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How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« on: 18 November 2024, 07:48:05 am »
Hi everyone.
I had a very annoying booking last Thursday. The guy came for 1hr sub/dom session and all what he wanted me to do was a very rough oral. For the 45 mins ! Was trying to switch to something else but didn’t work out with him. My face and mouth was in pain. I had enough when he finished on my face and he pushed me down just to make it come to my eyes when I clearly said ,, please try to avoid my eyes „. We had a chat but I was already mad on him and also I recon he had a time stopper set up on his phone!  ::) booking wasn’t good experience , definitely not going to see him again but I think I will get negative review on their site. Also doing 45 mins oral it wasn’t my experience for the last couple of year. How do you deal with that ?
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Gazaro

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Re: How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« Reply #1 on: 18 November 2024, 08:24:44 am »
People who want a long oral session usually ask in advance. If he hadn't, you had the right to tell him it was too long. Everything that hasn't been agreed and discussed in particular - you have the right to refuse. But you can do it in a playful way.
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DaisyDuck

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Re: How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« Reply #2 on: 18 November 2024, 09:01:58 am »
Don't worry about negative reviews. I never even read mine and I tell anyone who tries to tell me about them to stop.

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Alice2017

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Re: How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« Reply #3 on: 18 November 2024, 09:35:09 am »
Quote from: Gazaro on 18 November 2024, 08:24:44 am
People who want a long oral session usually ask in advance. If he hadn't, you had the right to tell him it was too long. Everything that hasn't been agreed and discussed in particular - you have the right to refuse. But you can do it in a playful way.
That’s the thing. I usually know how to stop people in playful way but this guy didn’t listen at all. He was just into face fucking/ deeptroat   :FF For the 45 mins doing this is definitely too much. I told him on the end if the booking that wasn’t my cup of tea but when I heard alarm ringing I knew he was controlling our time and he maybe coming from punters forum. I don’t  remember when I had this type o client and he’s definitely not going to see me again. I’m just thinking how to deal with something like that in the future.  ??? He didn’t ask me about this type of service at all.
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DarcyLady

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Re: How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« Reply #4 on: 18 November 2024, 10:41:10 am »
I hate this kinda thing. We are human beings, and not frikkin sex robots.  :FF Hope you're ok x
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Re: How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« Reply #5 on: 18 November 2024, 12:05:16 pm »
I used to do sub work but have stopped recently.

He sounds the cocky, inexperienced type to me. Most guys I have seen are respectful and will stop if I'm uncomfortable.

Definitely don't see him again. Not worth the bother
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SiberianFox

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Re: How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« Reply #6 on: 18 November 2024, 12:37:05 pm »
Unless you advertise porn star experience full hour marathon face fucking, he has no business expecting this. So it’s perfectly acceptable to just stand up, kill the vibe and say ‘wow, this is way out of my expertise he he, now let’s move onto what is within my advertised service’.
Clients like him will try to break your boundaries and humiliate you, they don’t care about your comfort and enjoyment, so why should you accommodate their unreasonable demands.
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amy

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Re: How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« Reply #7 on: 18 November 2024, 01:15:44 pm »
Reviews are irrelevant (and at best anything negative from a punter like this will only put off other punters like this, so win win); if somebody is hurting you then you need to get them to stop, even if this means halting the booking early.

I've done this once when the bloke was just horrendous and gave him some money back just to get rid of him (I think I claimed to be unwell all of a sudden), but he wasn't causing any real pain or possible injury. Any decent punter will not want to continue when you're uncomfortable or unhappy and you don't need to care what the others think.

This one sounds best avoided, so I'd just be happy he's unlikely to come back. Sub bookings are not about abusing people, and if you're sure he aimed for your eyes after you specifically asked him not to then please think about posting a warning.
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Alice2017

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Re: How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« Reply #8 on: 18 November 2024, 02:02:31 pm »
Quote from: SiberianFox on 18 November 2024, 12:37:05 pm
Unless you advertise porn star experience full hour marathon face fucking, he has no business expecting this. So it’s perfectly acceptable to just stand up, kill the vibe and say ‘wow, this is way out of my expertise he he, now let’s move onto what is within my advertised service’.
Clients like him will try to break your boundaries and humiliate you, they don’t care about your comfort and enjoyment, so why should you accommodate their unreasonable demands.

I said the same thing. I don’t provide porno star experience but he sounds like he wanted just humiliate me and don’t bother about rest. I said to him what I think on the end because my patience finished and I wasn’t nice afterwards. That’s why I was worried about bad review. Shame I didn’t do that earlier, I should stop him but I am in this business for more than 10years and I never had that kind of booking. I offer sub/dom session for more than a 5 years and I never felt that way.
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Alice2017

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Re: How to deal with those sort of clients ?
« Reply #9 on: 18 November 2024, 02:03:44 pm »
Quote from: amy on 18 November 2024, 01:15:44 pm
Reviews are irrelevant (and at best anything negative from a punter like this will only put off other punters like this, so win win); if somebody is hurting you then you need to get them to stop, even if this means halting the booking early.

I've done this once when the bloke was just horrendous and gave him some money back just to get rid of him (I think I claimed to be unwell all of a sudden), but he wasn't causing any real pain or possible injury. Any decent punter will not want to continue when you're uncomfortable or unhappy and you don't need to care what the others think.

This one sounds best avoided, so I'd just be happy he's unlikely to come back. Sub bookings are not about abusing people, and if you're sure he aimed for your eyes after you specifically asked him not to then please think about posting a warning.

That’s true. I will post a warning tonight.
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