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goldencat

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how to deal with the bullying from other escort?
« on: 19 July 2020, 06:34:52 pm »
Hi girls,

   wonder is here any Asian escort? I am a Korean student and do escorting. because of this virus my uni has stopped early. and i decided to go for full time during this time because i need fund to continue my study in UK.
   i am in mid-land where here have loads of Asian escort. the market is competitive. and i think because of that i got spotted on.   
   i  got reported by a competitor and police came to my house and they said they got a source saying in this house has Asian girl is forced to do sex work. i know the competitor is trying to get my landlord attention then i could be kicked out. but luckily landlord is not in UK and dont think police can contact him. Also a frd and i are really sharing house and we student in this city. police said must be a mistake and left.

   because of some reasons i know who is behind this. Has any girls here got bullied by girls from same city like me? i know the Asian they like to bring their competitor down and they can have the most of the market. 

   I dont want my frd get involved and get kicked out with me. what should i do? should i change my advert style to be under the radar?
   like i dont mention i am Asian? but guys msut be looking for Asian to click into my advert.
   i dont know what to do><

SuperCheese

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Re: how to deal with the bullying from other escort?
« Reply #1 on: 19 July 2020, 08:20:15 pm »
This is a reasonably common issue within the escort community. There isn't an awful lot you can do, for every business, there is a competitor trying to drag you down. The police would be very unlikely to contact your landlord anyway. If your landlord does find out, which I find unlikely, you have the option to deny it. Don't show your face on your ads, or make them too distinctive.

When you've been doing this a while, your competition will give up and move on to the next person. When you're new, it's all a bit overwhelming. But you do get used to it and become better quipped to deal with it.

ana30

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Re: how to deal with the bullying from other escort?
« Reply #2 on: 19 July 2020, 08:35:11 pm »
Your competitor tried her chances and... lost. There's not much else she can do. If she calls the police again with the same false statement she will become a "person of interest for them" as she's committing a criminal offense (wasting police time and telling a false statement)so she'll be the one in deep trouble, not you. Again: Police don't take lightly people making false emergency calls and wasting their time. They will not contact your landlord because in their eyes there's nothing wrong going on in your apartment and they believe the call "was a mistake". Worst case scenario and if she has too much time on her hands she could look for your landlords contact and scr-w you. How did she find your address? Are your landlords contacts publicly displayed in your building? Can they be searched on the internet? If the answer is "no" to both questions I would just forget about the whole thing and move on.
« Last Edit: 19 July 2020, 08:41:19 pm by ana30 »
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China_Grl

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Re: how to deal with the bullying from other escort?
« Reply #3 on: 20 July 2020, 04:16:34 pm »
I agree with the above posts, sadly it can too often be a problem. :'(

I had the same issue from a "madam" who runs a Asian brothel not far from me as I would not work for her.

PM me if you want some advice that cannot be read on a open forum.