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Title: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: meetingdiversity on 26 April 2017, 07:55:00 pm
I have just been accused by a client for falsely advertising just because of my escort name change. Omg how pathetic this guy is?.

I kindly said escorts do this some times, do clients think they own us blimey.

I was a name for 5 years after a slight change I am in the wrong.  I got bored of hence the change, for myself not for clients. Regulars call my me old name which is fine I don't mind.

But the response so far is good with my new name.

Have any experienced similar and have got any advice in general please.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: Mirror on 26 April 2017, 08:02:56 pm
I have just been accused by a client for falsely advertising just because of my escort name change. Omg how pathetic this guy is?.

I kindly said escorts do this some times, do clients think they own us blimey.

I was a name for 5 years after a slight change I am in the wrong.  I got bored of hence the change, for myself not for clients. Regulars call my me old name which is fine I don't mind.

But the response so far is good with my new name.

Have any experienced similar and have got any advice in general please.

So long as you aren't being deceptive in any way, carry on as you are. Many people will tell you how to run your own business, take on board the useful, relevant stuff, discard the stuff which isn't useful.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: meetingdiversity on 26 April 2017, 08:06:29 pm
So long as you aren't being deceptive in any way, carry on as you are. Many people will tell you how to run your own business, take on board the useful, relevant stuff, discard the stuff which isn't useful.

Sure thing maybe he knew me as my old name and preference given the chance I would have explained. I'll just focus on doing the best I can with business
I have to remind myself some times that we can't please everyone.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: SuperCheese on 26 April 2017, 09:18:44 pm
I'd say he's being unreasonable. You definitely can't please everyone and as long as the changes suit you, that's the best thing.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: Miss_Lorrainne on 26 April 2017, 11:46:50 pm
You're right he is pathetic. Punters love to note aliases so they can track a woman's career but frankly no one's under any obligation to notify anyone of their old names.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: Lushblossom on 27 April 2017, 11:48:06 am
I changed my name in January and nobody minded to my knowledge.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: Ieaio on 30 April 2017, 02:16:18 pm
If you know they are wrong then let it lie. Bitter angryness comes from their life not yours (school of life - how to deal with criticism) is a good video to deal with the barage of comments / hate we get as service providers. A change in name indicates a refresh, a change in your services for the better. Plenty of popular models / bands etc have done so
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: MandyVine on 30 April 2017, 02:30:55 pm
I have just been accused by a client for falsely advertising just because of my escort name change. Omg how pathetic this guy is?.

I changed my name once.  I was new when I picked my first name and never really liked it.  Perhaps the punter who gave you grief is one of those who can't understand why we don't give them our "real" names in the first place?  I say ignore him and move on.  It's his issue, not yours.

Hugs,
Mandy
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: meetingdiversity on 01 May 2017, 11:18:11 am
I changed my name once.  I was new when I picked my first name and never really liked it.  Perhaps the punter who gave you grief is one of those who can't understand why we don't give them our "real" names in the first place?  I say ignore him and move on.  It's his issue, not yours.

Hugs,
Mandy

Since that blip many are more than happy with my new name change I prefer it over my old one. It give me a new persona to build on. Sure some punters don't like change but saying that I am not a big fan of but sometimes have to progress.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: Jenny 2 on 01 May 2017, 01:00:39 pm
Just ignore him, silly fool he is. 

There's always going to be that one whiny miserable sod who thinks he knows it all (and we have all come across them haven't we girls?). 

How dare he try to tell you how to run your business? 

What I have realised doing this is that you cannot please them all, some like this, some like that,  there is always stupid unwanted criticism from the odd one here or there when there is a change but just ignore it. 

Do what works for YOU and go by your gut instinct is the one good lesson I have learnt here. 
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: DiscreetLady on 01 May 2017, 03:07:02 pm
What do you mean by accused has be personally told you this and that or has he reported you to aw or any site for misleading advertising or what?
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: meetingdiversity on 01 May 2017, 07:44:57 pm
What do you mean by accused has be personally told you this and that or has he reported you to aw or any site for misleading advertising or what?

He phoned me I said this is my new escort name. He said you are falsy advertising. Then I said escorts change thier name some times. Not my photos just name change was his complaint. Some guys complain about any thing don't they.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: meetingdiversity on 01 May 2017, 07:46:44 pm
Just ignore him, silly fool he is. 

There's always going to be that one whiny miserable sod who thinks he knows it all (and we have all come across them haven't we girls?). 

How dare he try to tell you how to run your business? 

What I have realised doing this is that you cannot please them all, some like this, some like that,  there is always stupid unwanted criticism from the odd one here or there when there is a change but just ignore it. 

Do what works for YOU and go by your gut instinct is the one good lesson I have learnt here.

Yeah I should have preched to him bet he wouldn't like it.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: cherryfcuk on 02 May 2017, 01:11:16 am
False advertising?it's only a name, not your person... he is in the wrong...  more clients out there, its good to have a make over and change your persona even to feel fresh....
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: meetingdiversity on 02 May 2017, 01:38:00 am
False advertising?it's only a name, not your person... he is in the wrong...  more clients out there, its good to have a make over and change your persona even to feel fresh....

Thank you hunny for backing me. Xx.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: lyrhaa on 02 May 2017, 02:06:52 am
false advertising would be advertising something/someone you're not , this guy seems stupid
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: Kay on 02 May 2017, 04:44:09 am
I guess he may just have been pissed off because he thought he'd found a new escort, and it turned out to be someone he'd already seen?
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: meetingdiversity on 02 May 2017, 07:37:01 am
I guess he may just have been pissed off because he thought he'd found a new escort, and it turned out to be someone he'd already seen?

Possibly..... One of my name's on adult work is similar to my old one only because of my feedback volume It saves me deleting it. A lot of it says my old name in the feedbacks left.
The other site automatically changed the name in the reviews.


I changed the other sites though fully. When the feedback says your old name then advertising with a new one might boggle clients do you think?.

It was just that one incident the rest have caused me no problems.

I would take the jipe if he was complaining about my photos. Next it will be because they don't like the colour of escorts hair. Very silly complaining clients.

Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: VoluptuousCurves on 02 May 2017, 09:40:26 am
When a company rebrands itself and changes its name it also goes through this. Stupid people are everywhere and some people just love to complain.

"Why are you called Mecca Bingo now, you used to be Top Rank, are you trying to confuse us, you're taking advantage of our good nature" Jeez lady just just play your bingo and STFU  ::)
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: sweetmilf on 02 May 2017, 09:53:20 am
Wasn't the mobile number the dead "give away" unless you also changed the mobile number?

Some punters do seem to delete escorts numbers, instead of storing them.
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: meetingdiversity on 02 May 2017, 10:44:12 am
Wasn't the mobile number the dead "give away" unless you also changed the mobile number?

Some punters do seem to delete escorts numbers, instead of storing them.

I still have the old one when I was my old name yet to change due to regs. My voice is very distinctive in Belfast having an English Accent.  Some awkward man I should have joked saying please send all your complaints to the new name foundation. :)
Title: Re: How To deal With Disapproval?
Post by: Lady_Lust_XXX on 02 May 2017, 04:33:58 pm

Some punters do seem to delete escorts numbers, instead of storing them.

I think I'd rather have them delete my number each time than keep it stored for most men don't have the savvy to put another name in and could have suspicious wives. I've had enough calls for the wife when guys have stored numbers.