I would have thought the same guy coming daily would be easier to explain than a string of guys coming? None of your neighbours business of course anyway.

Every. Single. Day? Hrm. I'll try to hold back my not-very-helpful urge to do a long-distance psychoanalytic review of this poor chap and just say that "too often" is any point where YOU feel that it's too often, because of discretion or obsession or neighbours or any reason.

Perhaps explain nicely but clearly that you're worried about your neighbours and you can only see him once or twice a week (or whatever amount suits you best). You don't have to see someone just cos they ask you. It sounds to me like you need to be *really* careful about being *really* discreet if you've already got gossipy neighbours who have literally asked you about him already. To be honest, their asking means they already have their suspicions, probably.

If you have children that you want to protect from the possible fallout of people finding out about your work, it's likely a good idea to perhaps stick to outcalls for a little while. Maybe even consider moving? Sorry, that probably all sounds very drastic, but there are other posts around this forum about nosy neighbours and the disasters that can too-easily occur because of them. You must be very careful.

Its not my registered home address that I do incalls from, its a work flat that I use for my PartyLite parties too, as well as the web design meetings (easier to keep paperwork away from kids than having locks everywhere, and while I can afford it). Apart from this one person all my other bookings/meetings last at least an hour and half hence the suspicion over his intentions from the neighbours.

 My neighbours ask about every person in and out of the block (for their own safety as we had some nasty break ins before. (its more along the lines of 'was such and such a person here to see you' rather than anything else.) I know that one of the neighbours now as I been asked to keep the noise down as it was distracting them, from what I have no idea, and when I mentioned it was work not fun they actually started informing me of their work schedules so I knew when they would be in and not (which helps loads since they work nights and sleep through lunch time most days).

When I was looking into starting I read just about every page on the forum so I have seen the horror stories. I think its just me trying to judge where my 'security radar' is set at. I only take a max of two incalls a day for the discression of the neighbours who dont know.

As far as kids dad is concerned its a case of bad breakup than protecting the kids as I have an A4 page of my messures to keep them protected from it, and touch wood its all be effective to date (Had to sort it out in my mind somehow)

Just an update and my security radar is not as out as I thought it was.
While this particular punter was here for his appointment he asked that as I cant see him tomorrow can he come back again tonight. (and the fact that I wasn't working after my 5pm appointment wasn't good enough for him. ''Why cant you, just for me'' and all the rest of those lines.
Had trouble getting him out the door and somehow when I checked the money when he came in I missed that he was ?10 short. (prob because of the chit chat I wasn't concentrating as much as I should have done).
Anyway after today's alarm bells I wont be seeing this person again.

Good call, you're definitely doing the right thing IMO.