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Title: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Ana66 on 10 April 2022, 11:05:57 am
Hi everyone,

I was wondering how often messages such as a simple "Hi", "How are you", "Hey", "are you available" lead up to an actual booking for you ? (for those who take bookings by texts)

I normally never reply to this kind of messages as I've got a clear booking procedure, which is well explained on my profile but I obviously still get plenty of messages like that and since it's been very quiet for me lately, I've been considering answering this kind of messages hoping it could potentially lead to an actual booking (obviously I'm aware that in most cases it will probably be a waste of time but if it can bring me a few extra bookings, that would be nice).
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: saltysweet on 10 April 2022, 11:17:06 am
The bookings I have got from 'hi' ...zero. I think it's escort wanksters who want to force text ping pong.
Block and forget.




 
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Miffy on 10 April 2022, 11:47:49 am
Never.

Anyone serious about booking an escort will follow your messaging directions and send as much info in their first message.

Quote from: Ana66
"Hi", "How are you", "Hey", "are you available"

These aren’t messages, they’re words. Responding to any of these hints strongly at desperation on your part.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Escortx on 10 April 2022, 11:52:14 am
Sometimes I think they send to see if you’re active atm but it’s lazy. I’m sure they try a few escorts and see who replies and isn’t busy
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: HiddenTalents02 on 10 April 2022, 11:55:01 am
I’d say majority haven’t led to a booking. I don’t usually reply to those types, but yeah If i’m quiet I’ll link them to my website and they can either follow it or not.
I wouldn’t change what I state is needed, but I would link them to give a ‘second chance’ to read & follow.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Redsnow on 10 April 2022, 12:22:16 pm
I follow up with my automessage and they almost never respond or answer 1 thing out of 5. Then I just continue to paste it till they f*ck off
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: amy on 10 April 2022, 12:25:19 pm
If you want to hedge your bets, I'd give them five minutes to follow the single word nonsense with a proper enquiry - it happens occasionally (I've finished booking before and found them all there). When they don't, and 99.9% won't, delete and block.

Do you have a template you can paste and send to vague text enquiries? I take all bookings by text and I have a few - basically that I need to know what time they'd like to book and for how long and that all info is on my website, that sort of thing. If I get sensible and specific enquiries they get a sensible and specific response, amd the rest get the template :).
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Justine on 10 April 2022, 01:48:18 pm
I never respond to these messages. Worse is when they text "hope you are well" or "hope you having a good day" and none of those messages include my name so yes they are probably sending them out to many. Utter waste of space(s).   

(or is that wastes of space  ::) )

Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Jessiegirl on 10 April 2022, 02:09:31 pm
For me it's 50_50. If they start with a hi but say they are interested in a booking then normally most follow through. If it's literally hi how are you then I don't respond.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Femme fatale on 10 April 2022, 02:31:27 pm
Just as pointless as adverts !
Never bothered replying to any this time round .
As other ladies said dosnt ever conclude with s genuine booking
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: KirstyKiss on 10 April 2022, 02:47:10 pm
 'Hi', 'How are you', 'Hey', Hi love', 'You available', 'u free.'

All blocked.

I've got genuine enquiries to deal with from clients who actually intend to book.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Kay on 10 April 2022, 05:53:02 pm
I don't know because I never answer them.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Milf-G on 10 April 2022, 08:22:14 pm
Nope, I do sometimes give chances but 99% of the time they're just idiots.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: northernstar on 10 April 2022, 09:05:51 pm
Hi
Hi
Hey
Hey
Hello
?
???
U avail


Ok then slag


 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Ana66 on 10 April 2022, 09:10:56 pm
Yes true, I think there is only a micro chance for people sending this kind of messages to be serious. Plus better not to engage in a conversation with someone who could turn out being dodgy/stalker/malicious
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Lushblossom on 11 April 2022, 06:52:35 am
Heh virtually never.

Hi how are you I get work very occasionally as sometimes clientele do not get enough replies from escorts so they gingerly tread the water.I

Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Milf-G on 11 April 2022, 11:30:52 am
Hi
Hi
Hey
Hey
Hello
?
???
U avail


Ok then slag


 ;D ;D ;D

Omg 😅
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: English Green on 20 April 2022, 11:47:27 am
They are oxygen thiefs. The one word text of "Hi" or "how you" never lead to a booking. There just lazy men and bored and want to see what women take the bait for ping pong crap.

I just block them. Half of the texters are messers in my opinions. I ask some to call me if the text is decent but a lot do not plus they ignore my booking procedure of phone calls only which is lazy and rude. These types just grab multiple numbers to text it's become normal now with so many not reading anything.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Cat_BBW on 20 April 2022, 12:17:47 pm
I used to reply "hi, how can I help you?" but gave up when it became obvious that none of them actually wanted anything except a chat. Usual replies were "what you up to?" or "how's your day going?" or "I'd love it if you were my girlfriend/wife" or "would you be interested in a massage?" or "I'm looking for women who want to book me {goes on about size of penis etc}"

All useless, timewasters, not even potential client material. I stopped replying to these years ago.


Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: English Green on 20 April 2022, 12:29:18 pm
Some of them are so thick they do not understand it is a paid service and "hi" is just a ridiculous text. Same as "you available" considering it says you are available today and they text no other proper info but that. Most annoying idiots ever.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: V24 on 21 April 2022, 07:12:32 am

Depending on my mood I will sometimes answer Hi or How are you with 'if you are looking for an appointment then call, this isn't Tinder'!
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Milf-G on 21 April 2022, 08:20:07 am
Depending on my mood I will sometimes answer Hi or How are you with 'if you are looking for an appointment then call, this isn't Tinder'!

Hahaha love that
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Femme fatale on 22 April 2022, 07:48:25 pm
Some of them are so thick they do not understand it is a paid service and "hi" is just a ridiculous text. Same as "you available" considering it says you are available today and they text no other proper info but that. Most annoying idiots ever.
💯 >
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Jadine on 22 April 2022, 09:03:01 pm
Get it all the time and hate when if I wasn't going to respond and do if I seen they good fb on aw they ignore me mostly don't reply but not going to anymore  just continue delete.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: bustybbwsteph on 16 May 2022, 03:06:54 pm
I don't think one of those texts or emails has ever lead to an actual booking - As previously mentioned, I send an automatic reply back asking what is basically on my profile & mentioning the deposit.  I don't delete any messages either so if they message again I can see their last sent message
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Sweet_and_sour on 17 May 2022, 12:57:44 am
Anyone who texts me anything along the lines of “you free” “you available” “you working” gets straight blocked. If they say hi, hey, how are you etc I usually just reply with a vague, automated copy and paste message with basic info... About half respond. A lot of these men are extremely incompetent and clearly can’t comprehend the nature of this industry. We are professionals, providing a professional service!! This isn’t a free chat line or tinder.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: denise96 on 17 May 2022, 06:13:10 pm
I don't even reply to those kind of messages because it never leads to a booking. Just TWs with free messages trying to have a conversation.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Michellesexkitten on 17 May 2022, 06:58:34 pm
Never , its a start of a conversation for dragging along  for a free whatever.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Luvmylips on 17 May 2022, 09:08:17 pm
Anyone who texts me anything along the lines of “you free” “you available” “you working” gets straight blocked. If they say hi, hey, how are you etc I usually just reply with a vague, automated copy and paste message with basic info... About half respond. A lot of these men are extremely incompetent and clearly can’t comprehend the nature of this industry. We are professionals, providing a professional service!! This isn’t a free chat line or tinder.

Before the lockdown, I got a text in early March that said, "Are you working".  I texted back "Always".  That short exchange netted me a client that became a regular and someone I can always text to get a booking from if I need to make up my weekly quota.  Turns out he's a "neighbour" that lives a few streets away from my working flat.   It worked out for me to answer the text maybe it will work out for someone else someday.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: English Green on 18 May 2022, 03:11:17 pm
Before the lockdown, I got a text in early March that said, "Are you working".  I texted back "Always".  That short exchange netted me a client that became a regular and someone I can always text to get a booking from if I need to make up my weekly quota.  Turns out he's a "neighbour" that lives a few streets away from my working flat.   It worked out for me to answer the text maybe it will work out for someone else someday.

Yes it can happen but it's rare as so many are just lazy timewasters.

You would think after many women ignoring or telling them to call or stop the lazy texts a lot would stop it but no it still continues no matter what location you go to and even the ones i told off for doing it sometimes they do it again a month later. So much of it is copy and paste texts messaging loads waiting to see who wants a chat.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Georgie on 18 May 2022, 06:44:26 pm
Someone on here once made me lol by saying they sometimes reply to ‘hi’
With ‘lo’  ;D
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Milf-G on 18 May 2022, 08:13:44 pm
Yes it can happen but it's rare as so many are just lazy timewasters.

You would think after many women ignoring or telling them to call or stop the lazy texts a lot would stop it but no it still continues no matter what location you go to and even the ones i told off for doing it sometimes they do it again a month later. So much of it is copy and paste texts messaging loads waiting to see who wants a chat.

Yep, many I've politely told how to book me send me a 'hey' a month later. If they do this I tell them to read a fucking profile in future and tell them they're blocked, then another month goes by and you get a 'hey' in your blocked messages list.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: English Green on 18 May 2022, 08:18:07 pm
Yep, many I've politely told how to book me send me a 'hey' a month later. If they do this I tell them to read a fucking profile in future and tell them they're blocked, then another month goes by and you get a 'hey' in your blocked messages list.

Yep it's zero respect because after they been told there bad behaviour still continues so they take no notice of our booking procedures.
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Milf-G on 18 May 2022, 08:56:07 pm
Yep it's zero respect because after they been told there bad behaviour still continues so they take no notice of our booking procedures.

Exactly. Most of the time I ignore. I replied to one 'you available' with 'thank you for your polite and courteous message, please read my booking instructions if you wish to continue'. A month later 'you available' so I cut and paste the same message. Another few weeks he actually sent the required information but I was fully booked, a few weeks later 'you available' again.... blocked
Title: Re: How often does a "Hi", "How are you", "Hey" leads up to an actual booking ?
Post by: Femme fatale on 20 May 2022, 08:13:30 am
Every hi  text phone number I checked on client eye this week  has more than 3 reports !