Author Topic: How often do you contract STD's? Would you tell your previous clients if you did (Read 7699 times)

The Bachelor · « **Reply #15 on:** 02 July 2013, 10:05:30 pm »

Quote from: Dani on 02 July 2013, 08:15:55 pm

some offer oral with a condom an still kiss, some offer OWO but wont kiss.

well the reason I ask, is because I know I picked up something orally...not due to BB or anything. So if someone kisses someone with something in their mouth, couldn't they potentially pass it to another person even if they don't do OWO?

I'm not trying to scare anyone here, just trying to make sense of it all LOL. I mean, 4 years without catching anything (or atleast not havin symptoms) means the odds are rather low, but still when you think about it, it's actually pretty high.

woofy86 · « **Reply #16 on:** 03 July 2013, 12:31:44 am »

Orally it'd very possible to get herpes, but gonorrhoea and chlamydia are very difficult . The bacterium that causes gonorrhea or chlamydia requires very specific conditions for growth and reproduction. Rare, but possible. More likely you caught it from owo from someone who wasn't showing symptoms.

The Bachelor · « **Reply #17 on:** 04 July 2013, 10:32:00 am »

Quote from: woofy86 on 03 July 2013, 12:31:44 am

Orally it'd very possible to get herpes, but gonorrhoea and chlamydia are very difficult . The bacterium that causes gonorrhea or chlamydia requires very specific conditions for growth and reproduction. Rare, but possible. More likely you caught it from owo from someone who wasn't showing symptoms.

Well that's the confusing part. And I've been reading up on this and can't find an exact answer. They say you can't get Clap (I hate that word, but I hate the proper term as well LOL) from kissing, but you can get it if someone blows you. It's like, then how would someone get it from oral if you can't get it from kissing? Yes....from oral, but how?

I'm thinking the bacterium is in the 'throat' rather than 'mouth' if that's all I can think of. Maybe I should ban clients from deep throating instead of using condoms lol??

Whatever the case, this case of gonorrhea FAR, FAR, FAR surpasses the one I got the 1st time. Like some sort of super strain (it ending up in my right eye from my own hands, and then tried to get into my left eye but luckily I had taken antibiotics already and the redness lasted only a night). It's been 3 days since my antibiotics and injection at the clinic and I'm still experiencing INTENSE burning during urination. I called the clinic back and they said if it doesn't go away in 10 days to come back. The discharge has stopped, but the stinging and burning hasn't. Every trip to the bathroom is like leading myself into a torture chamber

amy · « **Reply #18 on:** 04 July 2013, 10:52:01 am »

Quote from: Blaine on 04 July 2013, 10:32:00 am

I'm thinking the bacterium is in the 'throat' rather than 'mouth' if that's all I can think of. Maybe I should ban clients from deep throating instead of using condoms lol??

Well that's right, but I'm surprised they didn't tell you that at the clinic? If you're not sure about STIs, the people there are really the best ones to ask

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The Bachelor · « **Reply #19 on:** 04 July 2013, 11:03:44 am »

Quote from: amy on 04 July 2013, 10:52:01 am

Well that's right, but I'm surprised they didn't tell you that at the clinic? If you're not sure about STIs, the people there are really the best ones to ask .

I tried to ask as much as I could remember. But, thinking back to their wording they did say 'throat' and not 'tongue' lol. But I had automatically assumed it could be transferred by kissing. And I reasoned that everyone I'd gotten with in the past 2 weeks I had also kissed, so I assumed I was just some walking bacterium and felt disgusting LOL.

I'm still left with questions that I have to wait to see results of. This was the first clinic I went to that actually did the COMPLETE checkup lol. It was the most embarrassing thing I've ever endured in my life, but I needed to get well and get tested (haven't been tested in 3-4 years) so I wasn't going to fussy. I got the anal swab, throat swab, and urethral swab. And it was done by a female doctor which was odd cause I never had sex or even been naked with a woman before (actually, once with another escort is it lol). I guess they don't assign you with the doctor of your dreams

The Bachelor · « **Reply #20 on:** 04 July 2013, 11:18:37 am »

Oh, to everyone...the 2nd part of this thread I need help with again.

So, I'm hesitating on telling this clinic the clients I slept with in the past 2 weeks. I remember the 1st time I got this, I contacted 2 people telling them of this and they had gotten tested and never contracted it. They say the chance is about 66%. I just don't want to send my clients into a panic about it when they may not have contracted it. There was only 1 or 2 clients during this time.

I have the email addresses and phone numbers to everyone I hook up with. So it is good tracing info...but I mean no harm when I say I just don't want someone to be sent into a scare when there may be nothing. At this point, I believe there are about 2-3 suspects...I don't wanna alarm everyone. What would YOU do?

woofy86 · « **Reply #21 on:** 04 July 2013, 02:05:07 pm »

Lol@ torture chamber

To help with the burning, drink cranberry juice, it can help prevent the bacteria stick to your urethra speed up your treatment. I feel sorry for you, sounds so scary that you are going through this hell! Hope you get better soon! And you can lucky you got inspected by a woman. Imagine the man of your dreams comes in and see puss coming out your bits o_0

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #22 on:** 04 July 2013, 02:28:48 pm »

Quote from: Blaine on 04 July 2013, 11:18:37 am

Oh, to everyone...the 2nd part of this thread I need help with again.

So, I'm hesitating on telling this clinic the clients I slept with in the past 2 weeks. I remember the 1st time I got this, I contacted 2 people telling them of this and they had gotten tested and never contracted it. They say the chance is about 66%. I just don't want to send my clients into a panic about it when they may not have contracted it. There was only 1 or 2 clients during this time.

I have the email addresses and phone numbers to everyone I hook up with. So it is good tracing info...but I mean no harm when I say I just don't want someone to be sent into a scare when there may be nothing. At this point, I believe there are about 2-3 suspects...I don't wanna alarm everyone. What would YOU do?

Personally, I would tell them. They could be passing it on to all their partners, so you should do the responsible thing and tell them. They should be getting checked anyway, if they're sleeping with anyone other than a regular partner.

xw5 · « **Reply #23 on:** 04 July 2013, 05:38:17 pm »

Presumably you didn't tell them about the cash aspect...

If the clinic does contact tracing, let them do it. You're unlikely to be the only other person they've been sexual with in the past few months / year.

The Bachelor · « **Reply #24 on:** 04 July 2013, 10:34:18 pm »

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 04 July 2013, 02:28:48 pm

Personally, I would tell them. They could be passing it on to all their partners, so you should do the responsible thing and tell them. They should be getting checked anyway, if they're sleeping with anyone other than a regular partner.

Well, I did it. I blew the whistle. Sent in 4 people who I think may have either given it to me or gotten it from me. It's a good thing I don't do anonymous sex at bathhouses LOL. I'm relieved I didn't do it myself, and the clients who seen me recently weren't regulars and I doubt they'd be repeats. (although the day before my symptoms, I had a regular client book me but then cancel, thank goodness (wonder if maybe he got symptoms too lol) and then 2 other regulars who contacted me who likes to receive CIM I turned down). Just results in a shit load loss of money. I'm down to less than $40

I've always questioned the loss that would occur during an STD...having to turn clients down and it's hard to say why they have to wait 7 days to see me again...

Although I have to say, I had a client who about 2 years ago hosted 2 sex parties at different times. This would involve 10-20 men all having sex with each other. I was the only escort there and there was also a 'door charge'. The 2 times I went, I never came back with anything and this is after getting sucked/fucking a bunch of different guys. I guess it just goes to show, it only takes 1

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #25 on:** 05 July 2013, 12:46:54 am »

Quote from: Blaine on 04 July 2013, 10:34:18 pm

Well, I did it. I blew the whistle. Sent in 4 people who I think may have either given it to me or gotten it from me. {snippety-snip}

Well done *applauds*

IMHO, telling previous partners (paid or private) that you've caught something and THEY might have it is the very sensible and responsible thing to do.

The Bachelor · « **Reply #26 on:** 06 July 2013, 10:44:42 pm »

well i seen my 1st client since the infection, and used condoms (mainly due the 7 day re-infection window). He didn't mind doing so at all, but it's def. different. I certainly prefer oral without condoms. I suppose being it's not something you get everyday...

I'm actually going to start taking chinese herbal supplements to help prevent it. There's a few herbs out there in pill form, just google 'home remedies for gonoreah".

xw5 · « **Reply #27 on:** 06 July 2013, 11:27:14 pm »

I am sure that there are. I am certain that they don't have a randomised control trial demonstrating that they actually work, never mind FDA approval.

woofy86 · « **Reply #28 on:** 07 July 2013, 07:33:13 am »

Be very careful with chinese herbs, some have been known to cause liver damage, cancer and lead poisoning. Not that all are bad but just do some serious research before taking them.

The Bachelor · « **Reply #29 on:** 01 August 2013, 07:31:01 pm »

!Lord Jesus?

So I went for follow up exam. Find out that one of the men I referred the clinic to...not sure which one as there were 5...tested positiv for syphilis. I was neg on my last test, but still what a trip.

I suspect once again not from a client, but personal life. I'm going to cut out the number of guys I hook up with outside this work. Dinner and movie dates only. Yeah right, my horny ass lol

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