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cherryfcuk

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #15 on: 18 November 2016, 05:09:28 pm »
If you haven't met this guy before I would really recommend you take a deposit because you'd be out of pocket if he doesn't show. I've made it a policy of mine that if it's a new client booking 2 hours plus I take a deposit, either in the form of an Amazon voucher or a 1 month subscription to my private gallery which I take off the booking if they have an AW account.

If definitely had a few timewasters asking for overnights before.

Yeah deposit weeds out the TW, true I am happy to give out a seprate bank acc to serious men. i ask for at least?4/500

Pregnantkinky

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #16 on: 18 November 2016, 11:03:03 pm »
I am in the BDSM field, i have charged from 1200-1500 for a overnight
I do charge 300 for an hour.

Bdsm clients do not tend to want to play the whole night, they are more into long foreplay of bdsm acts then to go bed before midnight

If you have any questions about bdsm escorting, feel free to message me xx

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #17 on: 19 November 2016, 12:33:45 pm »
Sorry new girl on here....I charge for an overnight of 1000.00 but a guy emailed me the other day requesting a 14 hour overnight for 500.00 his feedback was impeccable i wasn't sure but in end i decided to see him have to say there are some gems of guys out there this guy was deffo one of them....his name was [removed]
« Last Edit: 19 November 2016, 02:02:46 pm by amy »

Luciexx

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #18 on: 19 November 2016, 09:58:01 pm »
I am in the BDSM field, i have charged from 1200-1500 for a overnight
I do charge 300 for an hour.

Bdsm clients do not tend to want to play the whole night, they are more into long foreplay of bdsm acts then to go bed before midnight

If you have any questions about bdsm escorting, feel free to message me xx

Are you a Sub overnighter or switch?   :)  amazing fees.  8)

Pregnantkinky

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #19 on: 19 November 2016, 11:09:30 pm »
I am a switch when requested, i have more submissive work then dominatrix work

If you are in the field i can recommend you a agency that has amazing rates,
most of the bookings are from 1-2 days long
and my longest was 4 days (I wanted to kill myself after that, way too long)
all of them were very soft bdsm clients

i just had to quit with them as i am currently pregnant and many of the bookings are abroad and as i am now 6 months i worried it could affect my baby x

But will be back to join them when i have stopped breastfeeding x

I am also always free to give advice about bdsm escorting, feel free to pm me x

Are you a Sub overnighter or switch?   :)  amazing fees.  8)

amy

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #20 on: 19 November 2016, 11:35:30 pm »
Actually PK, it's really to better to post such advice on the forum in response to people's questions. As per the rules, we don't want individuals sending or soliciting PMs for general advice where it would be more useful for them to have input from other members as well.

We have a significant number of posters here offering BDSM services and no one way works for everybody, so it's best for members with questions to get a range of views :).

Pregnantkinky

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #21 on: 19 November 2016, 11:43:31 pm »
Point taken, i just find it easier to communicate one on one

Yes we have all our own ways and mine is not necessarily better then anyone others

I am always happy to give out advice, even to bdsm newbies x

Actually PK, it's really to better to post such advice on the forum in response to people's questions. As per the rules, we don't want individuals sending or soliciting PMs for general advice where it would be more useful for them to have input from other members as well.

We have a significant number of posters here offering BDSM services and no one way works for everybody, so it's best for members with questions to get a range of views :).

Luciexx

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #22 on: 20 November 2016, 05:35:04 pm »
as well.

We have a significant number of posters here offering BDSM services and no one way works for everybody, so it's best for members with questions to get a range of views :).

I often assumed that BDSM (bondage discipline sado-masochism) means more "hardcore stuff" meaning, more like a dungeon scene (lots of beating / pain etc) didn't realise, there's "BDSM escorting".  This is quite new to me.  24 hours or longer?  :o  I should think very few escorts would cope with that...(depending on what you actually need to do..)

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #23 on: 21 November 2016, 09:20:01 pm »
I dont tend to do overnights with someone i havent met BUT if i do i charge a really high rate bc i find them draining. Refuse to sleep for trust reason and throws put my next day. So i charge ?2200 despite hour rate being 150. Most wont pay it but the ones who really want to see you will esp if they have expreriences deali g with agencies where that kaibd of rate is common

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #24 on: 22 November 2016, 09:36:17 am »
I thought him booking the hotel was a good deposit.
No it is not.
He booked the hotel then got called into work so he lost his hotel deposit and I got no deposit.

I have had an overnight boking previously book the hotel and pay a big deposit then when I got there avoided all requests for payment.

I insisted it turned out he ha enough money to take me shopping - his request not mine and to dinner but no where near my overnight fee.

Insist on deposit as even genuine guys can cancel or tricky ones on arriving can look good and have no money.

Tricky guy nearly had a24 hour booking for 150 euro plus dinner and a bit of shopping but I bet nothing would have been bought in the shops.

Big depoists can be used to fool you - money first or leave.

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #25 on: 29 November 2016, 09:24:23 pm »
I won't consider an overnight with anyone I haven't seen before at least once, preferably more.

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In ca it was 3000CAD. This includes 8h but sometimes if it was a reg (who wouldn't push for more bedroom activity) I would stay 1-2h in the morning. They have to pay upfront and let me use the safe. I always have another WG on call for security on these. Only one client who was up all night but he was a coke addict and we had sex maybe 3 times (didn't rebook he was a douchebag).

One overnight was in client's sailboat (lol) and it ran from like 2am-1pm next day, including lunch. I think I charged 4000CAD? Then he tipped 1000 for the annoying location.

I reduce my prices quite a bit for longer holidays as most of the time they are on business and I only see them at night!
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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #26 on: 30 November 2016, 08:19:50 pm »
I originally asked 800 for overnights, but then once naively took a booking to the channel islands for the same amount which ended up lasting the best part of two days due to flights etc. I was lucky to have relaxed and not too demanding company, with all expenses included. However I didn't appreciate the amount of mental labour involved! By the morning I was just wanting to be alone and finding it increasingly hard to keep "switched on" with a complete stranger. I could not of faulted them for anything but I realised how much I can't cope with the intensity of being with someone that long. The money was definitely not worth it when I added up. I have taken overnights off my profile for now but still have enquiries from guys offering silly amounts of money for a 12 hour booking. I'm sure some see it as a major discount if they can get away with it. I would definitely be upfront about factoring in sleep or having some form of  time out if I was to do it ever again.

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #27 on: 01 December 2016, 12:38:45 pm »
850 with lots of sleep lol charged a reg 500 but he came at 9pm with big ideas ( I love him appropriately he's great)

He said he was tired arrived at 9 , went to bed 9.30 said nite nite and went to sleep lol
Had some fun in the morning and he left for work at 8 lol..he's so funny kept calling me a fidget !!

I have a 3 day booking from tomorrow , no idea what I'm getting but I'm going to have a great time we are off to some v v cool places.

I go to lunch with him regularly and he's great . Just got v v bad tummy ache but I'm so looking forward to it , loaded up with painkillers etc , couldn't and didn't want to say no lol

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #28 on: 05 December 2016, 08:49:40 pm »
850 with lots of sleep lol charged a reg 500 but he came at 9pm with big ideas ( I love him appropriately he's great)

He said he was tired arrived at 9 , went to bed 9.30 said nite nite and went to sleep lol
Had some fun in the morning and he left for work at 8 lol..he's so funny kept calling me a fidget !!

I have a 3 day booking from tomorrow , no idea what I'm getting but I'm going to have a great time we are off to some v v cool places.

I go to lunch with him regularly and he's great . Just got v v bad tummy ache but I'm so looking forward to it , loaded up with painkillers etc , couldn't and didn't want to say no lol

so you taking booking without knowing what rate you are getting?! Each to their own but I find regulars are much more likely to leave you very short changed, yes even the really really lovely ones

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #29 on: 05 December 2016, 09:22:22 pm »
so you taking booking without knowing what rate you are getting?! Each to their own but I find regulars are much more likely to leave you very short changed, yes even the really really lovely ones
What the hell are you on about my rate is 850 I set the fee , I charged 500 because he's a regular and arrived at 9 was in bed and asleep by 9.30 and had a bj at 8 before work .
Yes I set my own rates ????????
It's 400 for a friggin pub lunch !!!!!