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saltysweet

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #30 on: 14 February 2020, 12:34:31 am »
Congratulations! Amazeballs! I hope it works out great for you. ;D

barbiegirl

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #31 on: 14 February 2020, 11:13:23 am »
In his 40s is much younger than I thought! Not doing loads of mind altering drugs and keeping in shape sounds good too. Enjoy it for what it is, and know that you have the power.

I do feel like I have the power. We just got back from Sweden and whilst we were there there was no pressure to anything, everything was my choice, he didn’t pressure me to have sex, if I wanted to shopping then we go shopping...I feel like I could walk away anytime but I don’t see why I should business wise it’s life changing
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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #32 on: 14 February 2020, 12:08:59 pm »
I’ve received a lump sum for a year :)

Wow what I would do is make sure both your roles and boundaries are clear.


TantricTease

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #33 on: 14 February 2020, 07:04:11 pm »
Only if he was loaded  ;D

mistylove

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #34 on: 21 March 2020, 10:40:17 pm »
I’ve received a lump sum for a year :)
Just out of curiosity what happened?
Are you still with him?
Sounds too good to be true , but hopefully it works out for you

barbiegirl

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #35 on: 22 March 2020, 03:56:50 am »
Just out of curiosity what happened?
Are you still with him?
Sounds too good to be true , but hopefully it works out for you

No I’m not still with him, got a bit dramatic and emotional to be honest on his side...someone said something about him being controlling, and I did always keep that in the back of my mind x

I had a good time though and got paid, lots of Gucci too!  >:D wouldn’t do it again in a hurry though.
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MissElaine

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #36 on: 22 March 2020, 10:26:08 pm »
Yes I would agree with the last comment .
May I ask ? Is this guy single or married?
Many years ago I came across a lady who in one whole year a retired man spent every penny of his redundancy on her whilst visiting her in a massage parlour.
When he spent the last penny of it and had no more money to pay her, he automatically expected it for free!!
He went to the police and threatened her saying she'd ripped him off. He kept writing threatening letters saying he wanted to kill her. It became public knowledge here in Ireland.
So my advice is steer well clear. Unless a client wishes to pay you well for an arrangement to see you at certain times sat for trips or social functions and then intimate times but Is not imposing restrictions on you then go ahead.
I see a well heeled client that I've been abroad with twice. And I see him occasionally for intimate moment
Luckily for me he's actually very attractive intelligent clean cut and good company and he's a workaholic. His wife is having a fling on and off with someone. ( she's unaware that he knows) so he's happy to indulge in a session once a month with me. He's generous and enjoys the arrangement and I'm free to work away with my other clients.
So I do advise serious caution.

barbiegirl

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #37 on: 22 March 2020, 11:14:16 pm »
Yes I would agree with the last comment .
May I ask ? Is this guy single or married?
Many years ago I came across a lady who in one whole year a retired man spent every penny of his redundancy on her whilst visiting her in a massage parlour.
When he spent the last penny of it and had no more money to pay her, he automatically expected it for free!!
He went to the police and threatened her saying she'd ripped him off. He kept writing threatening letters saying he wanted to kill her. It became public knowledge here in Ireland.
So my advice is steer well clear. Unless a client wishes to pay you well for an arrangement to see you at certain times sat for trips or social functions and then intimate times but Is not imposing restrictions on you then go ahead.
I see a well heeled client that I've been abroad with twice. And I see him occasionally for intimate moment
Luckily for me he's actually very attractive intelligent clean cut and good company and he's a workaholic. His wife is having a fling on and off with someone. ( she's unaware that he knows) so he's happy to indulge in a session once a month with me. He's generous and enjoys the arrangement and I'm free to work away with my other clients.
So I do advise serious caution.

He told me he was single. To me, I didn’t care either way as I was getting paid. Turns out my instincts were right and he had a girlfriend who he had been with for 14 years!
So basically, a long story cut short, he wasn’t single, he had an affair with a 21 year old prostitute (me) behind his 35 year old girlfriend’s back, whilst spending £20k in the process!

Oh, and he was broke, all on credit  :o I think he became infatuated with me and he spun this fantasy for himself, which obviously spiralled out of control

But I did notice signs of him being manipulative and controlling, it was too much for me.
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mistylove

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #38 on: 24 March 2020, 07:34:29 pm »
Wow he was broke? Man some people are just something.
Why would he spend money he doesn’t have especially when things are getting worse?
That is why I keep all my clients as clients . Never cross any boundaries egghead they tell me how they would like me to quit, take care of me etc. Some people live in cuckoo land and I feel sorry when they can’t separate what is real or not.

barbiegirl

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #39 on: 26 March 2020, 03:02:53 am »
Wow he was broke? Man some people are just something.
Why would he spend money he doesn’t have especially when things are getting worse?
That is why I keep all my clients as clients . Never cross any boundaries egghead they tell me how they would like me to quit, take care of me etc. Some people live in cuckoo land and I feel sorry when they can’t separate what is real or not.

Yep! Broke. Paying me to sit on my ass and do nothing. Sent me cash unexpectedly most of the time. Showered me with things from gucci. I’ve been asked to quit a lot, and I’ve said yeah whatever then you’ll need to fund me financially. They usually back off after that, but this guy put his money where his mouth was!
It’s all shocking...his girlfriend kept calling me, I told her the truth, she believed me and she kicked him out. Felt so bad for her
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mistylove

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #40 on: 26 March 2020, 05:07:46 pm »
Then that is his problem. No one is gonna turn down cash especially in this business or any other for that matter.
Some men are so deluded , I feel sorry for some that are lonely and want company but the arrogant ones that think we should leave the job to be with them for free are seriously not ok.
I met a guy who became a regular that kept telling me if you leave this job I will love you like  no man has ever loved you before bla bla , then I looked at the job he had and I was like you got to be kidding me?
I’m a woman and have material needs and physical ones but you loving me won’t provide me with that. Never heard from him again.

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #41 on: 30 March 2020, 04:24:35 pm »
So you said he paid you for a year upfront but you broke things off after a month, was this £20k? If so have you kept the money or refunded most of it back?
Just thinking if you have kept it and he’s in debt, things could turn really nasty...

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Re: Has anyone ever left for a client?
« Reply #42 on: 02 April 2020, 08:53:09 pm »
So you said he paid you for a year upfront but you broke things off after a month, was this £20k? If so have you kept the money or refunded most of it back?
Just thinking if you have kept it and he’s in debt, things could turn really nasty...

Loool why would she refund it back? He chose to give her the money she was rightly owed when getting into one of these types of relationships with a man. Its not her problem if he’s in debt it’s his