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lolacorona

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How much for blowjob?
« on: 25 November 2011, 07:26:04 pm »
I have a client who wants oral and some tit action but no sex. How much do I charge for this? Thanks in advance.

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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #1 on: 25 November 2011, 07:45:18 pm »
We don't know - how much do you charge for it? ;D

Slightly more seriously, it is up to you. Anything from 'exactly the same' to 'another figure you are comfortable with'.
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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #2 on: 25 November 2011, 07:55:01 pm »
I have a client who wants oral and some tit action but no sex. How much do I charge for this? Thanks in advance.

I'd say "exactly the same". As it's your time he's paying for ;) 90% of my clients don't want penetration. They all get charged the same.

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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #3 on: 25 November 2011, 10:25:19 pm »
I have a client who wants oral and some tit action but no sex. How much do I charge for this? Thanks in advance.

I'd say "exactly the same". As it's your time he's paying for ;) 90% of my clients don't want penetration. They all get charged the same.

Exactly the same.  That is the thing that surprised me the most when I started this career, how few people actually want penetrative sex.  I would say it is less than a quarter.  Most just want oral and a "boob job". I would rather have full sex!

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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #4 on: 25 November 2011, 11:42:35 pm »
I would say its the same too, my friend does a 1 BJ to competition full clothed for ?30! she is cheap in general tho, no offense my love if you read this. I have seen a few girls offer a Bj only service foe ?40 many times, but as you have said not many of them want sex they want all the stuff their wifes don't do like suck cock!

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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #5 on: 25 November 2011, 11:47:13 pm »
I always say, offer a 30 minute rate for those sort of things, but make it clear that they're paying for 'your time,' not 'per service.'

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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #6 on: 26 November 2011, 12:39:40 am »
Yes I'm with you on that one!

However if you are going to charge less for a blow job I'll say this.  Make sure it is ?XX for a set amount of time not ?XX for a blow job to completion.

Remember that some guys take ageesss to cum through blow jobs. I give a mean one if I do say so myself lol and can get most men to cum rather quickly. However occasionally you'll get a guy who receive get a 2 hour blow job and still not cum! If you promise them completion they will expect it even if you are cross eyed, lock jawed and half dead.

 They will complain you said ?XX for a  blow job to completion and they haven't completed yet! But if you say it is ?XX for a 15 min blow job they have to leave or extend when their time is up regardless to whether they have cum or not. I know pointing this out may sound silly but you'd be surprised the angle some men would take! Trying to take advantage of loop holes lol!

Lastly your price is down to you chick. You may want to have a look at your local area at other rates to set yourself around but you could always pick a figure out of the air. Charge what you are comfortable with not what you feel is "right".

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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #7 on: 26 November 2011, 12:59:57 am »
How much for a titwank? How much for a Bj?
I just tell them am not a one woman parlour, that they pay for my time and I have a half hour minimum (or 40 mins in London).
If I get the chance I also tell them that my tits are actually attached to a person and I don't rent them out on their own and the same with my mouth.
I really hate this sort of thing, as is probably obvious. I'm not under any illusion that men come and see us for some kind of profoundly meaningful  encounter and I wouldn't like that to be the case, but I do prefer guys who want to have sex of whatever variety with me and my body, rather than seeing me purely as a series of holes to stick their dicks in.

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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #8 on: 26 November 2011, 12:46:05 pm »
If you don't have a price for this listed on your website/profile then I would tell them it's full price even if a cut price BJ is something you'd think about offering in the future - guys asking these kind of questions are trying to haggle you down, they're too cheap to pay your going rate so they're seeing if they can persuade you to do it cheaper cos they'll be less work. Other varieties "I just want to wank while you watch" "I just want to give you pleasure" etc etc. What these men are doing is boundary pushing which means whether they genuinely do just want oral or whether they'll try to get away with more, they WILL be hard work. It also shows a bad attitude - I've got plenty of genuine clients who will pay my full rate for an hour just for a relaxing chat and a handjob or blowjob because they're respectful and want the proper experience, just not full sex.

There is nothing wrong with offering cheap quickies or reduced service sessions though, if it's your choice and you're happy with it - it does bring in clients and a lot of guys without much money to spend or who are nervous about meeting a new escort for the first time really appreciate having a cheap option to start out with. I offer a 15min handjob only session for ?15 which yes, is obscenely cheap, but most guys who see me for that end up coming back for a full service quickie or a longer session at some point, it's just a good ice breaker, and also on a quiet day I'd rather have a couple of guys with no money in and make ?15 off each of them than take nothing at all. But, that's a choice I've made that I'm happy with from a business point of view and from a personal point of view (anything that makes you feel devalued isn't worth doing) - I would never have offered it because a client suggested it because your rates and services should be entirely your call, and a client who thinks they have the right to influence how you run your business is a client not worth having.
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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #9 on: 26 November 2011, 01:02:02 pm »
Unless they request an hour I usually list it as a half-hour rate.

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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #10 on: 26 November 2011, 04:38:18 pm »
How much for a titwank? How much for a Bj?
I just tell them am not a one woman parlour, that they pay for my time and I have a half hour minimum (or 40 mins in London).
If I get the chance I also tell them that my tits are actually attached to a person and I don't rent them out on their own and the same with my mouth.
I really hate this sort of thing, as is probably obvious. I'm not under any illusion that men come and see us for some kind of profoundly meaningful  encounter and I wouldn't like that to be the case, but I do prefer guys who want to have sex of whatever variety with me and my body, rather than seeing me purely as a series of holes to stick their dicks in.

Yes I believe I have directed a few of these persistant ?? for service dickheads down dark alleys, on street corners, and to the local public toilet glory hole...

I think the minute you present yourself on a ?? for service basis, you are devaluing yourself in the punter's eyes - and like Sarita says... You become a hole or two... And the respect a client should have for you as an escort disappears into thin air...

Never negotiate your prices... Stick to what you are comfortable with, and ensure your client knows he pays for your time, not for which hole he feels like using!!

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Re: How much for blowjob?
« Reply #11 on: 27 November 2011, 09:57:53 am »
I've had a few guys calling recently asking if I do a BJ for ?40 & I find it annoying.  I really don't want to cater for truck drivers & the like. I do have a ?60 option though of massage & HR/O, I don't get many takers for it though I find they all want full a service.

Your time is worth your time when all is said & done like the other ladies have said. If you spend 30mins giving head for less money you could be earning extra with someone else who wants a full service. That's how I look at it but I only work between 8-10 days a month. I should probably look at it a different way though, some people have to work all day for ?40 & sometimes I'd rather not offer a full service even if it's only 5/10minutes of penetration within an hour lol.
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