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alyssaxxx

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oral with out a condom?
« on: 21 November 2011, 02:36:47 pm »
I won't do oral without a condom and one of my clients keeps sending me emails trying to persuade me to reconsider. It's really annoying and I won't budge... Am I being unreasonable. He's like ''I'm very clean.. I promise'' lol.

Thanks for reading!
Lots of Love.. Ayana x
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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #1 on: 21 November 2011, 03:15:13 pm »
If you don't want to do it then dont be swayed.

There are loads of services that other girls do that I'm not happy doing .... so I don't !

No client will talk me into it. 

More than once a week I get asked if i will do facials ...... i just tell them i cant think of anything more disrespectful and hang up.  They just move on to someone who will.  I'm not losing anything as I wont lower my standards to that level.
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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #2 on: 21 November 2011, 03:50:39 pm »
Absolutely if ur.not comfortable doing it, dont. The no.of guys who c me who ASSUME I offer OWO is high despite the fact its not on my likes list. Most guys accept that I don't, however I had one last week who said rather pathetically 'but no one else has refused me'. I simply said 'its not on my profile, its nothing personal I just don't do it' so he then accepted it and had a really fun time.
Stick to your guns!
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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #3 on: 21 November 2011, 03:59:51 pm »
Quote from: ayanaangelia on 21 November 2011, 02:36:47 pm
Am I being unreasonable.

Only in his opinion - the rest of us all agree with you! Your body = your rules!
R xx
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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #4 on: 21 November 2011, 04:08:35 pm »
Have you tried telling him that whining is not sexy and if it continues, you won't see him at all?
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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #5 on: 21 November 2011, 07:25:56 pm »
Quote from: xw5 on 21 November 2011, 04:08:35 pm
Have you tried telling him that whining is not sexy and if it continues, you won't see him at all?

Thumbs up! seconded! x
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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #6 on: 21 November 2011, 08:45:31 pm »
Quote from: xw5 on 21 November 2011, 04:08:35 pm
Have you tried telling him that whining is not sexy and if it continues, you won't see him at all?
Awesome! Love it!
   Do not budge on your boundaries because before you know it he'll be in your mouth uncovered and will have came down your throat, either that or he'll use the same reasoning to get sex unprotected!
   I state all over my profile that I am mega hygene conscious and will not tolerate any such thing!
Natalie Xx
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ladyjennaj

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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #7 on: 21 November 2011, 11:55:29 pm »
Don't negotiate your boundaries. He should respect you enough to accept your decision. I hate clients like this, what an idiot :-X
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alyssaxxx

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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #8 on: 23 November 2011, 01:44:11 pm »
Thanks so much for all your advice, Ladies  :D
Your right and I most definitely will not budge, at one point he was trying to make me feel bad but now I know he is the one being unreasonable and should repect my boundries, if its a prob he can sod off else where lol.

Thanks again, Love
Ayana x x x x
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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #9 on: 23 November 2011, 03:03:10 pm »
Quote from: ayanaangelia on 21 November 2011, 02:36:47 pm
I won't do oral without a condom and one of my clients keeps sending me emails trying to persuade me to reconsider. It's really annoying and I won't budge... Am I being unreasonable. He's like ''I'm very clean.. I promise'' lol.

Thanks for reading!
Lots of Love.. Ayana x


If he won't respect you and your do's and don'ts then it's time to blacklist him.
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Re: oral with out a condom?
« Reply #10 on: 26 November 2011, 11:55:04 am »
As others have said, if he's trying to force you to do something you don't want to do then he obviously doesn't respect you, and respect from a regular client is very important (imho, anyway).
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