Hi Lucy Ann,
To be quite honest with you, if you wish to be published at all, your going to have to work at it.
Your writing has to be top notch to even get noticed among the piles of other submissions. Your grammer perfect. Your sentence structure absolutely on the ball.
Evey fact you give has to be backed up with evidence (obviously not talking your own personal experience here, I mean other factual matters you bring up). You must make reference to copywrite every slice of information you have that has come from another source.
The only chance you may have is to go to erotic publishers, they will publish you under a pseudonym and keep your personal details to themselves but this is not always the case as mistakes can and do happen and your name might be right there at the top of the article!
Magazines may seem the easy way into publishing but they are as strict as book publishers. If you have not got the basic knowledge of how to format an article/story, they will not even bother to reply to your submission, it will get put in the bin.
Most regular, mainstream mags will, if they think the story relevant enough, agree to your being anonymous, but really, that is very rare indeed.
The thing about publishing is this: They do not need you. You need them. You have to sell to them, they make the rules, you go along with them until your a JK Rowling that is.
You have to research every magazine thouroughly to ensure your sending your story/article to the right people or it will simply, again, go in the bin.
You need to send a letter for their guidelines, they all differ, how many words they want, topics they will accept, even down to what size envelope you send it off in, yes, I am serious, even that will get your article in the bin before it's even opened.
Do a google on magazines or better still, if your serious, buy the writers and artist handbook for this year. That is crammed full of editors and publishers and will give you information about who will and will not accept your story and how much they pay and what format to submit it in, some only accept drafts through the post, some only via email, everybody is different.
I really think you need to look at an erotic publisher for this.
There are a lot of good paperbacks out now on erotic fiction/non fiction guidelines, look through amazon or go to erotic readers and writers ass. Google it, it's a brilliant site for writing this sort of thing.
Darkerotica.net is another one worth a read. Katy Terraga does a good book on this subject and also has a site you can visit.
Be wary of accepting offers as most will insist you do not publish the article again with somebody else and most will not take it if you have an agreement with another company.
Good luck. It's a minefield out there, do not forget that the above mentioned JK Rowling was turned down several times before she got a deal. I know that is a series of books not an article but articles are just as tricky to publish.
Jo

Evey fact you give has to be backed up with evidence

I'm not so sure about that. The "reporter" who wrote that Cosmo article about me blatantly missused facts to fit her agenda.

For some reason, reporters can get away with writing whatever they wish and a 'new' writer has to really toe the line.
Grammar. I know. All the time, I am terrible with it, it's laziness.