I must say, it's nice to read other people have regulars who suddenly vanish. I have had a few missing ones lately and it's hard to not wonder if it's me, whether I had been taking them for granted and they noticed somehow or wonder if something terrible has happened to them. I guess there are all kinds of reasons why they might stop coming so not point dwelling on it.

I have a couple that come regularly ish for ten years now, A fair few who come maybe 2-4 times a year, lots of one offs. I think being near an airport/London means I get a lot of chaps passing through, so not worried they don't come back and then I think there are a group of punters who only see escorts once or twice then move on (hobbyist types who like wrting reports) and a fair few who try it once and decide it's (or I) am not for them.

I lost of very regular one lately who caused a huge drop in my monthly income after about 5 years of seeing me for 2-3 hours 3 times a month plus the odd overnight or mini break. You can never be too complacent about your regs! However he did tell me that he had met someone so I'm not left wondering. I do veer between being happy for him and being annoyed and hoping they split up! (am bad person!)

I'm not working at the moment, but when I was escorting most of my bookings were guys coming back and they fell into one of two categories:
1. guys who would book me on monthly/weekly basis, usually for 1-2 h. Some of them moved on to other girls after some time, but there was always someone new booking me multiple times
2. long term clients booking me for few hours or overnights. That was almost like sugar daddy arrangement, we knew each other fairly well, bookings were fun and we did other activities besides sex, like dinner dates, trips, going out for drinks. I had 5 clients like that and they lasted around one year, until I quit escorting.

I must say, it's nice to read other people have regulars who suddenly vanish. I have had a few missing ones lately and it's hard to not wonder if it's me, whether I had been taking them for granted and they noticed somehow or wonder if something terrible has happened to them. I guess there are all kinds of reasons why they might stop coming so not point dwelling on it.

I have a couple that come regularly ish for ten years now, A fair few who come maybe 2-4 times a year, lots of one offs. I think being near an airport/London means I get a lot of chaps passing through, so not worried they don't come back and then I think there are a group of punters who only see escorts once or twice then move on (hobbyist types who like wrting reports) and a fair few who try it once and decide it's (or I) am not for them.

I lost of very regular one lately who caused a huge drop in my monthly income after about 5 years of seeing me for 2-3 hours 3 times a month plus the odd overnight or mini break. You can never be too complacent about your regs! However he did tell me that he had met someone so I'm not left wondering. I do veer between being happy for him and being annoyed and hoping they split up! (am bad person!)

Of course they vanish it's a no-strings commercial arrangement, and they are welcome to change their minds or situations change. Customers of other businesses just clear off, I'll bet you have  at some point. It's just so easy to think we've done something wrong.

Yep I lost my best regular that I had for over 3yrs and a great source of income and he did my pics too. He was the only one I ever trusted and relied on and always helped me out during hard times too. Still sad and annoyed about losing him, feels horrible. And it was for the same reason, he met someone. But I never thought that would happen as he is married and was always so careful, so I was shocked. When I think about this I can't help but think oh you bitch about her but it is as much him as he made the decision to agree to stop seeing me when she laid down the law and told him he couldn't as she didn't trust him not to have sex with me. I never thought he'd agree to that though considering we were also friends too so it does hurt. I knew he saw other escorts now and then and even had one at mine a couple of times, and I never cared as not my place to be concerned but she's not an escort but a model so now she gets to have him taking her pics instead of me, gets spoiled and gets his company. Cow! And I told him exactly what I thought about it too. It's not nice to just be tossed aside after so long. I do really miss him.

That's why its not such a good idea to befriend a client. They don't owe us anything but our fee, as we our them nothing but the agreed time.

I have moved about too often to have very long term clients, but as others have suggested I find most regulars drop off after a period anyway. Though there are some guys who just want one or two escorts they see because they aren't getting sexual intimacy elsewhere, and prefer to keep things simple by not booking a new woman all the time, preferring to stick to a known quantity, most punters I think are paying for novelty. Like there are those return clients who have booked me regularly for a 3-6 month period then got bored and dropped off, then there are those that I see intermittently but without consistency. I get the impression with these that they prefer to go with novelty but when they can't find someone they like, or get cancelled on, they'll plump with me because they are horny and they know what they are going to get, but I'm not necessarily their first choice.

 I also think after about 5/6 meets my standards can slip a little, not that I become rude or surly or anything, just maybe a little cavalier. I've been trying to train myself out of this because to prolong their interest (obviously you can only do this for so long) its good to keep them guessing/engaged, pull out all the stops like I would with a first time client. I think though if they think having seen me 2 or 3 times that means that can act however they like, I'd rather not see them again anyway.

Losing your phone to some tosser with all your tosser numbers on it must suck. Recently I lost my work phone and luckily I'm moving soon so the TW numbers are academic anyway, but I made a mental note to make a paper phone book of TW's with numbers/habits so I don't have to depend just on my phone.