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Author Topic: Regular wants me to decide what we do - to make me happy?!  (Read 3153 times)

Nova

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Re: Regular wants me to decide what we do - to make me happy?!
« Reply #15 on: 05 March 2016, 11:59:45 am »
But seriously, if asked that I would say, it's not about me, its about you, I get pleasure out of giving you pleasure or the greatest pleasure for me and what really makes me happy is giving you pleasure and leaving you feeling satisfied or the only thing you can do to make me happy is to come back again with more cash lol I would say this hoping he would take the hint and just come and have his fun and leave.

I second this. It is their responsibility to decide what they want to do (within the limits if your services), not yours. Jeez, imagine if they did that to anyone else in any other job.
'Hello waitress, yes I'll have whatever meal you most enjoy preparing.'

Shewolf

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Re: Regular wants me to decide what we do - to make me happy?!
« Reply #16 on: 05 March 2016, 01:44:09 pm »

I think a client asking what you would like involves essentially taking stock of what you know he likes, rearranging it a little, and packaging it up back to him as something that you would enjoy too. It's not a pretence; after all if you didn't want to see him, you wouldn't. You are just trying to ensure he has a nice time as well. And if he wants you to take charge of the direction of the booking then that's fine and you can do that  :)


So...it's  a TEST! A client is testing whether you have paid attention to his likes and dislikes and whether you can twist them round to 'pretend' it's what you like too so as to soothe his ego :))

hahahahaha (and, yes, it is 'a pretence' and these guys know it deep down that's why they go through all this PALAVA)