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Ericabright

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How do you say no?
« on: 23 July 2023, 05:22:05 pm »
Hello
I have previously seen a gent who keeps messaging to book again, he was very nice but just wasn’t for me? How do others say no without offending? I don’t want to block him as he is always polite..I keep saying I’m booked up..just wondering if anyone else has been in this situation before?
Thank you.
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VoluptuousCurves

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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #1 on: 23 July 2023, 07:07:18 pm »
"Sorry, this is a bit awkward but you really really remind me of my dad/brother/son (whichever is appropriate) and it's just too weird for me. Sorry but I'm sure you can find another lady to have a good time with. All the best xx"
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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #2 on: 23 July 2023, 07:54:30 pm »
I just block them.
I tour all the time and if I see someone I don’t like I block them so they can’t contact me again. I’m too busy to waste my time excusing myself for my preferences.
I’m aware this approach isn’t for everyone.
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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #3 on: 23 July 2023, 07:55:26 pm »
Quote from: KirstyKiss on 23 July 2023, 07:54:30 pm
I just block them.
I tour all the time and if I see someone I don’t like I block them so they can’t contact me again. I’m too busy to waste my time excusing myself for my preferences.
I’m aware this approach isn’t for everyone.

It works for me :D
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Justine

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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #4 on: 23 July 2023, 11:06:49 pm »
Depending on why I decide not to see them again I either just block or send one text only saying sorry I can not give you any more bookings. If they continue to try or ask why then they get blocked.  I don't bother with made up excuses.

 If a client stops booking me I am not entitled to know why. It works both ways.
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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #5 on: 23 July 2023, 11:41:02 pm »
"Sorry J but I don't think we're compatible, best wishes, Erica"

You don't know any more explanations, then block.
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Ericabright

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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #6 on: 24 July 2023, 07:53:49 am »
Thank you ladies x
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MissElvira

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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #7 on: 24 July 2023, 11:47:58 am »
I would just block, If you give a reason the guy might just go away or a follow up text asking you why.
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FullyFashioned

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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #8 on: 24 July 2023, 02:23:18 pm »
But they then contact via a new number or another means and either try to rebook on the sly or outright tell you that you’ve blocked them and ask why.
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GucciGang

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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #9 on: 24 July 2023, 02:33:18 pm »
I just say, “ I’m really sorry but I didn’t feel we quite clicked but I wish you all the best in future endeavours.”

It’s kind enough but also firm enough to know there will be no further meets. I also block the number after this.
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oleyoleyWG

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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #10 on: 24 July 2023, 02:35:58 pm »
If I don’t want to see someone again I don’t say a thing. I save their number as ignore and completely blank them in future, if they book from a different number so be it when they arrive I will tell them i do not want to see them and ask them to leave. Your a independent escort you don’t owe anybody a explanation x
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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #11 on: 24 July 2023, 05:20:22 pm »
Quote from: KirstyKiss on 23 July 2023, 07:54:30 pm
I just block them.
I tour all the time and if I see someone I don’t like I block them so they can’t contact me again. I’m too busy to waste my time excusing myself for my preferences.
I’m aware this approach isn’t for everyone.

I do the same. They will move onto the next escort.
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Ericabright

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Re: How do you say no?
« Reply #12 on: 24 July 2023, 10:01:12 pm »
I think I’ll just be polite to him. I know I definitely don’t want him to visit again.
Thank you for the replies  :) :)
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