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Treetop

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How do you say be discrete on incalls to hotels? (Dress code?)
« on: 21 May 2018, 05:02:58 pm »
I offer incalls on the london border but recently realised all my calls are more from London so I've spent a few months outcall and stuff in London as well as incalls. Recently branched out into central incalls (hotel). Several years ago I worked central but completely different circumstances.
 Last weekend I toured but only saw 2 regs and someone that had wanted a booking for ages off of Twitter. One of the regs came straight from work, he got stopped by a doorman,  he pulled it off perfectly but I'm concerned as I've moved my aw for this weekend and will (hopefully) be seeing new clients. (Same chain different place) I have a couple booked in I've never seen before and I'm struggling to find a nice way to say "Don't look out of place, I don't want attention" how do you work around this? Do you mention in text/call Or assume common sense prevails? (It often doesn't imo)

Do people text/mention in the phone call or put on profile? I really don't like attention from hotels, I like to keep myself to myself. I only book these hotels because I like the atmosphere and I'm much better at my job when in the right frame of mind, I also don't charge 300+ so I attract all sorts and love seeing all sorts! I don't want to exclude anyone or sound up myself more than i already do, I just want to ensure they are discrete on hotel incalls.
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Re: How do you say be discrete on incalls to hotels? (Dress code?)
« Reply #1 on: 21 May 2018, 06:43:31 pm »
Do you give them really really good directions to ensure they aren't wandering around looking for the lifts

Normally I find it's because they look lost rather than actually out of place that they get stopped . I mean it's london you can have a multi millionaire who looks like a tramp so clothes and appearance isn't always the problem
Hotels are used to all manners of customers so someone not dressed in a suit isn't necessarily going to cause a problem but this is just my opinion .

I text them very clear detailed instructions
 
I.e. When you walk through the door walk straight ahead you will see the lifts get in get to floor 2 and call me
I may also mention that there is a bar / gym that's open to non residents ( if there is ) so don't worry about entering the hotel

You could put professional Gents only but not sure if it that would work
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Mirror

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Re: How do you say be discrete on incalls to hotels? (Dress code?)
« Reply #2 on: 21 May 2018, 07:43:28 pm »
Just act normal would be my advice to anyone visiting a hotel.

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Re: How do you say be discrete on incalls to hotels? (Dress code?)
« Reply #3 on: 21 May 2018, 08:52:28 pm »
Quote from: Mirror on 21 May 2018, 07:43:28 pm
Just act normal would be my advice to anyone visiting a hotel.

Lol if only they could 😂
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Re: How do you say be discrete on incalls to hotels? (Dress code?)
« Reply #4 on: 22 May 2018, 10:15:24 am »
I've only had problems with this once, when I worked the [hotel name removed - please don't post these on the public board] last December. I just asked every client "Can I ask what you're wearing?" If they said they were coming straight from work then I asked "Do you work in a manual trade? Dirty work gear will look very out of place here." If a guy said he was in trackies and a hoodie I asked him to change into something else before coming.

I found this really cut down my business as I see a lot of clients who are in manual trades so in future I'll be sticking to budget hotels or ones where I know the staff don't give a shit.
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Re: How do you say be discrete on incalls to hotels? (Dress code?)
« Reply #5 on: 22 May 2018, 01:38:55 pm »
Pick one that as a gym, restaurant, bar or whatever that is open to the public that way they're probably less likely to get challenged.
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Re: How do you say be discrete on incalls to hotels? (Dress code?)
« Reply #6 on: 22 May 2018, 03:48:46 pm »
Quote from: Candour on 22 May 2018, 01:38:55 pm
Pick one that as a gym, restaurant, bar or whatever that is open to the public that way they're probably less likely to get challenged.

I always do. This took me by surprise as he is fairly sorted confident hasn't happened in such a large hotel before in this way. We think it may have been the paint on his clothes idk.
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