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luciefate

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How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« on: 26 September 2014, 09:11:45 pm »
Hi,

I am investigating the possibility of finding a working partner with whom I could rent a flat where we would both work from on alternate days/times. This may or may not be somebody who already has a flat and is looking to share the running costs.

It wouldn't bother me working out of my area in the slightest and I'm well placed in Norfolk for Essex/London and surrounding areas.

Obviously, someone may read this and be interested, in which case, PM me; however does anyone know how I can go about finding a working partner? I have no idea where to start looking. I only currently offer Outcalls and work Incalls from hotels when I have holidays from my day job, but I get calls constantly for Incalls and I feel I am missing out on good business.

As usual, all advice is appreciated.

Thanks x

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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #1 on: 27 September 2014, 12:37:24 pm »
You could put up an ad in Seeking/Offering here, at least for starters?

As far as 'cold calling' goes, we had a thread a while back which I can't remember the name of, but it concerned the odd emails (inevitably via AW) everybody must occasionally get from people asking about doing 'duo' work and the general consensus was that they weren't especially welcome - it's an automatic block for me just as the ones from 'male escorts' are, but then I don't see women or couples even for money, so I'm certainly not going to roll about with them for free ;D.

Maybe write something on your ads/blog about looking out for a flatshare? From what I've seen, more ladies than you might think read other's :).


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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #2 on: 27 September 2014, 07:24:55 pm »
But isn't flat sharing with another working girl classed as a brothel?
I'm curious.

luciefate

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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #3 on: 27 September 2014, 10:24:44 pm »
Not if you're both NOT working there at the same time.

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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #4 on: 27 September 2014, 10:37:49 pm »
Not if you're both NOT working there at the same time.

Er, actually it is :-\, It makes no difference when or whether either or both of you are there at the same time; one place + two or more prossies = brothel.

Your decision to make needs to based on how likely anybody is to care enough to cause you problems.
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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #5 on: 27 September 2014, 11:30:39 pm »
I thought so.  I do hope they change this soon. It's just so much safer and more pleasant to have someone else there (that's on the same page as you).

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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #6 on: 21 January 2016, 05:32:34 pm »
I've never really done duos, partly due to moving around, and I don't know too many wgs personally.  I've had a few requests over the years and just today a regular expressed an keen interest in a threesome.  However I'm just not sure how to best go about it!

The only thing I can think of is to contact a few ladies in the area from AW.  What do you think? I bow to your superior advice!

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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #7 on: 21 January 2016, 05:39:44 pm »
In the few duos I've done over the years I contacted the girls with the proposal some replied some didn't, I had one bad experience but the others were great and am good friends now with one girl. I picked the same way clients would really, age, experience, feedback etc. x
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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #8 on: 21 January 2016, 06:04:19 pm »
Plus who is offering a similar experience. If you want to do GFE, someone who does PSE may not be compatible. See also smoking, drug use, etc.
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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #9 on: 21 January 2016, 06:11:20 pm »
I found mine in the spam section on Saafe.  :)

Have a chat first and if all goes well, meet up for a coffee

Duo's can be quite lucrative especially during the Xmas season. I think I had about 4 or 5 duo bookings in December.

 - Teaming up with someone who offers a different/niche service than yourself can be very beneficial

 - Find someone who shares the same working style as you  i.e you might  accept bookings from 12 am whereas she might accept bookings from 8 am

 - Find someone who shares the same values as you i.e your duo partner might insist on sharing a room when you go touring whereas you might prefer your own space. I know I do!


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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #10 on: 21 January 2016, 07:36:04 pm »
Thanks ladies (and XW5!), I've contacted a few ladies and am waiting to hear back from them. I think its definitely a good idea to meet beforehand for coffee etc (cheers FancyPants!) to see how we get on.

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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #11 on: 26 January 2016, 06:35:51 pm »
I am not sure how prevalent twitter is in the UK, but for me it was/is a gold mine for all my duos and group sex bookings!
You can connect with some other SW, guys see you flirt with them and obviously get turn on...and duos!

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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #12 on: 26 January 2016, 06:39:25 pm »
I found my a couple of my duo mates through a local punting forum we were all on and another through one of those.I got to know them before I agreed to duos with them.I think its important to make sure you click on a personal level and you have similar rates and offer similar services etc.

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Re: How do you Ladies find a duo partner?
« Reply #13 on: 29 January 2016, 02:04:58 pm »
And in my experience it's worth finding a duo partner similar to you in age and type. Men often have a 'type' so say you are 40 he might not feel comfortable in seeing a 20 year old or if you are a size 12 he might not be into a BBW (or vice versa).

It's really important to have similar values too. If they are the get them in, cumming and out as fast as possible type and you are more laid back and build up slowly so they get their full hour of action it won't work. You need to be sure their idea of security is the same and figure out where you are working. They might say yes to someone you wouldn't and if you are working at your property they might be less fussy in their vetting. Similarly if you are anally tidy or insist on good time keeping working with someone who is messy or always late can be a pain. 

If you're more a cute  girlie type and she is outrageous porny type it can be great fun as a contrast for the client, but it could also be hard work to work together especially if you feel they are taking over, equally if you think she is holding back and not pulling her weight in bookings.

Also, you have to be mindful a client might go for them more than you so you mustn't get stabby feelings if you feel left out, equally if a client is more into you and ignores the other woman it's awkward. Be aware one of 'your' clients who meets her may decide to see her the next time alone and however much your head wants to accept this it can feel hurtful.

If you meet someone agree to do one booking together to see how it goes. Don't start promoting her on your website or getting photos together straight off.

Listen to how she talks about other escorts- if she is gossipy, bitchy or gives away other's real names etc then remember she will do the same about you!

Talk a lot first, talk how you imagine bookings going- we all have our routines, even if they are subconscious and it can feel a bit weird when working with someone else for the first time.  Keep talking, be honest (but not unkind) after a booking. Like everything communication is key and don't be scared to say sorry, it's just not working for me.

Not trying to put you off, just some advice and things to be aware of and saying that I have worked with some terrific women over the years, it can work!