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Lucymay

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Does he want me to suck him or fuck him....
« on: 04 April 2009, 06:34:53 pm »
I feel like a prat sometimes when I'm sucking a client and I think they want sex so say something like 'shall we get a condom' and they say not just yet.  How do you know what a client whats, of course some clients tell you what they want beforehand or as soon as they get in the room but the more shyer ones don't. 
Just looking for abit of advise or what signs to look out for with blokes and how to go about getting a condom.
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Does he want me to suck him or fuck him....
« Reply #1 on: 04 April 2009, 08:00:03 pm »
Quote from: Lucymay on 04 April 2009, 06:34:53 pm
when I'm sucking a client I say something like 'shall we get a condom' and they say not just yet.  

I understand where you coming from, but its not quite necessary to mention the next step. You'd be flustered at the number of guys you'll meet who are happy with just doing oral. Thats why I dont have seperate fees for oral, or real sex or a massage. You never know what they'll want and some will change their minds right in the middle. The guy who just wants oral might want to fuck you, the guy who wants to fuck you might be happy to do oral. I've had it happen.

Best thing is to just go with the flow. Its up to them really to suggest. I remember when I was new I had said to someone who I had met previously, and because we had sex the last time I asked him after giving a massage, "So how do you want to get fucked" lol...And he just wanted to lie there together and talk!
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Lilly1230

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Re: Does he want me to suck him or fuck him....
« Reply #2 on: 07 April 2009, 09:21:35 pm »
LOL, call me a bossy boots but I have a set routine, changed on a weekly basis to keep it fresh of course, which I  perform for the duration of the time they've paid for. I have mainly the same kind of middle aged, married clients looking for GFE so it's not hard to dictate the pace. If they want to do something else then I give them the opportunity periodically to make a whimper otherwise I stick to the script which this week goes along the lines of, kiss, massage, strip, kiss, cuddle, blindfold, blow job, hand job, bye bye!

I guess my routine helps me keep my sanity and so I don't do anything I don't feel like doing.

Hope that helps.

Kisses

Lilly xxx
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Does he want me to suck him or fuck him....
« Reply #3 on: 07 April 2009, 09:29:45 pm »
What if that order ends up distorted Lilly lol? They might want you to strip and then do a massage...kiss them, blow job, fuck...and then cuddle after fucking  ???
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Lilly1230

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Re: Does he want me to suck him or fuck him....
« Reply #4 on: 07 April 2009, 11:04:27 pm »
Oh Gosh then I have to take them in hand and spank their bottoms for being a naughty client. Can't have my gentleman thinking they can call the shots when they're paying me can we now?

Oh, is that not what this is all about?

Honestly though this is what works for me and they seem to come back.
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anonymoussw

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Re: Does he want me to suck him or fuck him....
« Reply #5 on: 08 April 2009, 10:09:57 am »
Quote from: Lilly1230 on 07 April 2009, 11:04:27 pm
Oh, is that not what this is all about?

:D LMAO
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