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Jan10

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #15 on: 29 July 2012, 12:34:50 pm »
This has been an unusually busy week (as in, opposite of slow) for me. Been seeing clients about every day in some cases twice a day all week long. It's like I'm on tour but I'm home! However, seems to have bought out some weirdos.

Anyhow, had a couple clients call me names during sex. I brushed it off rather quickly, but I was still a bit irked about it. One happened to be in the middle of a strap on session called me a 'bastard' sort of in a exasperation of pain/pleasure and then today a client asked, "so how long have you been a hooker". That almost got me riled up.

However, both clients were generally polite and mindful otherwise...except the one who called me a bastard did kind of mess me about booking the appointment and then he told me he'd book again the next day (he was visiting) and then texted me, tried to get me to talk dirty and I said I was in public. Then he never re-booked.

Would you end the appointment immediately without refund? I'm like for fuck's sake...these guys are utterly disgusting and I wouldn't touch their nasty ass, how dare they call me a name!



Why didn't you take the opportunity to ram the cock extra hard up his jacksy.  ;)
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meetingdiversity

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #16 on: 29 July 2012, 03:20:41 pm »
How I deal with this is that don't take any notice, like in one ear out the other mode. Many have said they'll re-book the next day. Until now haven't had any thing that tells me to believe them. In this game it's always good to be on your guard and can't trust clients. It will be a bit like putting trust in to a stranger who says hello.

Gemma_Jones

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #17 on: 29 July 2012, 04:02:06 pm »
I don't take any notice either, iv been called all sorts over the years ;)  once they walk out the door that's it, have to admit i don't think of them again until they rebook!  You really have to try not to take things personal in this job or you'll be driven insane :-*

JuicyLucy

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #18 on: 29 July 2012, 09:16:10 pm »
A guy called me "sexy babe" whilst ontop of me  then asked me did i have kids?  to which i replied,  "do you need to be asking that now in the middle of sex"? he said" oh youre pussy is tight thats all im suprised", I ended the session quick and told him he put me off...
it wasnt the name that bothered me !! ::)

Urgh! Some men are weird. I had a guy kept asking me of I would have his kids during sex. Really freaky!

La-lique

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #19 on: 30 July 2012, 10:36:25 am »
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« Last Edit: 09 October 2012, 12:36:06 pm by La-lique »

meetingdiversity

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #20 on: 30 November 2012, 07:51:41 pm »
A guy called me "sexy babe" whilst ontop of me  then asked me did i have kids?  to which i replied,  "do you need to be asking that now in the middle of sex"? he said" oh youre pussy is tight thats all im suprised", I ended the session quick and told him he put me off...
it wasnt the name that bothered me !! ::)

Urgh! Some men are weird. I had a guy kept asking me of I would have his kids during sex. Really freaky!

Thinking back I had a guy say some thing about having his kids. My response was giggled, then carried on with the booking. Taking as a joke even if he meant it. Or at other times I ignore what they say.

orchidperfume

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #21 on: 30 November 2012, 08:01:57 pm »
Ive been called a gangsters tart by a criminal client recently he likes a roleplay i am arresting him and throwing him in a cell! Takes all sorts eh!

Kimmy

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #22 on: 30 November 2012, 08:37:38 pm »
Every so often a client calls me a slut or a dirty bitch once or twice during sex, I just roll my eyes and ignore them (unless they got really abusive, which hasnt happened yet)

It doesnt bother me really, I have a tattoo on my lower back and once a client said in a very enthusiastic way, as if it turned him on 'Oooooh, a tramp stamp'  ::)

I thought it was hilarious and laughed my head off, he was posh and immature but when I think about it the phrase is insulting, maybe its because of the way the client said it, as though he found it a turn on lmao  :FF

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #23 on: 30 November 2012, 10:03:41 pm »
I love clients saying the sex-things, like in this thread.

I usually repeat whatever they are saying but with a deep husky voice
And throwing in gems like:
"I can feel you throbbing"
"Oh your cock has got all big and throbbing, you must be so full of hot spunk"
"You so big. give me your man-milk"
"Jizz everywhere" (while having a tissue filled hand just out of their eye-line)
As these things get them to orgasm almost immediately!  ;D
« Last Edit: 24 January 2017, 06:25:27 pm by River »

woofy86

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #24 on: 30 November 2012, 10:53:48 pm »
It part of men's fantasies and I think a lot of name calling has to do with porn movies, they trying to live it. It's horrible but as said above
we are paid for men to have sex with  ::)

Roxychu

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #25 on: 30 November 2012, 11:57:31 pm »
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MsDee

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #26 on: 01 December 2012, 08:06:20 am »
How I deal with this is that don't take any notice, like in one ear out the other mode. Many have said they'll re-book the next day. Until now haven't had any thing that tells me to believe them. In this game it's always good to be on your guard and can't trust clients. It will be a bit like putting trust in to a stranger who says hello.

I am with you, you want to talk dirty talk dirty I can talk dirtier... I get paid to be spoken to in that way but you know when a man is being malicious and down right nasty and when he is being horny.

It also depends on the type of clientelle you see, there are those who are genuine punters and gentlemen and then you get the twat who assumes he is gods gift to women and that you are just something to suck his dick.  Thank god i tend not to see the latter.  I think i scare the cocky ones.

melanie_santos

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #27 on: 01 December 2012, 05:26:23 pm »
I think it depends on the context! if they say oh u F***** bitch ur so hot! its fine looool but if he goes calling me whore and racism comments or any slut comments than im out of there! NO REFUND! never see him again.
I think guys should be at all times respectfull, dont take me wrong i also do not have illusions, but i am a escort! NOT JUS A WHORE! LOOOL

meetingdiversity

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Re: How do you handle clients calling you names during sex?
« Reply #28 on: 03 December 2012, 05:18:32 pm »
I think it depends on the context! if they say oh u F***** bitch ur so hot! its fine looool but if he goes calling me whore and racism comments or any slut comments than im out of there! NO REFUND! never see him again.
I think guys should be at all times respectfull, dont take me wrong i also do not have illusions, but i am a escort! NOT JUS A WHORE! LOOOL

If client's call me a slut or whore during the booking all is good for me as escorting in my line of work doesn't make me a virgin. Some men do see escorts as sluts any way. Not me saying it just the way things are. I'm not saying every one sees the same only a few in society. Outside of escorting in my personal life is a different respectable story.