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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #15 on: 13 September 2016, 01:30:56 pm »
I think when working its usually much worse, I'm usually not turned on or properly ready for penetration (praise be for lube). But I find in my personal life I'll get more turned on and I guess bigger down there  ;)

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #16 on: 13 September 2016, 02:43:56 pm »
I don't find big cocks attractive, they also make no difference to me sexually.  If anything I dislike them because for me they are difficult to handle.

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #17 on: 13 September 2016, 04:03:52 pm »
I always insist on starting off on top with big penises. Put loads of lube on (I prefer silicone) and slowly ease myself down until it starts to hurt. Hold for a second, then rise and start again.

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« Reply #18 on: 13 September 2016, 04:29:20 pm »
The worst are the thick ones, oH God!!!! A lot of lube and patience, but some guy like to try and be agressive and get off seeing someone in pain :FF

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #19 on: 13 September 2016, 05:19:05 pm »
It's bloody painful! Even for someone like me who gets naturally very wet. I've had a handful of massive ones and God I've tried to accommodate and it never works, I end up bleeding after and with soreness for days so have to cancel bookings because there's no way I'm going to work with the pain!

I also tend to ignore those who put "well endowed" in their emails, it's mostly exaggeration but I would much rather an average size and thickness cock which hits all the right spots than a massive one that's painful and uncomfortable!

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #20 on: 13 September 2016, 07:24:22 pm »
I don't mind wide and girthy but long and over about 8" I can't seem to handle especially as I do anal. Which is really odd as I used to have a punter many years ago with a 9" cock I adored. I think my tolerance for bigguns has decreased over the years. I had one punter who insisted on hard anal for ages and still couldn't cum. It went on and on and it hurt. Also I'm not a fan of having my cervix bashed in. Since then I've not accepted anyone over 8". I felt sick afterwards, sore holes and stomach ache. I think if it was a boyfriend or something it might be okay though but not a punter who isn't going to get me horny enough to be able to really enjoy it without discomfort. I don't know what all the fuss is about when it comes to guys with huge dicks. I try to avoid them.

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #21 on: 13 September 2016, 10:28:20 pm »
I don't meet that many very big ones but if I do it is no problem at all. Good girth is great but too much length and I just tell them as nicely as I can that if it hurts in certain positions they either do not fully thrust all the way or we find ways I am comfortable. I really don't understand why any wg would endure pain and bleeding? ! Just because we get paid for sex does not mean we should be hurting and be ruined for the next few hours or day.
One man I have met a few times and is a lovely client, has one of those cocks which is normal width at the tip but gets very much wider along the length, like an ice cream cone!  it is rare I have seen them like that and his hurts a bit as he inserts more of it so I just tell him.
Me lying on my front with my legs down and straight and they doing it from behind like that is good because I can put my hand underneath and control a little. I find big cocks rarely hurt me that way.

If any man informs me before we meet that he has a big cock then the meeting is off. Not allowed. I am very strict and do not want to hear of their cocks or see a photo, they are blocked forthwith!

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #22 on: 14 September 2016, 12:23:39 am »
Love 'em!

As long as the man in question knows what he is doing with it and the ones I have met have been mindful of this.  I find big hard ones much less trouble than weeny or soft ones that you can't do a thing with and have to try every trick under the sun to get them hard. And the tiny ones that just won't go in you or keep falling out... urgh.

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #23 on: 14 September 2016, 02:31:49 am »
Love 'em!

As long as the man in question knows what he is doing with it and the ones I have met have been mindful of this.  I find big hard ones much less trouble than weeny or soft ones that you can't do a thing with and have to try every trick under the sun to get them hard. And the tiny ones that just won't go in you or keep falling out... urgh.

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #24 on: 14 September 2016, 06:53:55 am »
Not just me who likes big boys then!

I do agree about anal though.  They really do have to be aware of their technique.  It seems some are just plain clueless I guess they are just less experienced in the sack than some.

This is why sometimes I really don't like meeting first timers.  Don't want to get off the point of the thread but it is the experienced guys who don't cause any bother with large cocks.  Whereas quite often first timers won't be aware of this.

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #25 on: 14 September 2016, 07:46:44 am »
Having been a bit scathing about big cock guys earlier in the thread, I had two yesterday and the guys were really careful and gentle and both of them really wanted me to get off as well, so I'll dial back on my prejudice a bit  ;D
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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #26 on: 14 September 2016, 08:56:00 am »
I have no issue with girth personally (unless they want anal), but length is a huge bother. I have a low cervix and anyone above average results in bleeding for me unless they intentionally and consciously go only halfway in or so. >.<

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #27 on: 14 September 2016, 12:43:37 pm »
Like many have said, it depends on the personality of the guy too and his approach. Many guys are understanding and if they are, what some would class as huge, they usually understand that many cant take it all.

Someone mentioned girth and I think that is what can make the difference.  I had a BF many years ago and he had 12" which wasn't IMO a good thing for I have a small channel down "there" and sex was anything but comfortable.  We were lucky that we were very adventurous and that help.

Many larger guys have probs ejaculating and this can cause problems if we meet them through work. Many guys think being well blessed is a good thing but to me it is as much a problem as a micro penis 🙁😢


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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #28 on: 27 September 2016, 11:17:11 pm »
I'm usually fine unless it's too long...Have had this recently. Literally my cervix was bashed in so aggressively and I'm still bleeding. He wasn't the most understanding about the more difficult positions despite being a nice guy. Was very obviously a big porn lover, *sigh*... Seriously for the fact this is a job, smaller willies are a blessing & I prefer!

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Re: How do you deal with a very large penis? [was: Oh my......etc]
« Reply #29 on: 02 October 2016, 03:11:43 am »
Ugh I hate it when they are well endowed and they seem proud of it. All it does is hurt and stretch me to breaking point so I can't wait for the booking to be over.

I also have a low cervix and a tilted uterus so the last thing I need is some guy with an elephants trunk bashing my insides in. It's better when they have some idea what they are doing but only barely.
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