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Miss_chievious

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How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« on: 05 March 2024, 04:30:35 pm »
Hi ladies

Might seem like a strange question but how do you deal with a client who just lies there during his appointment and wants nothing more than oral?!

Whilst I appreciate it's his money etc but it's bloody tiring and hard work  ::) ::)

The guy in question has put a booking through AW and to be honest I don't want it as he wants 1hr and I'm done in by the time he goes. He's a sweet guy but I don't know what to do/say? Heeeellllpppp x

cherryfcuk

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #1 on: 05 March 2024, 04:33:45 pm »
Just say your busy this time or can only do 30 mins as you’ve got something else on… just be honest and say you need to take a break no one can do oral for so long that’s sore on the jaw. You’re allowed to have boundaries about what your are willing to do in a session.

SquirtyQueen

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #2 on: 05 March 2024, 04:41:04 pm »
I get quite a few who lay there not wanting to do any work, so I slow it down, lots of teasing, striptease, stroking, bit of oral, then I sit alongside them and stuff my boobs in their mouth, sit on their face etc.

MissBetty

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #3 on: 05 March 2024, 10:31:13 pm »
I call these types :star fishes ". They lie in the centre with legs spread wide open and arms above their heads on the pillows waiting for you to rock their socks with zero effort from them.

I tell everyone that sex is a team sport.  If I doing it by myself then that's just masterbating.

fallen angel

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #4 on: 06 March 2024, 12:06:07 am »
I get quite a few who lay there not wanting to do any work, so I slow it down, lots of teasing, striptease, stroking, bit of oral, then I sit alongside them and stuff my boobs in their mouth, sit on their face etc.

Yep I find this is the best way to go for me too.
I get bored doing the same thing for ages and even if he's specified prolonged oral it isn't reasonable to expect that for an entire hour!
So throw in a nice slow, teasing lubey hj then just lie beside him stroking and chatting and see if he perks up.
Just because they are paying doesn't mean zero engagement from them is acceptable.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #5 on: 06 March 2024, 09:08:10 am »
The way I deal with a client I dont want to see is I dont see them.
'The whores hustle and the hustlers whore' PJH

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #6 on: 06 March 2024, 09:30:58 am »
I had one of these types ages ago. He lay back as described but with arms by his sides and barely uttered a word. Without explaining at the outset what he wanted and I didn't ask him (more fool me) I just sort of guessed. It was an hour booking but felt like 4 and my attempts to do a little teasing chat etc were met with one word responses.

One thing I did ask was did he like to kiss as when he first lay down and played dead I went in for a snog and he let me do that but didn't join in. He didn't touch me whatsoever.

I was mentally telling myself don't let this one cross my threshold again and a month or so later he attempted to book but was unsuccessful 😗


SquirtyQueen

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #7 on: 06 March 2024, 05:42:19 pm »
Or get him to pop quickly then fill the rest of the time with a massage.

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #8 on: 06 March 2024, 06:35:51 pm »
I call these types :star fishes ". They lie in the centre with legs spread wide open and arms above their heads on the pillows waiting for you to rock their socks with zero effort from them.

I tell everyone that sex is a team sport.  If I doing it by myself then that's just masterbating.

Love this description! Passive clients are bloody hard work. If they don't engage actively I ask them if they're ok with what I'm doing or whether there's something else they'd like to do next (as in sexual activity not knitting or scuba diving...)

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #9 on: 07 March 2024, 06:18:52 am »
I've had someone like this but after some years he told me it's because he is shy, lacks confidence and he wants to be more active.

Miss_chievious

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #10 on: 07 March 2024, 08:07:30 pm »
Thanks for all the advice/replies ladies x

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #11 on: 09 March 2024, 12:43:21 pm »
Just had a booking like this. He may as well have been dead during the booking as he just lay there motionless and completely silent with his eyes shut. Zero appreciative noises and I asked him if he was enjoying what I was doing and he was just like “yeh” in a very quiet voice with no other conversation made. I could tell he was very nervous and shy when he arrived but I find bookings like that such hard work. The hour felt like 5 hours!

Miss_chievious

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #12 on: 09 March 2024, 03:52:44 pm »
Oh I lierally feel your pain Sammy. Would love to know the guys thought process when they're like this as I don't have the courage to point out to him that it's a 'team sport'  :FF

SquirtyQueen

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #13 on: 09 March 2024, 05:01:47 pm »
Talked it up! Had two tie n tease clients in one day, aka laying there and doing nothing  ;D

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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Client
« Reply #14 on: 09 March 2024, 06:02:28 pm »
Just had a booking like this. He may as well have been dead during the booking as he just lay there motionless and completely silent with his eyes shut. Zero appreciative noises and I asked him if he was enjoying what I was doing and he was just like “yeh” in a very quiet voice with no other conversation made. I could tell he was very nervous and shy when he arrived but I find bookings like that such hard work. The hour felt like 5 hours!
:(  they definitely not into giving us pleasure !