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How do Parties work ?
« on: 17 July 2013, 09:13:02 am »
I have had a couple of offers to do Adult Parties, but I have no idea how these parties work and what I could expect to be paid. Is there anyone here who organises these things and can explain to me how it all works ?

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Re: How do Parties work ?
« Reply #1 on: 17 July 2013, 09:15:32 am »
Well Swingers Clubs sometimes employ "Paid Girls" who are meant to keep the Customers happy...they would be the Customers who wouldn't perhaps be able to charm their way to a Free Shag.....so, to make them feel better and make them return to the Club, the Paid Girl will have sex with them....

You usually get paid by the Owner and more often than not you are told not to reveal that you are a Paid Girl....

I can't say how much you'll get paid I'm afraid....but they CAN be worth doing if you get a decent Owner who is generous and fair...
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Re: How do Parties work ?
« Reply #2 on: 17 July 2013, 09:23:41 am »
The offers I have had seem to be parties where there will be several WGs meeting for a couple of hours with maybe twice as many men, but I have no real idea how this works.

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Re: How do Parties work ?
« Reply #3 on: 17 July 2013, 09:44:11 am »
I believe you end up shagging different men, the organiser pays you a set fee and having several women doing this in the same place creates a brothel.

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Re: How do Parties work ?
« Reply #4 on: 17 July 2013, 10:00:12 am »
The people I know who've done parties reported that they were paid about 350 quid for a day's work, consisting of two parties (each lasting 3 hours, I believe). I was mildly horrified at the idea of ?350 for 6 hours of intense work looking after lots of clients, but as my friend rightly pointed out, it was more use to her to have that guaranteed income every once in a while, rather than sit around all day in a parlour and maybe earn nothing.

In short, I don't think the going rates are very good unless you're organising the party yourself with other workers (and I have actually only heard of dommes doing this, rather than escorts. As pointed out above, it also puts you in a vulnerable position as regards the law.)

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« Reply #5 on: 17 July 2013, 10:09:56 am »
The basic recipe is that someone finds a venue and some workers, then does some publicity. Men turn up expecting to have sex with as many of the workers as they can manage in the time allowed having paid a fixed fee for admission. Depending on the venue and the format, you can be all in one room or spread out over several, but typically you will have at least of couple of men around you throughout, either being sexual or watching.

They tend not to be hours of non-stop shagging - you should be allowed breaks - but you do need to confirm what the 'ratio' is (how many men per woman) to see how busy you could be, as well as how many men they are hoping for (not everyone who expresses interest turns up...) You can then do the maths as to how many men you'll be expected to be sexual with and how much per man you'll end up with. So in a 'two men per woman' party with six attendees, you'll probably have at least four of them over two hours. If the ratio is more than that or length is longer, the number will be higher.

Whatever the result of that sum, you want the money up front and certainly before you start being sexual with anyone. If fewer men turn up than the organiser expects, that should be their problem, basically.

As with any other form of work, there are people who love working them and those who wouldn't touch one. The working conditions can be nicer than many parlours, there shouldn't be any sitting around waiting for clients, and if you like being watched while having lots of clients in a day without having to pretend to be interested in them as people, it's perfect. On the other hand, not everyone does! You can also have clients insisting on getting their 'money's worth' being determined to spend as long as they can inside every woman there having popped erection pills first, which can cause resentment among both workers and other clients leading to an unpleasant atmosphere.

The other downsides are the two kinds of negative attention they can attract. At one point, parties in London were being targeted by criminals who reckoned that a dozen or so men with no clothes on paying one or two hundred pounds cash each made a very easy target. It didn't help that the other unwanted attention was from the police. As has been said, the event makes the venue a brothel - 'brothels on wheels' was the memorable description by one police officer - and some police forces don't like them. You wouldn't be committing an offence, but you may find all the money goes as evidence in the event of a raid.
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Re: How do Parties work ?
« Reply #6 on: 17 July 2013, 10:44:47 am »
xw5 thank you very much, that was very helpful...

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« Reply #7 on: 17 July 2013, 11:19:00 am »
I've done groups of men, small groups, a few times. But I avoid situations with any other girls active on the job precisely because of the brothel implications. I much prefer 1 on 1's because they can be complicated to arrange and there are always those that don't turn up. Not all men are comfortable with the situation.

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« Reply #8 on: 17 July 2013, 01:11:31 pm »
Hi Hun

I found the 'party scene' a few years ago, and although I liked it, like someone else said its def not for everyone.

It suited me as it was a set wage once a week when I could nip out of my normal job as I wasn't escorting at the time... Now working independently and escorting again I honestly wouldn't do it.

Someone said a out getting 350, which is true, I know one 'party' in London who pays that but I know many that pay less than 300 to the girls...

You do 2 or 3 parties a day and normally 10-15 men at each. They often says 3:1 ratio but I've never seen anyone stick to this...

Sme 'party planners' lets call them, are nicer than others. Some will let you take it at your own pase and stop for air as and when, others won't... Some will expect you to FB constantly for 2/3 hours and often entertaining 2/3 or even 4 clients at any one time.
(I once got shouted at by a party planner because while I was doing doggy and giving someone else oral, while a third person was trying to suck on my breast, apparently there was a man watching the I should of been fondling with one of my hands!!!!!!!)

Another problem I found, and again I think someone touched on it earlier, and that was that men want to keep going even when there is nothing left.... As we know most men can't come more than once or twice, but because they have paid they think they are entitled to keep going and going, which we all know is hard work. Imagine a client who takes forever to come and then multiply that y ten! That's what your be dealing with. I guess they (the men) see it as an 'all you can eat buffet' and some just wont give up!

If your currently working independently and charging around 150 an hr then personally I would probably stay home and see 2 clients rather than 30. However if it would suit to have a regular wage then go for it.

When I done it as hard as it was I met some lovely girls (met some awful bitches too) but that's life. It suited me and my life and worked well around my normal job at the time. Some parties were good fun and when the atmosphere it was really good.

I think only you can make the decision if its for you or not, and I hope I haven't been too negative. All I would say is do lots of research into the 'party planner' or organisation first as there are some really dodgy creeps out there, and some people in that 'scene' really are bad news.

Feel free to MSG me if you have any questions.

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« Reply #9 on: 17 July 2013, 07:06:30 pm »
I sometimes go to parties with one or two of my clients as their 'partner or girlfriend' only to private parties though, and sometimes with both of them as they are friends with each other but the parties are only with about 12 - 15 couples and a few single peeps, easiest money I make, not bad ?500 for 2-3 hours, sometimes I join in, sometimes I don't.  Happy with these two clients as I've been seeing them for 3 or so years, and no pressure to perform, 95% of the time, I just shag them, the other 5% they think I've got in on the action.

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« Reply #10 on: 17 July 2013, 07:55:18 pm »
Thanks to everyone for this advice, it is very helpful

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« Reply #11 on: 18 July 2013, 08:28:16 am »
I have hosted and attended parties and gangbangs.

with parties i rent out a house, have 3-4 girls and twelve men, it all starts of in the lounge but clients and ask to see you alone. i have catered food as well as bar staff, mine have only ever last two hours.

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Re: How do Parties work ?
« Reply #12 on: 18 July 2013, 09:01:08 am »
I have hosted and attended parties and gangbangs.

with parties i rent out a house, have 3-4 girls and twelve men, it all starts of in the lounge but clients and ask to see you alone. i have catered food as well as bar staff, mine have only ever last two hours.

This sounds far more fun and exactly what parties should be about. When done like this they are so much more enjoyable.

My negative comments were never aimed at this type of party, more the daily 'all you can eat brothel... Oppps buffet' type haha

Don't want to mention any names but the ones that run 6 days a week

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« Reply #13 on: 18 July 2013, 09:22:34 am »
As when considering working at any other establishment, it can be well worth looking for client reviews - they can say an awful lot about what it is like to work there and you can compare different ones.
 
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