I’ve lost a lot of weight and my boobs are unsightly. I can’t afford to swap implants and have an uplift at the moment. I’m not very established yet.

The thing is my breasts used to be massive and it was a bit of a selling point. Clients I have had have asked me to take everything off. It is so uncomfortable having no support and because of the deformity (that could be fixed with surgery), I feel really ashamed.

Please tell me how you would handle this situation? It’s a catch 22 I need to earn the money to get them done, but I don’t want to take my bra off, as it’s getting to me psychologically. It’s not so noticeable if I’m lying down and flop them out of my bra so they can touch etc!

Should I say something in my advertising?

I’d be so grateful for any ideas.

I think you're probably more concerned about your boobs than the punters (most men will just be happy there's a woman in the room without her bra on ), but if it's really affecting your confidence then yes, you need something to tell them. Also maybe get a work bra that's a real pain to get off - I have a couple which are a nightmare thanks to extra strappy bits and such.

We had a poster here years ago who had a double mastectomy and decided she preferred to keep her bra on when she came back to work after, but as I remember her clients were very understanding (as you would hope, but back in the real world ). I'll see if I can find the posts .

Yes definitely amend profile wording to reflect a new bra size

I wd also do bust exercises on you tube.

Well done on the weight loss though!

Hi,
Hope you are well.
I had the same problem, had a surgery on both breast and had to keep a bra for 1 month. I just said to the customer on the phone they can t play with it as i came back from surgery and had to keep my bra on .Most customers came to me for other reason  than my breast . I think what they like it is what you provide overall: the way you welcome them ,the place you are , the way you interact with them . I don t think they only focus on certain parts of your body. They probably choose a person for what they see but also their personality. If they feel good they will stay and sometimes become a regular. One time i had a surgery on my knees and some they did not mind accomodating with my sensitive leg . So don t worry too much , just be yourself they will love it.

True voice Thank you for the encouraging post. I hope it will be the case for me.

Wow thank you so much for the suggestion miamia I’m really hoping this could work for me I’ve never seen these bras before. I’ve ordered one just now!

I love this bloody site 

I'm a big fan of quarter cup bras, they give lift and roundness and when paired with a suspender belt, thong, and underbust corset or babydoll nightie the whole look is suggestive, the lingerie conceals what we'd like to hide while also enhancing the naked bits