Hi ladies, So I posted about the needy regular that was draining, He was quoting the positive feedback i left clients and showing jealousy about what I wrote about other clients. He even turned up to a booking with notes on what I said about others being good at making me squirt, Which i don't do all the time.
He was obviously studying my profile and getting obsessive. He kept asking for a face pic in lingerie which i kept saying no, He was trying to reassure me he wouldn't do anything with it. I was getting that horrible drained feeling like being in a bad relationship.
All the red flags of constantly messaging me daily even when I took time away and the constant gifts and booking me lots, Spending lots.
Last long booking, Chatting about food I remarked that some evenings I'm too tired to cook so just have something on toast, To which he laughed and said "What tired from lying on your back all day" This made the next 2 hours with him difficult to say the least. I was fuming, He alone was eating into my personal time constantly texting me.
That was it, Told him in text I was offended and upset about his comment and would not see him again, Massive relief and blocked him on everything.
Now his got a New Adultwork profiles pretending to be a new client just joined. Wrote a long message about how he needs a woman like me after being badly hurt by a uncaring woman....I didn't twig at first. Just thought this guy's odd, Then noticed the Alias AW name as him.
This will be the 3rd obsessive client.
Do I let him know I know it's him, Tell him the deceit of pretending to be a new client is stalking behaviour and at the least harrashment. My instinct is to let him know, Warn him to leave me alone.
These kind of men cross boundaries and end up banned but get angry and turn it on the women.
His 70 yrs old.