Hi ladies, So I posted about the needy regular that was draining, He was quoting the positive feedback i left clients and showing jealousy about what I wrote about other clients. He even turned up to a booking with notes on what I said about others being good at making me squirt, Which i don't do all the time.
He was obviously studying my profile and getting obsessive. He kept asking for a face pic in lingerie which i kept saying no, He was trying to reassure me he wouldn't do anything with it. I was getting that horrible drained feeling like being in a bad relationship.
All the red flags of constantly messaging me daily even when I took time away and the constant gifts and booking me lots, Spending lots.

Last long booking, Chatting about food I remarked that some evenings I'm too tired to cook so just have something on toast, To which he laughed and said "What tired from lying on your back all day" This made the next 2 hours with him difficult to say the least. I was fuming, He alone was eating into my personal time constantly texting me.

That was it, Told him in text I was offended and upset about his comment and would not see him again, Massive relief and blocked him on everything.

Now his got a New Adultwork profiles pretending to be a new client just joined. Wrote a long message about how he needs a woman like me after being badly hurt by a uncaring woman....I didn't twig at first. Just thought this guy's odd, Then noticed the Alias AW name as him.

This will be the 3rd obsessive client.



Do I let him know I know it's him, Tell him the deceit of pretending to be a new client is stalking behaviour and at the least harrashment. My instinct is to let him know, Warn him to leave me alone.

These kind of men cross boundaries and end up banned but get angry and turn it on the women.

His 70 yrs old.

That was I was going to do now.

He would have lost seeing me with asking for pictures, I have low tolerance for any behaviour i dont like. Block and forget. He sounds f****** crazy And pretty manipulative. Don’t engage. As Amy said police and riot act to these types.

Gets worse, So I did a few Duo's with him with another girl who I'm friends with to. He must of waited around to see her car which is very easy to spot because of its colour.
 He lives in the same small town, She's got another business and he found her and started threatening her because I had blocked him.

That was it, I just went mad. Messaged him and told him to leave her alone or we would go to the police. I actually have his home address,,He kept buying me stuff from Temu with his address and name.

He said we where both mad and he didn't want to hear from us.

And last time I had a booking with me he kept trying to use his phone on the bed to show me a position he wanted. I took the phone and said that's fine and put it out of the way. I had a suspicion he was going to try and film me.

What a horrible old man.

Guys like this are a nightmare i would just block block block, dont engage it just adds fuel to the fire. xx

Absolute nightmare, So this guy I blocked after he was messaging me with fake AW profile trying to meet up after I told him I didn't want to see him plus he was trying to blackmail my duo partner.

Now he is messaging a different Escort, She decided not to see him. His now pestering her to pass me messages and told her he knows my home address. So he is trying to blackmail me to remove bad feedback.

I've never met him at my address or told him where I live, I'm fuming he won't piss off and my warnings about him is to make his behaviour known for other ladies to proceed with caution.

Any suggestions on how I proceed, I was thinking of asking him to tell me my address and call his bluff.

If he knows it then his been stalking me, Old 70 Yr old man retired and obviously no life so still obsessing over me and angry.

What makes these few men think they can do this, I owe him nothing and he was in the wrong.

If he knows my address and I have evidence from messages then I'll go to the police, Because if he knows my address he is gping to try and use that to blackmail me.

I went through this in 2019 til 2021 with a stalker, It's a nightmare and the police at the time just kept asking if he was a ex, Even though I told them I had seen him as a escort.

NUM?

I dealt with paladin last time. I was hoping he'd go away after I last warned him I'd go to the police.
 I know telling other escorts is not helping him or me, but what should I do  Stay quiet and not warn others. That's how thses guys get away with bad behaviour.