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lillith

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How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« on: 13 March 2017, 02:02:06 pm »
Because Im big on the GFE, and am trying to build that into my thing, I invest more time early on emailing, texting and phoning, I want to attract the guy who wants a bit of conversation and maybe the odd cuppa and dinner date. Are the guys who ask for more pictures without giving you any contact details (Phone number, proper name, email address) a sign of a time waster and at the same time they just send you one liners like, "where are you located", "where are you from" in a constant drip drip of one liners, are these usually TW's?

I'm getting better and willy pic senders go straight in the bin, I've learned how to spot "Fantasists" who look like models, they take a picture in a an amazing car and surprisingly they live somewhere like Knightsbridge

Are there guys who are happy to just email, text or call with no intention of booking, even if they don't try to sex talk?


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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #1 on: 13 March 2017, 02:21:04 pm »
My personal answers to what I believe are your 3 questions are:
1) Yes.
2) Yes.
3) Yes. I have just had one of these, in fact.

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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #2 on: 13 March 2017, 02:25:44 pm »
I say all my pics are on my profile. I dont send them any others. Generally ping pong texters are tws. Not all the time ive had a few who were nervous first timers but 97 % are IMO xx

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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #3 on: 13 March 2017, 02:34:14 pm »
Why are you pandering to timewasters, personal details/photo hunters?
You are making work for yourself and its a complete waste of time IMO.
Better to show your phone number so they can call you and you'll get a feeling for how they sound and if they genuine and actually want to book you.
Be aware of phone wankers and keep it polite and semi business-like
Too many bored fantasists out there with free minutes and texts.
I'd never text/send photos/offer email tennis to punters full stop as real punters just phone, check what they want is available and book.



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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #4 on: 13 March 2017, 02:47:26 pm »
...real punters just phone, check what they want is available and book.
Exactly.

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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #5 on: 13 March 2017, 04:35:49 pm »
I also told them pix were in profile.

They are timewasters and many get their jollies from writing and reading emails. Ie wasting your time 😢
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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #6 on: 13 March 2017, 04:48:38 pm »
If it is just general info such as what area you are based, parking, times you work etc then I don't mind emailing or texting this info.
I know some guys who don't like using the phone to speak if it is their first time.
I would never send them photos as they can already view them.

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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #7 on: 13 March 2017, 04:58:33 pm »
I think there are enough posts and threads on here for you to know that of course some blokes get their thrills from only 'talking/writing' about it.There are alot of bored/lonely blokes that yes will happily waste your time chatting and the more you answer back the more they think you are a mate rather than someone they are going to book.
Alot of us also do the gfe thing but it is a business not dating and if you take it too far by indulging in too much emailing/texting/photo swapping then not only will you get your time wasted but you are likely to end up with clients getting the wrong end of the stick and either thinking it really is a date or they by taking the pee out of you boundaries wise.
It's common sense really,if you have plenty of good photos and info on your profile then why would they need to ask for more photos?

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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #8 on: 13 March 2017, 04:58:39 pm »
Time wasters engaging into a no-sex conversation are simply smarter and more difficult to spot.
They know that if they call you and talk about their cock you will hang up and block. So, in order to seem genuine and keep you talking to them, they will keep it off sex. What your favourite food is, colour, drink, whatever. And while you answer their questions you keep wasting your time.

Like MH said. A genuine guy does all the work before contacting you: checks your profile, stats, services. If he likes what he sees, he calls to book and confirm a detail or two, that's it.

I understand that you want booking with more conversation or dinner date. But a genuine client will never expect those things before the booking. A genuine client has no problem booking you and paying you for your time.

As long as your profile is complete, full of info and pictures, there's absolutely no need to send anything by text/email. Would you go to a restaurant and say "i would like to have dinner here tomorrow but I need to get a sample of your food for free now"? Don't think so:)


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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #9 on: 13 March 2017, 05:01:00 pm »
And oh yes by the way can the maitre de spend an hour emailing me about the restaurant and about himself and take some pics to send me while he is at it.... :D

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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #10 on: 13 March 2017, 05:04:03 pm »
And oh yes by the way can the maitre de spend an hour emailing me about the restaurant and about himself and take some pics to send me while he is at it.... :D

Lol!
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I do a lot of conversation during my bookings. Love it. Partly because I get paid for it :)

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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #11 on: 13 March 2017, 06:05:27 pm »
Are there guys who are happy to just email, text or call with no intention of booking, even if they don't try to sex talk?   



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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #12 on: 13 March 2017, 06:10:36 pm »
im not sure where pictures come into making a booking, sexual or otherwise pics are not needed even when offering GFE

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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #13 on: 13 March 2017, 07:00:42 pm »
Speaking for myself, I like a brief chat on the phone, confirmation by text when I ask for it, arrive on time, fuck, go.

Rinse and repeat if both desire.
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Re: How can you spot picture collecting time wasters
« Reply #14 on: 13 March 2017, 08:55:45 pm »
If they ask for pictures they are TW, end of.
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