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milliflub

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thinking about becoming an escort
« on: 22 February 2008, 02:23:01 pm »
I came across your website on the internet while i was doing some research on the escort business. Im 21yrold BBW student in Preston and i'm thinking about becoming an escort. Partly for financial reasons and partly because i do enjoy sex. Firstly i would just like to say thanks as you have reassured me that there is business out there for us bbw of the world. But I am mainly emailing because I dont really know how to go about getting into the business. I dont drive, and my friends (who mainly dont agree with this decisions) have said its pointless me being an escort and will fail if i cant drive. As an experienced escort I was wondering if you could give me some more advice on this, and of course being a student i cant really afford the cost of a website and professional photographs, and i dont want any of these factors stopping me from getting into the business.
 
Any help would be great, Many Thanks

Anika Mae

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Re: thinking about becoming an escort
« Reply #1 on: 22 February 2008, 03:23:27 pm »
Your situation won't stop you from getting into the business. You won't "fail" (seriously, your friends talk to you like that?). Even if your setup is far from ideal you'll get some work, so it's no reason not to try. You can work on things that will allow you to take more bookings once you've got started, it doesn't need to be all sorted at the beginning.

I don't think not driving is a big problem, anyway. I don't drive, and I'm not willing to go to someone's home without security anyway. For local hotels I take a taxi and if I'm going further I use public transport. For home visits my driver always takes me and is outside all the time in case I need him. If I did drive I'd probably still use taxis for local jobs because it's convenient. I'd be able to go to hotels in more places than I do now, but not doing so is not that much of a loss. You're not in the sticks, so there should be a reasonable amount of local work available to you.

When I started I didn't have a driver so I only did hotel visits. That about halved the work I could do. If you're willing to go to homes without security then you can get a cab if they're not far away and that'll make a difference, but it would help to find a driver. If you don't have a suitable friend you could try connecting with local girls once you're on the scene. They may have recommendations.

You can afford a website. Mine costs me almost nothing because I made it myself. If fully designing your own site isn't for you, Moonfruit.com is a popular place to start. You can have a site for free or pay a little to remove ads and use their templates to create a site. Rare-escorts.com is another way of getting a site for free, you get a site based on their template. There are also sites such as adultwork.co.uk and selectanescort.com where you can set up a profile for free and aren't required to link to your own site.

Photos are more difficult to sort out. When I started I used a handful of pictures of myself that I already had and were suitable. You might not be able to do that, especially if you want to hide your face. I've got some really good photos for free by doing time for prints, but that only works if you find a good compatible photographer. A lot of aspiring photographers will be happy to take pictures for free if they can use them in their portfolios, but most of them are probably rubbish and/or pervs. Taking decent pictures yourself is possible, I've got some nice shots that I took with a timer, and some stills that I took after recording myself on webcam. The webcam option would just be something to start with, but you can get one for ?20.

An alternative to having a website is advertising in the local paper (if they allow it). You'd have to describe yourself and your services to every caller which doesn't appeal to me, but there is business there and that way you can be instantly in (and out) of the business.

Another option is working in a parlour. It's quite different from being an escort: you'd do mostly half-hour bookings or less and give half your fee to the house, but all the advertising would be taken care of and you'd only need to go to once place. The price you pay for convenience (apart from the house's cut!) is that you'll need to spend full shifts there and there's no guarantee that you'll get any clients while you're there.

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Re: thinking about becoming an escort
« Reply #2 on: 23 February 2008, 10:16:59 pm »
Hiya and welcome :)
as Anika said you dont need to drive to be an escort, if and when you feel ready you could allways become and incall escort (if personal circumstances permit)
one way of finding out if you are cut out to have sex with strangers is to start of in a parlour (you can find the numbers in the back of your local free paper) and see how you go ,there will allways be someone about to ask any niggling questions and to help, I started in a parlour myself i only stayed 2 weeks to get the basics and with the money i had got an ad in the local paper and went from there on my own
if you really want to go for it then have a go,but a word of caution....not everyone is as liberal and open minded about prostitution as yourself and as you have found out your mates dont agree with your decision, some ladies dont tell anyone about what they do others do , i told a couple of friends one is fine with it ..but the other wasnt so therefore lost a good friend of mine..its up to you who you tell but be wise with telling (go i sound like the voice of doom ..lol)
anyway have a good scout through the site and any questions dont hesitate to ask

ps if you do decide to start escorting dont forget the buddy system is here for you to use
xxxx

milliflub

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Re: thinking about becoming an escort
« Reply #3 on: 24 February 2008, 12:25:05 pm »
Hey!

Thank you both for your replies!! I am going to give it a whirl, I mean who knows i could become a great escort, or the worst. Your replies have boosted my confidence. Thank you!!!! X

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Re: thinking about becoming an escort
« Reply #4 on: 24 February 2008, 02:22:49 pm »
Hey again!

Well i have checked out the adultwork.com site and have set up a profile. This may sound like a daft question but obviously ive never done this sort of thing, so do i tell him that i am new to this and he would be my first client, or how is best to appear that you know what you are doing etc. In all honesty im so nervous, or is tht normal??!

milliflub xx

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Re: thinking about becoming an escort
« Reply #5 on: 24 February 2008, 02:56:48 pm »
I agree you dont need to drive to be an escort.. just like other professions. My business is within city limits so transport is fine. You can build your own website free to begin with I did! ...and I'm not that computer literate. Get some pics done and download them on to your site. Have mobile contact no and e-mail account. Once you start seeing clients put the money away to invest..if you can to building your business. Double check what sites you want to advertise on, get a feel for them first. Start posting in forums that you like. All the best x

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Re: thinking about becoming an escort
« Reply #6 on: 24 February 2008, 04:11:49 pm »
A lot of men like the idea of seeing a new escort and that's fine, but some of them just want to take advantage of you. Aduldwork is one of the worst places for that. Some people say you shouldn't let them know you're new, I did and didn't run into problems so it's not necessarily a bad thing, but you need to make sure they're not taking the piss. Read all the articles here to see what you should be doing. Have a look through warning boards, they'll give you an idea of the type of things people try to do as well as specific people to avoid.

I strongly recommend getting Penny to set you up with a buddy. We've all signed up because we want to help so you can ask any silly questions, and an experienced escort will be able to pick up any dodgy requests from clients that you may not spot yet.

Being nervous is totally normal, but most men are pretty happy just to have a sexy woman around so don't worry. Just make sure you're safe!