im sorry I am not a fan of people wanting thisngs perfect they tend to put too much pressure on themselves and can end up dissapointed ,
the perfect gfe ..well there isnt one lol
just do lots of kissing but as Anika has said dont do anything you dont feel happy with , it can set alarm bells ringing in my ears when things like this are said ,does he know you are new ?
also some can say the perfect gfe would not use protection that is NOT the case
be in control and dont get waylayed
again the voice of doom has spoken

good luck
xxx