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Jan10

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #15 on: 18 June 2012, 11:43:31 am »
I have just started escorting from my home and on one week, i had four different guys. I made one of them wait at the end of the road and i picked him up in my car.
Another i told to bring a big folder, like he was an Insurance man.
And another guy i collected further down the street,hidden from my neighbours view and made him lay on the back seat under a car blanket, as i was paranoid my neighbours may see! Poor guy, but i he didnt mind.

To top it all, the fourth guy parked right outside my house (i told him not to) and said hello and waved to my nosey neighbour next door!!
Grr!!!
So from now i will take more care, but i agree that i am possibly being paranoid.  My neighbours on both sides get a lot of visitors and i dont suspect they are up to anything, so hopefully, they wont do the same!  ;)



You can only do so much. But it was bound to happen that someone would deliberately ignore what you asked. You are being too cautious and some of the things you have done is too OTT. If you just act normal and not be too paranoid you would get on better. Just ask them to be discreet. You are putting yourself under too much stress is it really worth it going through that every time you have a client?
Changing the place you see clients would be better than go through what you are going throuhgh at the moment.
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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #16 on: 18 June 2012, 11:49:55 am »
I agree with Jan. Not sure how you can have a relaxed and enjoyable booking with someone after you've asked them to hide under a blanket in the back of a car!
It may be that the guy will go through with a booking like this once, but I wouldn't have thought they'd be too keen to return. I also think that the more complicated you make it all the more suspicious it looks. If your neighbours spotted someone crawling out from under a blanket then they'd really think there was something weird going on!



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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #17 on: 19 June 2012, 09:59:23 am »
 I think if your going to work from home long term then its better to beef up your own household security  by that i mean decent alarm, possiblby cctv  /spyhole and if possible a gate before you get to your front door to prevent clients from getting to your front door
 
its inevitable that at some point you will get clients turning up when your not working ect  so best to plan  for this beforehand  and before its stresses you out

also  dont put on your website  /blog when you go away  its a stalker /robbers paradise if they know your home is empty for a few weeks

re self defence  the best self defence is to scream and scream fire is better than help  and make as much noise as possible and run, dont bother fighting a bloke, because unless your Janye Crouch ( female boxer ) or  Laura Croft in disguise  fighting a man no matter how big /small he is will simply delete your energy
 
  you have to be lucky to get a good shot on a guy that would knock him out  most likely all you would do is break your hand

but if you must fight then use the palm of your hand to hit his nose straight on  the palm is much stronger than a knuckle and will do more damage  ie break his nose   

dont bother using bats and knives against a guy they will only get used on you   
 

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #18 on: 19 June 2012, 10:16:29 am »
I think if your going to work from home long term then its better to beef up your own household security  by that i mean decent alarm, possiblby cctv  /spyhole and if possible a gate before you get to your front door to prevent clients from getting to your front door
 
its inevitable that at some point you will get clients turning up when your not working ect  so best to plan  for this beforehand  and before its stresses you out

also  dont put on your website  /blog when you go away  its a stalker /robbers paradise if they know your home is empty for a few weeks

re self defence  the best self defence is to scream and scream fire is better than help  and make as much noise as possible and run, dont bother fighting a bloke, because unless your Janye Crouch ( female boxer ) or  Laura Croft in disguise  fighting a man no matter how big /small he is will simply delete your energy
 
  you have to be lucky to get a good shot on a guy that would knock him out  most likely all you would do is break your hand

but if you must fight then use the palm of your hand to hit his nose straight on  the palm is much stronger than a knuckle and will do more damage  ie break his nose   

dont bother using bats and knives against a guy they will only get used on you   
 

My thoughts exactly Paris.  Although I was once told if you have to fight then to punch their throat as you're also less likely to break your fist and this will also give you time to run.
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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #19 on: 19 June 2012, 02:51:46 pm »
Wow, I am such a thicko.  It never occurred to me to think of all those things.  Luckily though, the first booking cancelled, citing that he was nervous and last time he felt like that he got robbed.  Utter wanker.  SOme funny stuff has happened since then, he removed his profile from the site after promising to pay half (it's the second time he's cancelled and now i feel REALLY stupid).

Then a guy (no ratings) from Dubai wants to talk to me, so after the awful start to the day, I tell him he'll have to pay deposit by buying pics for 150 credits.  I did this to PUT HIM OFF........thinking it's a load of bollox (you know how it runs in threes...hahha), I get a message saying he's put the money into his AW a/c and when I go to log on, my profile doesn't exist.

I've had no warnings or anything.

Gone off thread, sorry, just having a Janie ramble.  Only Tuesday and my worries about having THREE clients doing incalls are unfounded, since it's now only 2, if they happen and I can't communicate with them now I've no profile.  I've had the profile 2 years.....so it's clearly not a scam type thing.

WAFFLE, WAFFLE, WAFFLE..........sorry!!

Great help to know NOT to have weapons about the place.  And yes, my biggest fear would be having them used against me, or of me doing such a good job with the weapons, I'd be left carting bodies out in blankets!!

None of which are amusing :(
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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #20 on: 19 June 2012, 04:31:00 pm »
Wow, I am such a thicko.  It never occurred to me to think of all those things.  Luckily though, the first booking cancelled, citing that he was nervous and last time he felt like that he got robbed.  Utter wanker.  SOme funny stuff has happened since then, he removed his profile from the site after promising to pay half (it's the second time he's cancelled and now i feel REALLY stupid).

Then a guy (no ratings) from Dubai wants to talk to me, so after the awful start to the day, I tell him he'll have to pay deposit by buying pics for 150 credits.  I did this to PUT HIM OFF........thinking it's a load of bollox (you know how it runs in threes...hahha), I get a message saying he's put the money into his AW a/c and when I go to log on, my profile doesn't exist.

I've had no warnings or anything.

Gone off thread, sorry, just having a Janie ramble.  Only Tuesday and my worries about having THREE clients doing incalls are unfounded, since it's now only 2, if they happen and I can't communicate with them now I've no profile.  I've had the profile 2 years.....so it's clearly not a scam type thing.

WAFFLE, WAFFLE, WAFFLE..........sorry!!

Great help to know NOT to have weapons about the place.  And yes, my biggest fear would be having them used against me, or of me doing such a good job with the weapons, I'd be left carting bodies out in blankets!!

None of which are amusing :(
janie xxx

Its against AW rules to take or incite payments or deposits for aw bookings

I think thats why your profile has been removed

I always have my boyfriend on hand to warn off any problem punters, aswell as my landlord 2 doors down and her beefy son

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #21 on: 19 June 2012, 06:10:51 pm »
if you use the palm of your hand  flat out straight  its far more powerfull than your fist for a woman fightingh - if you use your fist /knuckles then  you need to really know how to make a proper fist otherwise you will more than likely as you say break your hand by doing it wrong

So by using your palm of your hand on either the nose or the throat  ( nose is better as nothing covers its)  but with a throat an attacker can lower his head which mean you cant get a clear shot at his throat 
but i still think that running and screaming is the best option  ;D

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My thoughts exactly Paris.  Although I was once told if you have to fight then to punch their throat as you're also less likely to break your fist and this will also give you time to run.
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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #22 on: 20 June 2012, 08:31:59 pm »
HI KIMMY, HOW DO YOU DO PROPER SCREENING OF CLIENTS PLEASE XX

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Re: Getting away with incalls.
« Reply #23 on: 20 June 2012, 09:43:24 pm »
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