Ok girls so I'm pretty much a complete escort NOOB at the moment. I've been speaking to a guy over adultwork and he is booked in at a hotel on Saturday where he wants me to come and visit him for an outcall.

This would be my first hotel outcall visit so... After reading the sections on the main saafe website I have read it's usually advised to get the clients name and the booking reference. However, after asking him for these details and explaining why I would need them etc. He has replied with this...

This could be tricky. I am registered on this site under an alias. This is for two reasons. First I am married and second because i am, in a small way, a public figure. Don't get me wrong, I'm not David Beckham or the Prime Minister but in my line of work i am quite well known to people who are strangers to me, if you see what I mean.

The problem is that I have booked the hotel under my real name and don't want either this site or escorts that I may use to know it. I am just not comfortable with it.

I will have to think about. Really sorry. I guess this is a bit more complicated than I thought. Like I said, I have been on AW for a while weighing up the options but i have still not used anyone's services.

Mind you, you are completely stunning and totally my type. i know this sounds silly but i can't stop thinking about you and what we could do in our time together.

I'll think about it and let you know. if i decide to do it then you can have all my details and I'll just have to trade in my anonymity for the sexiest body I've seen in a long time. However I may decide that it is not worth the risk. Either way I'll let you know nearer the time and not cancel you at the last minute.

He has 0 feedback and has been a member since 2012... What are we thinking girls?  I would of posted his username but unsure of wether I was allowed too??

Help would be greatly appreciated , do you ever go to hotel outcalls without the clients name?

xx

Hey.

I did 2 hotel outcalls so far.

First was my 2nd client and it was before I discovered Saafe.
But the guy called me. He gave me the hotel and his room number which I then gave to my housemate. And he had excellent feedbacks.

Second was a guy who booked me for the afternoon. Lunch was first and when I asked which h?tel he simply gave me the key so I could tell my housemate.

I also have a booking in 3 weeks. The guy says he won't give me his name a bit for the same reason as yours but he said which hotel and will call from the hotel first. And it starts with dinner anyway.

I also had a guy a complete time waster but at one point I could just feel he was no good.

My point is I understand they don't want to give their name. I'd never give mine. But there are ways around it: feedback, phone number, etc. If he really wants to meet you, he'll find a solution. They always do;)

So if it's a one hour booking in a dodgy hotel on Sat I wouldn't go.

Not sure if this helps...

Yes, you need to check BEFORE you take the time and effort to get there.

We are ALL 'public figures' and your anonymity is just as important as his. Sounds like a twat to me.

Yawn (and a big stretch) indeed!! Think I would have hit the 'block' button long ago, rather than giving this guy any more kicks! Hope you have better clients soon x

Hi Chloexox,
I personally have seen/ see several high profile clients and have done over many years.  It is an unspoken rule that the trust has to be there both ways. He doesn't want you to tell that he,s paying for sex, oddly his prime concern isn't his public persona, rather his wife...sounds a bit of a fib to me. 
You are after all visiting a stranger, trusting him to not tie you up rape beat and murder you-so thoeretically there could be a gang of woman hating bandits lying in wait (if you see what I mean ) he must trust you on privacy inn exactly the same level he trust you to be sti and so on etc in return. It,s the trust rule.
He's either desperate too make the leap and gutless; a fantastic drool over your pic and what you could do- getting off on it, or a total wind up tw ( wife story suggests the latter two).
Suggest one brief no frills message saying you expect me to trust you, I need to know you trust me, or else never cross my path again! lol I s it suspect he might vanish.
Good luck and keep us posted,
Miki xx

A booking ref means nothing to me. The only time I ever asked for one it was faked and didn't exist when I checked - and that's not proof he actually arrived. His room number? You won't know that until he is checked-in.

I've checked many a booking online before I set off using the booking reference and email address. It's no substitute for phoning them in the room, but it can tell you straight away if the whole thing is a pile of crap before you waste any of your time planning travel and suchlike.

If a hotel doesn't have phones in the rooms, I'll phone reception and ask if Mr X has arrived safely, which is another reason to need the name - I couldn't care less whether it's his legal name as long as it's the one the room is booked in. I think there's only one hotel near me which both doesn't have phones and isn't keycarded though; the budget chain ones both are and I won't visit somewhere that won't let me walk straight to the room when I arrive.

Hes probably  a fantasist timewaster with delusion of grandiosity thinks he is famous ! id be tempted to wind him up 

Oh EF, that is exactly my thoughts when a guy comes out with the verbal diarrhoea (sp?) like this one.  Illusions of grandeur ..... living in hope, eh?

I could have shagged well known people and still wouldnt know, im not interested.  I actually saw a guy four times before I realised I had seen him previously so im not going to remember who is who.

A client is a client and just that, irrespective of who he is. 

I may have been a bit lenient if he hadn't had written such an essay giving me his life story kinda thing... Makes me feel a bit suspicious that he wasn't being genuine. Maybe if he had some feedback then I would of considered but no feedback at all and a member since 2012?!... I just went on my gut instinct and told him I didn't feel comfortable with it. Feel like I've done the right thing really.