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sparkly_top

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Hotel and giving real name
« on: 14 December 2019, 07:54:10 pm »

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #1 on: 15 December 2019, 12:15:03 am »
Hi, from my experiences...

I booked my hotel under any name, sometimes it's my real name, sometimes it's a take on my real name, and I always book double occupancy and use my work name with what ever fake surname as the 2nd person checking in "my friend is joining me later"

Ivw only ever been asked for ID when I have paid in cash, if booked with a card I find they don't need it, don't take ID with you to outcalls, it's not needed and heaven forbid anything where to happen to you, the client might find out your details.

Reference are how I go about checking out if a guy is safe to go and do an outcall, asking him who he has seen before and getting him to pay a deposit which I accept through Amazon vouchers.
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lillybliss

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #2 on: 15 December 2019, 07:57:21 am »
Well if you are booking with your bank card of course you have to give your name as I presume your name will be on your bank card, unless you get one of those top up cards in a fake name, also people walk in and out of hotels all the time, you don't need to be giving ID if you are visiting someone in a hotel (I presume you are in the UK?), the other ladies will probably be along soon with a few more answers to your questions, good luck x.
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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #3 on: 15 December 2019, 08:10:24 am »
In the UK some a few hotels might ask for ID, but generally they don't even check.

Yes real name for booking hotel.

When visiting no need to show ID or even tell staff what you are doing, it's very rare anyone will question you if at all.

Have you experience of staying in hotels in your non-sex-work-life?

There are several ways to check the client is where he says he is, some phone through on the room phone (can you put me through to Mr Such and Such in room xx?), using booking reference to check a booking on the hotel website. I use a deposit for new clients, long distances and most bookings away from 'home' area. Other techniques include asking for a photo of the room key. I ask for the room number before I arrive, if the hotel is keycarded we meet outside or in reception - I just greet as a friend.
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sparkly_top

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #4 on: 15 December 2019, 12:31:53 pm »
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saltysweet

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #5 on: 15 December 2019, 01:33:47 pm »
Clients should not speak to reception. This will draw attention to yourself. I give him directions to the lift and floor before he enters.  Spyhole him as he walks down the corridor. You'll be looking for safety-to see he's on his own not with 'friends' and compatibility that he's your 'type' of client. Only give him the room number once you feel he's acceptable. If in doubt I turn my phone off, relax and have a cup of tea. Lots more on this is you search here.
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sparkly_top

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #6 on: 15 December 2019, 03:29:14 pm »
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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #7 on: 15 December 2019, 03:42:17 pm »
Quote from: sparkly_top on 15 December 2019, 12:31:53 pm
Thanks lilybliss that makes sense. I am only concerned that a client will want to check my name and try to get my name out of the reception desk, etc by saying I’m visiting the lady in room 3 what’s her name? Not sure if I’m overthinking this though 😂

I won’t really be visiting clients in hotels they have booked necessarily but I’ll be booking myself and clients will do incalls to there.


Mirror, thanks, the deposit idea is a good idea and I think that will definitely help to filer our time wasters. And no unfortunately not, I’ve had to live quite simply and haven’t gone away much so That's why I don’t have much knowledge of hotels.



Also, what would happen if I met a client at a pub for example and then decided to go to a hotel. When we go to reception would I Then have to give my real name and show my ID with a matching bank card? I just don’t want the client to find out my name!

Why would you go to reception?
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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #8 on: 15 December 2019, 04:27:39 pm »

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #9 on: 15 December 2019, 04:57:07 pm »
Quote from: sparkly_top on 15 December 2019, 12:31:53 pm
Thanks lilybliss that makes sense. I am only concerned that a client will want to check my name and try to get my name out of the reception desk, etc by saying I’m visiting the lady in room 3 what’s her name? Not sure if I’m overthinking this though 😂


Also, what would happen if I met a client at a pub for example and then decided to go to a hotel. When we go to reception would I Then have to give my real name and show my ID with a matching bank card? I just don’t want the client to find out my name!

I would expect the client to provide the hotel room in this situation, otherwise it would need to have been arranged beforehand so I could go and check in to hotel before meeting the client for drinks and they would be expected to pay a deposit to cover cost of the room.
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saltysweet

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #10 on: 15 December 2019, 06:43:50 pm »
Quote from: sparkly_top on 15 December 2019, 03:29:14 pm
Thanks saltysweet. That makes sense. Have you ever had to show an ID when checking into the hotel you booked?

You're welcome. Have you an ongoing stalker problem?

I can't recall being asked to show ID. But hey!- hotels can see my ID if they want, passport or whatever I've no reason to hide my identity.
I've given a client my real name to book a plane ticket to the Middle East, and all was fine.

I'm wonder if you're fearfull that most callers are stalkers not clients?
What do you imagine will happen next in the stalker scenario?


Quote from: sparkly_top on 15 December 2019, 12:31:53 pm


Also, what would happen if I met a client at a pub for example and then decided to go to a hotel. When we go to reception would I Then have to give my real name and show my ID with a matching bank card? I just don’t want the client to find out my name!

Guests don't have to show ID as they haven't paid for the room. Fake name is fine.
If that was the case when you're on tour, you'd have to tell your 'guests' to bring passports or driving licenses and show them at reception.

If you're new to hotel life and really nervous I'd suggest booking a hotel tour for a single day, as a working- pamper day. Enjoy the facilities, eat there, use up their hot water and watch how hotels work  :). Get a feel for it. Rather than jumping tits deep. If you get one client who covers your costs it's a nice bonus.  ;)
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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #11 on: 16 December 2019, 12:40:47 am »
I’ve used my card with a fake name loads of times .

Depends on the hotel whether the ask for ID or not. If you’re paying cash they usually ask for ID. X
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sparkly_top

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #12 on: 16 December 2019, 04:43:08 pm »
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saltysweet

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #13 on: 16 December 2019, 06:26:44 pm »
I got ya Sparkly! You're going about it the right way. I think most of us had the same fears. I did.
I don't understand the fake name technique so reading with interest GG  ;)
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GothGirl

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Re: Hotel and giving real name
« Reply #14 on: 17 December 2019, 10:10:58 pm »
Yes.

The only reason I have done this recently is a few hotels I was staying in needed ID (for cash payment) I had to borrow my friends temporarily as I’d lost mine lol.
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