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Just_Jess

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Re: Hopelessly naive?
« Reply #15 on: 17 April 2015, 12:05:59 pm »
Quote from: MissLeeMiss on 16 April 2015, 10:31:28 am
My flat's discreet to the point where one male visitor every few days wouldn't attract attention (though a stream of them would).

I missed this bit.

I did not realise you were going to see clients at your home, I couldn't do that. I guess our circumstances are different, my house is where I made my home with my husband, but even  so I like the anonymity and safety of being somewhere neutral and semi public so only visit hotels.
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MissLeeMiss

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Re: Hopelessly naive?
« Reply #16 on: 17 April 2015, 12:32:50 pm »
Hi shewolf, sounds like we have a lot in common! Thanks for your response.

Just Jess. I guess this issue has been discussed before.

TBH I'm a bit squeamish about the idea of bringing a stranger to my own bed, and would very much probably prefer to meet at a venue suggested by the client (once I've checked that he's trustworthy, had a chat with him etc.) I guess this narrows the number of guys who'll be able to see me? Could I depend on a couple of guys a week if I only met somewhere semi-public?

Before I go, a smiley for everyone who's got in touch. Not only do I feel less of a freak for wanting to do this I'm a hell of a lot less clueless as well! :)
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Re: Hopelessly naive?
« Reply #17 on: 17 April 2015, 12:55:02 pm »
If you want to make a go of living alone, there's the other bedroom you can use as a work place, leaving your (closed while there is a client around) bedroom as your space.

But yes, the venue is swings and roundabouts time. Have a look here for the pros and cons of working from home, having an incall place and doing outcalls. (Oh, and for completeness, 'car meets' even if just to go 'no' to them.)

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Just_Jess

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Re: Hopelessly naive?
« Reply #18 on: 17 April 2015, 05:03:58 pm »
Quote from: MissLeeMiss on 17 April 2015, 12:32:50 pm
I guess this narrows the number of guys who'll be able to see me? Could I depend on a couple of guys a week if I only met somewhere semi-public?

I don't know where you are so cannot really comment but if you get regulars you should be able to manage that. I sometimes have bookings weeks ahead where someone I have seen before knows they will be back  again for work.
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MissLeeMiss

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Re: Hopelessly naive?
« Reply #19 on: 19 April 2015, 01:42:58 am »
Thanks again everyone. I'm going to put an ad together tomorrow and see what happens.

My aim will be to meet somewhere semi-public with someone who sounds like they may become a regular. I'm nervous, this is all starting to feel a bit real.. I'll take it slowly and see how it goes.

xw5, using the other bedroom had occurred to me, but I don't know how I feel about potentially having sex in my roommate's old room :S
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Re: Hopelessly naive?
« Reply #20 on: 19 April 2015, 02:25:46 am »
Quote from: xw5 on 17 April 2015, 12:55:02 pm
If you want to make a go of living alone, there's the other bedroom you can use as a work place, leaving your (closed while there is a client around) bedroom as your space.

But yes, the venue is swings and roundabouts time. Have a look here for the pros and cons of working from home, having an incall place and doing outcalls. (Oh, and for completeness, 'car meets' even if just to go 'no' to them.)

Exactly, I've worked from home over 2yrs, I have my bedroom and a work room. Never feel my work crosses into my personal space that way
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Re: Hopelessly naive?
« Reply #21 on: 19 April 2015, 02:28:49 am »
Quote from: MissLeeMiss on 19 April 2015, 01:42:58 am
Thanks again everyone. I'm going to put an ad together tomorrow and see what happens.

My aim will be to meet somewhere semi-public with someone who sounds like they may become a regular. I'm nervous, this is all starting to feel a bit real.. I'll take it slowly and see how it goes.

xw5, using the other bedroom had occurred to me, but I don't know how I feel about potentially having sex in my roommate's old room :S

Of course your call but doing Incalls at home is really convenient I find, you don't even leave the house and no travelling and you mate loads of cash, just so easy, and really no difference if you separate space and keep a work room
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