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Jessiegirl

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #15 on: 09 May 2022, 04:06:04 pm »
Hi thanks for the advice about getting him to send me money to book my own flight. Initially I was gonna let him book it as he knows my name anyway but don't want to give my passport details.

I am happy to have sex with him three or four times a day as I do enjoy it a lot with him. It will probably only be two or three times I reckon anyway. He gets easily overexcited and comes up with lots of fantasy scenarios I find amusing but then forgets about half of them once we get going.

The apartment has two bedrooms so I can sleep on my own. He wanted us to sleep together so he could have sex first thing and for hugs and cuddles. I've said once we've both showered in the morning we can.

He's real easy going and chilled and happy to give me time on my own.

One thing occured to me though, most people will assume we are a couple when we go out. He wants me to pretend to be his girlfriend but I think it might be easier if we say we are friends. Otherwise we could get talking to people and it gets tricky if they start asking questions and I'm a rubbish liar. I could just say we met via a mutual friends. He's met some of my escort friends.

Miffy

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #16 on: 09 May 2022, 04:18:48 pm »
Glad you’ve worked it all out. Am even more happy for you that you’ve got your own bedroom!

Personally, I would not feel comfortable pretending to be anyone’s girlfriend. I think what you’ve suggested is fine - you’re just friends. He should respect this, not least because it just makes things so much easier rather than having to make up some silly story about how you met and stave off any further questions about do you want to get married, do you live together, want kids etc etc.

Jessiegirl

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #17 on: 09 May 2022, 04:53:31 pm »
I've also decided to sit apart on the plane as he can be quite touchy feely and will blow our friends story.

Gonna book this evening, I'm quite excited actually. The apartment is lovely and has a great outdoor terrace to catch some days on the sunbed.

Will let you know how it goes.

saltysweet

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #18 on: 09 May 2022, 10:05:52 pm »
Does he know you're gonna have a champagne parti in the back of the ride!
« Last Edit: 09 May 2022, 10:21:18 pm by saltysweet »

Jessiegirl

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #19 on: 09 May 2022, 10:27:13 pm »
Does he know you're gonna have a champagne parti in the back of the ride!
Not sure what you mean

saltysweet

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #20 on: 09 May 2022, 10:33:39 pm »
Kinda joke...you're sitting apart so I'd be topping up on bubbles, nibbles and luxuriating with my private moovie shows :)
« Last Edit: 09 May 2022, 10:36:49 pm by saltysweet »

Jessiegirl

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #21 on: 09 May 2022, 10:40:57 pm »
Oh no it's an early flight and I don't drink much. Lol. Ill be expecting lots of champers on holiday though.

saltysweet

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #22 on: 09 May 2022, 10:52:46 pm »
OOPs all good! I only drink when it's gifted or comped.
« Last Edit: 09 May 2022, 10:58:54 pm by saltysweet »

Jessiegirl

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #23 on: 09 May 2022, 11:07:45 pm »
He has offered a champagne picnic on a beach and knows of a hidden cove where he wants to fuck me.

saltysweet

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #24 on: 09 May 2022, 11:22:39 pm »
Haha!  ;)

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #25 on: 09 May 2022, 11:29:53 pm »
I've also decided to sit apart on the plane as he can be quite touchy feely and will blow our friends story.

I'm a bit confused by the 'friends story'; are other people he knows going on the same holiday as you? If not who will notice or care how you know each other?

As for 'fucking in a hidden cove', I suspect it's one of his fantasist things (and I think you've mentioned this one before); and it would be a 100% no from me, but if you'de prepared to do it then for God's sake make sure your security buddy knows about it, especially if alcohol is involved.

You might want to point out to him that he will not be the only person who knows about the 'hidden' cove and that spoiling part of somebody elses's holiday if they're having a quiet walk and wind up happening across you is a real cunt's trick (and could potentially get you arrested too). Nobody wants to get dragged into your booking for free.
« Last Edit: 09 May 2022, 11:32:39 pm by amy »

Jessiegirl

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #26 on: 09 May 2022, 11:36:42 pm »
No nobody knows I don't think. The friends story is just in case we get talking to someone on holiday and I'd rather say we're friends than his girlfriend.

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #27 on: 10 May 2022, 12:36:00 am »
Great advice as normal ladies. I also have a question on this as I was asked in the past by a regular but didnt know how to respond.

Would you charge for this or would the client expect it to be "free" as they're paying for you to travel? Personally I havent travelled much as I'm quite young and never really had the means so wouldnt mind just being taken somewhere nice for free but if I can get paid to go then even better. If you do charge, how does that work? So far I've only charged hourly rates (with the exception of a couple of overnights with some regulars) so would be keen to understand how you ladies charge for a booking extending more than one day (e.g. a weekend or a whole week).

Also based on the above, (especially if I'm charging for the time) is it fair to expect that everything would be paid for by the client? Drinks, dinners, any activities we do, etc?

I have a weekend rate that is about 3 x my 12 hour overnight rate and then every 24 hours after that is charged at my 14 hour overnight rate.

I ask for a separate room to be paid and yes, he covers expenses for any time we spend together.

I did a 5 day booking recently and I had tons of free time and it was somewhere cheap so I covered meals etc when I wasn't with him.

oh plus all travel obviously.

MsRedhead

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #28 on: 10 May 2022, 12:37:22 am »
How does it work with booking the flights? I'm guessing they must pay you upfront for the flight money because I can't imagine trusting any client enough to give my real details. So when you say they put you in business class does that mean you check the prices and tell them how much you need to book the flight?

yes, I do this

MsRedhead

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #29 on: 10 May 2022, 12:38:22 am »
Interesting Salty, thanks! I wonder how it works if the client is based abroad and wants to fly you to them? They can't pay cash in that case. I guess that's where the age old problem of deposits comes in

international bank transfer. name verification isn't needed for them. they can also use Wise or Xe.