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Jessiegirl

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Holiday booking
« on: 08 May 2022, 05:04:41 pm »
Hi all. I've been offered a holiday booking over a long weekend with a regular. I've known him a few years and done one overnight so totally comfortable with him.

He is expecting sex three or four times a day. I just wondered if you think this is reasonable. Do you agree this in advance or just go with the flow whilst out there.

We will be doing stuff during the day and eating out.

thickthighs

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #1 on: 08 May 2022, 05:10:22 pm »
I think only you can answer this one

Femme fatale

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #2 on: 08 May 2022, 05:14:39 pm »
I'm not sure on your payment agreement with him. I guess he's expecting that service included .it would be something I'd expect from a client to want , but in excess of that might be too much .
What are you comfortable with ?

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #3 on: 08 May 2022, 06:15:41 pm »
If you are happy with sex three - four times a day, that’s great. It’s down to personal preferences and what you are happy with. If you are not, is this something you will agree to for more money? I guess it also depends on how you charge for extended bookings.

I charge a fair whack for a long weekend and am also very clear about what my boundaries are. I always get in writing what the client’s wants are. I also stipulate how much time I expect with regards to undisturbed sleep and I always request one hour/ninety minutes of me/alone time per day. None of my holiday bookings have been extended fuckfests, it’s usually a session in the morning, sometimes another during an afternoon siesta and one before we go to sleep. It’s all very pedestrian tbh!


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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #4 on: 08 May 2022, 08:07:32 pm »
Great advice as normal ladies. I also have a question on this as I was asked in the past by a regular but didnt know how to respond.

Would you charge for this or would the client expect it to be "free" as they're paying for you to travel? Personally I havent travelled much as I'm quite young and never really had the means so wouldnt mind just being taken somewhere nice for free but if I can get paid to go then even better. If you do charge, how does that work? So far I've only charged hourly rates (with the exception of a couple of overnights with some regulars) so would be keen to understand how you ladies charge for a booking extending more than one day (e.g. a weekend or a whole week).

Also based on the above, (especially if I'm charging for the time) is it fair to expect that everything would be paid for by the client? Drinks, dinners, any activities we do, etc?

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #5 on: 08 May 2022, 09:42:29 pm »
Would you charge for this or would the client expect it to be "free" as they're paying for you to travel? Personally I havent travelled much as I'm quite young and never really had the means so wouldnt mind just being taken somewhere nice for free but if I can get paid to go then even better. If you do charge, how does that work? So far I've only charged hourly rates (with the exception of a couple of overnights with some regulars) so would be keen to understand how you ladies charge for a booking extending more than one day (e.g. a weekend or a whole week).

Also based on the above, (especially if I'm charging for the time) is it fair to expect that everything would be paid for by the client? Drinks, dinners, any activities we do, etc?

You will be at work twenty four hours a day and stuck with the same person - in any other job if an employer told you they were sending you off to the Maldives for work but they weren't going to pay you because you should be grateful just to be going to the Maldives, you'd laugh them out of the room and this is no different. I would go insane, but then I'm cranky and couldn't stand being away from my own bed and Mr Amy for that long, plus anybody trying to paw at me when I'm asleep or just awake is likely to find themselves going over the balcony  ;D.

All expense and fees paid, including not just your loss of other earnings but the amount of extra work you'll be doing and also the admin you'll need to catch up when you get back (although the few times I've done longer bookings I've had free time instead); paying for a lunch/dinner or a couple of rounds of drinks would be good form, but not necessary. Then when you have your money you can pay for your own holiday and go with people you've chosen :).

Don't forget your security either - you'll need to keep your passport safe and if possible check in separately/out of earshot in case they bellow your legal name out loud. Take an emergency fund or credit card on case you wind up high and dry (and keep it and your passport safe and out of his reach) and make sure your security buddy is on the ball.
« Last Edit: 08 May 2022, 09:46:26 pm by amy »

Miffy

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #6 on: 08 May 2022, 10:02:28 pm »
SpecialDiva,

Exactly what Amy said. If a client wants to take you away, they pay for everything, not just the holiday itself.  Not only is the flight (or train) paid for, but I expect my travel to and from the airport/train station at both ends to be covered plus a little extra for expenses at the airport. If it is a long haul trip, I stipulate business class but offer the option of flying out a day early in economy plus a night in a hotel room by myself (I also charge my day rate for this.) Often it works out cheaper to just put me in business class.

For my fee, well, it’s completely up to you. I operate a sliding scale - the longer our time together, the more economical it is. One day rate is my overnight rate plus 50%, two day rate is one day rate plus my overnight rate, three days is x3 overnights plus a bit more. Anything longer is negotiable although I won’t do anything longer than 5 days unless the client books a suite and I have my own room.

 

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #7 on: 08 May 2022, 10:38:22 pm »
Thank you both and sorry for my naivety. I'll keep in mind but I think there is a lot to consider at the moment. I dont think I'll be taking this kind of booking anytime soon but at least it gives me something to think about in case the opportunity comes up again

Jessiegirl

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #8 on: 08 May 2022, 11:14:33 pm »
Thanks for all your replies. So I've told him  id prefer if we just go with the flow and be spontaneous as I much enjoy it that way. He's paying for everything including three overnight booking rates. So for three days and nights ill earn what I normally do in a month so seems like a win win. Also enjoy his company and sex too with him. Lots of orgasms guaranteed.

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #9 on: 08 May 2022, 11:25:41 pm »
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« Last Edit: 17 June 2022, 02:09:31 am by saltysweet »

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #10 on: 09 May 2022, 01:08:17 am »
How does it work with booking the flights? I'm guessing they must pay you upfront for the flight money because I can't imagine trusting any client enough to give my real details. So when you say they put you in business class does that mean you check the prices and tell them how much you need to book the flight?

saltysweet

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #11 on: 09 May 2022, 01:29:00 am »
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« Last Edit: 17 June 2022, 02:09:38 am by saltysweet »

Dora

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #12 on: 09 May 2022, 01:39:30 am »
Interesting Salty, thanks! I wonder how it works if the client is based abroad and wants to fly you to them? They can't pay cash in that case. I guess that's where the age old problem of deposits comes in

saltysweet

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #13 on: 09 May 2022, 02:06:31 am »
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« Last Edit: 17 June 2022, 02:09:44 am by saltysweet »

Dora

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #14 on: 09 May 2022, 02:37:56 am »
Very true, we have to stay in control. Good on you for getting him to post cash, that's impressive!

OP, do you think you would be comfortable having sex with him three or four times a day (assuming he can manage it?) It sounds as if you're already comfortable with him from previous bookings but a 'holiday' is a different kettle of fish because it's going to be much more intense. Try and negotiate some you time, even just an hour to relax and recharge.