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London2012girl

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Holiday booking
« on: 19 August 2014, 02:34:31 pm »
Hey girls,

I'm asked to go on a week (6 days) holidays to the Caribbean with an regular I have seen the past 4 months every monday and every friday for 3 hours each. We already looked up hotels and flights and I believe he really wanna go on that holidays.

He told me to think about, how much money i would like for the trip. I never did an overnight so im not sure what to charge for 6 days (?!)

I know its really depends on what you charge hourly from each girls but maybe an price range you would do?

Another question, obviously the client dont know my real name etc. How do i keep this private with flight tickets etc? can i or cant i?

Thanks girls,

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amy

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #1 on: 19 August 2014, 04:50:34 pm »
I wouldn't take a booking like this, but as far as the tickets go you can find out how much the travel costs are and ask for this amount as your deposit to secure the six days, and that way you can book your own (make sure you get the right flight details and so on ;D).

I'd also take yourself a Jiffy bag to put your personal bits in (house keys, travel tickets home, passport, some money just in case) and stash it in the hotel safe when you get a chance - don't let on you have, and make sure it's written on there that it must only be returned to you personally :).

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #2 on: 19 August 2014, 05:00:14 pm »
You can't keep your name private as I assume he's doing the booking so you will no longer be 'anonymous.' It's up to you if you think this is a huge problem.

With regard to cost I would work out how much you would earn from other clients and add that on to my overnight rate X 6. Please bear in mind this is only what I would do. The other issue is whether you like this client enough to spend that much time in his company.

Other things to consider are whether you will get time off? You can't be expected to be at his beck and call 24 hours a day. Also, how much sex will be on the agenda? I mean if he expects '24 hour room service' my costs would go up!!

I would cross all the t's and dot the i's before I signed my real name away on the dotted line.
 
If it all stacks up and you are happy - pack those bags and enjoy!!  ;D

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #3 on: 19 August 2014, 08:00:56 pm »
You can't keep your name private as I assume he's doing the booking so you will no longer be 'anonymous.

She can if she books her own travel as suggested above, and is careful with her passport and travel documents. Since most of us would require a deposit anyway for a booking this long and intensive, that's the way to get the money for it :).

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #4 on: 19 August 2014, 08:07:29 pm »
Well yes, obviously, but I assumed since he was paying HE would be booking. Personally, it sounds too complicated otherwise. Only MY opinion though.

A couple of my regular clients have my real name but that is MY choice.

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #5 on: 20 August 2014, 12:59:04 pm »
I wouldn't take a booking like this, but as far as the tickets go you can find out how much the travel costs are and ask for this amount as your deposit to secure the six days, and that way you can book your own (make sure you get the right flight details and so on ;D).

I'd also take yourself a Jiffy bag to put your personal bits in (house keys, travel tickets home, passport, some money just in case) and stash it in the hotel safe when you get a chance - don't let on you have, and make sure it's written on there that it must only be returned to you personally :).

Great idea with the jiffy bag and booking my flights myself. I already told him I would want my return ticket to secure he is not selling myself over there

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #6 on: 20 August 2014, 01:03:36 pm »
With regard to cost I would work out how much you would earn from other clients and add that on to my overnight rate X 6. Please bear in mind this is only what I would do. The other issue is whether you like this client enough to spend that much time in his company.

Other things to consider are whether you will get time off? You can't be expected to be at his beck and call 24 hours a day. Also, how much sex will be on the agenda? I mean if he expects '24 hour room service' my costs would go up!!

i like the idea of overrnight x6 + would else i would earn but i feel silly to ask for like 5k (+) for an holidays.  Its do sound a lot to me. I dont think he will want '24 hour room service' as our weekly meetings are more about dinner, me getting a long massage and a short sex part, but good point to talk about that with him before the holidays

Thanks girls!

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #7 on: 20 August 2014, 02:06:23 pm »
With regard to cost I would work out how much you would earn from other clients and add that on to my overnight rate X 6. Please bear in mind this is only what I would do. The other issue is whether you like this client enough to spend that much time in his company.

Other things to consider are whether you will get time off? You can't be expected to be at his beck and call 24 hours a day. Also, how much sex will be on the agenda? I mean if he expects '24 hour room service' my costs would go up!!

i like the idea of overrnight x6 + would else i would earn but i feel silly to ask for like 5k (+) for an holidays.  Its do sound a lot to me. I dont think he will want '24 hour room service' as our weekly meetings are more about dinner, me getting a long massage and a short sex part, but good point to talk about that with him before the holidays

Thanks girls!

I charge about overnight X 4 for a week with my oldest regular but I usually get a prada bag, a suitcase full of new clothes and LOTS of spare time.

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #8 on: 20 August 2014, 02:47:42 pm »
i like the idea of overrnight x6 + would else i would earn but i feel silly to ask for like 5k (+) for an holidays.
It's not a holiday - it's six solid days of work with (hopefully) a few breaks so that you can make contact with your family/partner/friends and have a bit of breathing space to yourself :). Try not to think about the location itself so much as what you're being asked to do.

If you worked for Company X and they told you they were sending you off to work in the Maldives (or wherever) for a month but they weren't going to pay you any salary for it as the trip to the Maldives ought to be reward enough, you'd tell them to fuck right off. Well I would ;D.

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #9 on: 20 August 2014, 03:02:28 pm »
I agree with Amy. It's not a holiday - far from it!
 
If I was losing out on regular business I would definitely factor it in plus the overnights. It's business - pure and simple. If he can't afford your price, too bad.

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #10 on: 20 August 2014, 03:12:58 pm »
I think it is pretty ridiculous to charge 6x overnights rate for a week holiday considering he is paying for the flights, hotel+ everything else. One would have to have a stupid amount of money to afford it.

Yes, it is work, but the question the OP needs to ask herself is if she wants to go? I think going on holiday with a regular can be quite fun as long as you genuinely like him plus he is not going to be demanding 24h sex. Elle mentioned her regular is interested in the social side/massage with sex as well of course but it isn't like they will be going on vacation only to stay in the hotel room all day and shag!

I think 4x overnight rate is a fair amount and if you make it clear to your regular that you are not going to be his blow up doll for the week and he is understanding; you should go for it.

If you find it sometimes hard to be in his company though I would advise against going away with him; you will end up resenting him.

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #11 on: 21 August 2014, 12:30:01 pm »
Considering if you think about it. He wont want sex 24/7. You WILL get chill time (& if you feel you arn't getting it, make sure you do)

I'd only really charge max ?3000 for it. Anything else would be cheeky. It's different with a holiday but of course up to you & how comfortable you feel with this guy aka how much it feels like work. Of course any client can turn bad but it's up to you. I never drop my rates but given the circumstances it's only ever debatable then. Hey, it's much more luxury than what i was offered, a caravan trip to cornwall for ?500. No.

Of course it wont feel like a full blown holiday, you will have to give sex on demand within reason & chitchat even if you feel you want to wind down so don't get too excited but it's new territory so just go with the flow & make sure he pays you up front else refuse to go anywhere with him. If he tells you he will pay you after the holiday because that is when he gets paid. I don;t care how much you trust him. Don't do it. Ever.

When on holiday remember you are still on the job, so preen yourself in the morning even just a little to be believable, keep the fantasy up & all that jazz.

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Re: Holiday booking
« Reply #12 on: 21 August 2014, 12:42:20 pm »
Work out roughly what you make in a week. That's your minimum price - it's the week's money you're not getting because you're with him.

Find out just what he expects - how much time off will you have, for example, and are you expected to appear to be in lurve with him every second you are out of bed? Is the figure from the first paragraph enough for that? If not, increase it until it is.

That's the price to ask for (in addition to the money for the flights etc obviously...)
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