Apologies if this sounds like a silly question but I would really value some feedback..

Basically I?ve been working really hard for the past six months or so trying to build up a good size pool of regulars. The sort I can rely on consistently in times of drought when new business is harder to come by (admittedly that hasn?t happened to me yet but I like to plan for every eventuality).

I used to offer guys a discount after 3 bookings but I had to stop that because truthfully it was a bit too successful. I ended up taking more bookings at discounted rates than my normal rates which meant I had to work longer to make the same money. I don?t do that anymore and I?m happy to report that it?s not made a noticeable difference. But I did have one or two grumbles.

However I worry about keeping the interest of the regular guys. I just worry that unless I spice things up for these guys eventually they?ll tire of me and go elsewhere. I really don?t want that to happen. Trust me, each and every of my regs is a star as clients go, hence why I'm bothered about holding onto them!

For example I have this one guy I?ve been seeing since my Alisha_996 days and I've noticed in the past couple of bookings, he?s left early, not being his normal perky self and I get the vibe he?s getting bored of me. Is there anything I can do to stop the rot? Or is that just the way things are?

So my question, for those ladies who?ve been seeing the same guys for months/years/decades how do you maintain the momentum?

Thank you
xxx

Continuing offering a great service and punters will come back. I honestly think the best compliment that a punter can give you is returning. It is after all the biggest indicator that you're doing your job *right*.

Personally with regulars I suggest things and see if there is anything they would like to try. I find that with regulars I have much better sex than with just one timers, so naturally the more they see you...the better it gets 

I do offer discounts to my fav regular clients in the form of a reduction in price or extra time. I don't mind doing this, as yes per hour I might be getting less money... but I know they are reliable, and most of the time I'm going to have a great time too! Obviously if its a regular that is draining in some way then I wouldn't offer a discount. Oh and I never do discounts on half an hours (but I encourage them to book an hour at a reduced cost).

In terms of clients getting bored... yes it happens, its sort of inevitable *eventually* but by that point you would have acquired another regular to take his place. 

 
xx

Thanks ladies for taking the time to respond.

@Lady Lust ? Awww thanks! You?re making me blush lol. I know we can?t be everything to everybody and I know I can be *bit* of a worry wart at times, but I suppose I?m like that because I don?t like the idea of becoming complacent. Everyday there are new girls coming into the industry and it seems to me the good clients are getting less and less. That?s why I want to make sure I?m doing everything I can to hang onto the good ones and pick up any useful tips from the more experienced ladies out there.

@Casey Kisses ? I completely agree with you about sex being better with regulars. I suppose that?s inevitable because after a while there?s a certain level of intimacy. I hear what you?re saying about asking about other things they like and I do this but sometimes with the more ?vanilla? clients it can be more difficult. I like your approach to discounts and I think I might try it again, because guys did really appreciate it, but this time I won?t advertise it to all. I?ll only make the offer to guys I really, really like after a certain number of bookings. I don?t do half hours so that?s not an issue for me but yes I can see why it would be silly to knock anything off them. Thanks xx

Not a bad tip at all. Mind you, I probably wouldn?t text as you never know when they might turn their phone on again and who might see the message, but certainly it?s a good line to say before parting company. Thanks! 

See, the way I see it, it is a good idea to do it, but at the same time it is a very bad thing to do too incase as you say, someone they dont want to see the message might just see it, so playing a dicey game IMO.  If its just two seconds after they have left the apartment and you know they may have just gotten into the car ok but any more than 3 or 4 mins later and it would be a definite no no.

@Casey Kisses – I completely agree with you about sex being better with regulars. I suppose that’s inevitable because after a while there’s a certain level of intimacy.

I must work a totally different way from others for although we get into "close encounters" with our clients I NEVER see it as being "intimacy" because for me that is only within a loving relationship and that is definitely not what I call a booking.  But that is just MO, Im not getting at anyone who sees it in the way they do in their business.

I have my fave regular who visits every week and has done without fail since June last year when i met him as he'd only just started punting his wife had died about 3 months earlier, he bought me lovely presents for xmas and my birthday, is always on time and trustworthy so tonight when he visited I told him he can have his half hour for ?50 instead of ?60 next time he comes

its only a small discount but I'd like to keep the regular as hes nice and a good source of weekly bread & butter, I dont feel im about to lose him but want to show my appreciation as hes spent a lot of money on me

maybe you could offer a small discount like this to loyal regulars? this is the only client iv done it with as to be honest apart from one guy in a parlour who'd visit weekly this is the most a 'regular' has visited me

I do special offers in times of drought with ?10 or ?20 off my normal hourly fee, I do it for hour bookings only and it usually works quite well xx

I have some lovely monthly regular clients and some weekly, sadly i had to let go of 2 regulars due to the behaviour towards me of recent shame though.
when people cancel the first time its understandable if ive seen them numerous times b4, but after keep cancelling its taking the piss a bit.
and the other guy broke 2 chairs and didnt even offer to pay for repair or replacement. I have new regular who is fantastic company great communicator and so far all good .

One thing I've started doing to encourage AW regulars is sending them the PIN for a photo gallery if I've recently done a shoot or something. I did it as a Xmas present just before Xmas and it was made several guys very happy! Although one guy couldn't figure out how to do it so bought the album again anyway so he could see! LOL! I wouldn't text or email if I didn't know it was safe but often will send a follow up email on AW to say thanks for a great time etc.

Apologies if this sounds like a silly question but I would really value some feedback..

Basically I?ve been working really hard for the past six months or so trying to build up a good size pool of regulars. The sort I can rely on consistently in times of drought when new business is harder to come by (admittedly that hasn?t happened to me yet but I like to plan for every eventuality).

I used to offer guys a discount after 3 bookings but I had to stop that because truthfully it was a bit too successful. I ended up taking more bookings at discounted rates than my normal rates which meant I had to work longer to make the same money. I don?t do that anymore and I?m happy to report that it?s not made a noticeable difference. But I did have one or two grumbles.

However I worry about keeping the interest of the regular guys. I just worry that unless I spice things up for these guys eventually they?ll tire of me and go elsewhere. I really don?t want that to happen. Trust me, each and every of my regs is a star as clients go, hence why I'm bothered about holding onto them!

For example I have this one guy I?ve been seeing since my Alisha_996 days and I've noticed in the past couple of bookings, he?s left early, not being his normal perky self and I get the vibe he?s getting bored of me. Is there anything I can do to stop the rot? Or is that just the way things are?

So my question, for those ladies who?ve been seeing the same guys for months/years/decades how do you maintain the momentum?

Thank you
xxx

I don't think you need to worry about your clients if they come back that's good, if they don't it's not a bad thing either men just like to shop around to see if they can get different experiences afterall you only live once. Some men just visit different women and never stick to one then they suddenly appear months/weeks later.
Your other client that seems bored there could be many reasons why he isn't his perky self, work/family/friends/relationship/health, stop laying the blame at your door.