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luciefate

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Sore bits!
« on: 29 June 2014, 02:17:56 pm »
Hi all,

I have just started working part time and am really enjoying it.

I had a client on Friday (who used his fingers mostly which I'm not keen on) and 2 last night. What advice can you offer on sore bits??

I am only planning on 4 clients a week but with sore lady parts already I am a bit concerned. I do use lots of lube but I think it might be the fingers that are the trouble.

What do you do to counteract this girls? All tips gratefully received!!

Lucie x
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Re: Sore bits!
« Reply #1 on: 29 June 2014, 02:21:26 pm »
Lucie, you don't know what germs are on their hands, at least with penetration there is a condom.  You may find if you stop allowing the fingering the discomfort disappears?
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Re: Sore bits!
« Reply #2 on: 29 June 2014, 02:37:11 pm »
For the soreness, how used are you to having a couple of partners in a night and how vigorous was the sex?

For the fingering, from what I gather, and amongst the reasons why I hate fingers in my bum, the problems are more often nails and roughness. But yes, I'd stop offering it, largely because you're not keen on it. If you were more ok with it, you could try gloves.
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luciefate

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Re: Sore bits!
« Reply #3 on: 29 June 2014, 03:14:41 pm »
Hi,

I'm not used to it tbh. Also, they are one hour bookings.

I think I will stop them using fingers.

L x
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caylee_k

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Re: Sore bits!
« Reply #4 on: 29 June 2014, 03:28:00 pm »
I always tells them they cannot finger-fuck me-- because yes, guys don't realize how sensitive our parts are just go to town with their fucking nails. I also don't need some guy sticking his fingers in me and then penetrating me...

For soreness, what I have found online is good is to take a long, hot bath in-between, apply vagisil and use a heating pad, and tons and tons of lube.
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Re: Sore bits!
« Reply #5 on: 29 June 2014, 03:37:33 pm »

I don't offer fingering because i can't stand it it tbh, Whether it be when i'm escorting or with somebody from civvie life i've never liked it to begin with. I would get a lot of guys who'd get carried away and leave me feeling sore downstairs so i stopped letting them altogether. You don't need to offer it, it's not mandatory and the majority of clients won't care because it's not as though you're saying 'no blow jobs'  now is it ;)
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luciefate

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Re: Sore bits!
« Reply #6 on: 29 June 2014, 04:18:52 pm »
Thank you all so much!

I hate being finger fucked and my bf and I never do it or need to. He much prefers a blow job.

I'll buy vagisil and go and run a hot bath!!

I can't tell you how much I appreciate your advice and being on this forum.

Lucie xxx
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Re: Sore bits!
« Reply #7 on: 29 June 2014, 09:38:28 pm »
HI Lucie,

I sometimes find fingers a bit much when they are used too soon and/or are rough with it.

You could mention it in your pre-shower prelude that "nothing goes inside me without being covered in latex" which means they need to use finger stalls or gloves.

Fingers, hangnails & hands in general are way less abrasive when covered in latex & I often use them when fisting my own bits for added mileage  ;D
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