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Karina

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Killing time
« on: 08 December 2008, 05:06:08 am »
Hey Guys,

I am new and just wondering how do you kill time during 2 hour and longer bookings. Just if you have any ideas on what to do during booking please let me know =) thank you

Welsh Lass

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #1 on: 08 December 2008, 07:55:07 am »
Talk?
I find 2 hours goes really fast personally. With a new person it's kind of nice to find out about them - to a point, I mean, you don't need to know everything.
Just ask about his job, what he does, does he like it? What it involves. If he does not want to talk about it then you have music, what do you like, films? Holidays, where do you like to go away? Where would your absolute dream place to visit be?
I have pets and my kitten fell asleep in a guys jeans once, it was hysterical as the jeans started to move across the floor by themselves, so we talked about cats and his dog....
You'll be surprised what you can find to talk about really, you think you will have little in common, but there is always something, always.
You will know when the guy walks through the door or you walk into his place, you get a feel for the sort of person he is and somehow know to talk a lot, a bit or not much at all.
Just relax and the awkward silences are rarely awkward - sometimes you will come up against the person that you struggle to get any conversation going with, but you will do that in any walk of life I guess - it's not always like that though.
I was a bit like yourself when I started going, all worried about what to talk about, how to structure the time. Honestly, I don't even think about it now. It goes as it goes, I wait till the guy is in front of me and take it from there.
I had a guy that was awful, terrible and before the booking I was on pins, after it I swore that was that - never again would I worry about it. It can never be as bad as the booking I just went through. It never really has been either. It was really, really awful though, Ha. It cured me of this worry. I can't take responsibility if a man can't hold a conversation, I tried hard, it was not my fault.
You'll be okay.
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medea

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #2 on: 08 December 2008, 12:37:15 pm »
:)

yes just talk and let it come to you
and i am a firm believer if you relax and go with the flow you don't have to worry what to talk about, and what to do. ..

i let it come to me and every booking is different

cecilia.chic

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #3 on: 08 December 2008, 03:34:12 pm »
Same as above - talking about work, hobbies, music, books, movies.  Lately I've started carrying some massage oil because that fills up the time if the guy isn't a talker.  He can just lie there and relax so the pressure's off you to keep a conversation going.  Of course, sometimes just sitting there stroking their chest or neck or hair works too.  Some people just want to be close to you for that time, you don't actually have to do anything. 

But I know what mean, it can feel like a looooooong time if the main event is over early in a date.

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #4 on: 08 December 2008, 06:31:36 pm »
yes i can second that just sitting there, and being close is what a lot of clients to ask for too.

yes that with the massage oil is a really good idea too

Lilly1230

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #5 on: 10 December 2008, 07:14:01 pm »
I carry some erotica with me and offer to read a few passages. Quite often they love hearing someone read to them and it often gets things started again (cue that extra hour booking!) There's plenty on offer on Amazon and once you get familiar with it, you can pick the best chapters to zoom into!

Hope that helps.

Lilly xxx

cecilia.chic

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #6 on: 10 December 2008, 07:38:15 pm »
I hadn't thought of that!  I might give it a go.

lexienight

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #7 on: 10 December 2008, 07:42:47 pm »
im already on amazon looking.  what a bloody brilliant idea.

Lilly1230

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #8 on: 10 December 2008, 09:08:44 pm »
I also bought a job lot as Christmas presents for my regulars and gift wrapped them, with any luck should inspire a bit of customer loyalty!

lexienight

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #9 on: 10 December 2008, 09:15:03 pm »
I also bought a job lot as Christmas presents for my regulars and gift wrapped them, with any luck should inspire a bit of customer loyalty!

Good idea.  i was thinking about getting those cheap durex vibrating cock rings. lol  i thought it would be funny but then i thought they might take it badly???  the books might be a better idea lol  ;D

Lilly1230

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Re: Killing time
« Reply #10 on: 10 December 2008, 09:21:44 pm »
LOL, now I'm going to buy shares in Black Lace books!

Lilly x