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css3456

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Extending bookings part two
« on: 25 June 2010, 10:56:57 am »
Inspired by Joey, I'm posting about a similar situation. Great guy, we're really enjoying ourselves, lose track of time and go over a bit. Then, realize that there's no good transport from his place at that hour. He wants me to stay over, but I have somewhere to go in the morning. So I make him call me a cab. He's not happy.

I felt bad about it, but didn't want to do an unplanned overnight without my toothbrush, change of clothes, etc. I tried to be graceful but felt like it was an awkward situation. What should I have said to make it less awkward?

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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #1 on: 25 June 2010, 02:19:03 pm »
I felt bad about it, but didn't want to do an unplanned overnight without my toothbrush, change of clothes, etc. I tried to be graceful but felt like it was an awkward situation. What should I have said to make it less awkward?

"Stop making a sulky baby face, you giant toddler, and book my taxi now. Or do you have ?1000 on you right now to pay me for an overnight? You think I want to stay here, unplanned, sucking dick for 12 hours and not getting any sleep? No? Good."

Er, or that might've made it more awkward. ;D Honestly, though, why is he being difficult with you? Is he a giant child? Can he not possibly understand that you might actually not be madly in love with him but might perhaps want to go home after your job is finished? Is that somehow complicated? Can I even get any more sarcastic? I dunno. I have no patience for childish men, not once the booking is over and my fee is no longer being paid. Why should we? It's not a woman's job to pander to men, though it might well be an escort's. But when the time's up, the escort has to leave!
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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #2 on: 25 June 2010, 06:06:48 pm »
More like what could HE have done to make it less awkward!!!  (God what a really weird word that is  when you look at it?  ;D).

You done nothing wrong - your time was up, he should have OFFERED to call you a cab instead of being a big eejit and making you feel bad.  x

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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #3 on: 25 June 2010, 11:46:19 pm »
Never feel bad. Simply collect your fee, do your job and leave.
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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #4 on: 26 June 2010, 02:02:39 am »
Good grief! What the hell is the matter some of these men? You have to ask the question, what upset him more, the fact he had to call a cab, or the fact that you choose to keep it business and leave? Bloody idiots.

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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #5 on: 27 June 2010, 11:44:38 am »
Next time you do an outcall make sure you have the number of a taxi firm on your phone. Never rely on a client to arrange your transport. Pop to the loo ring a taxi and when you come back out say that your taxi will be here in 5mins. You are sorry but you have other commitments and as you have already gone over time you need to get a move on.
If he gets arsey or pouty and sulky then say, well if you pay me for the extra time already had, I will be willing to stay overnight next time. He will be more than eager to get you out the door then. In all likely hood you will not be seeing him again as he didnt get his own way so it makes no difference what you say.

Thats the problem with going over time, you give a little then the sods want all bloody night.
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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #6 on: 27 June 2010, 03:01:03 pm »
I often apply the 'Two year old Rule'. I learned this when the little one an infant, do not start any activity or peek-a-boo game with a two year child, that you don't want to keep on doing for hours on end. Same applies to clients, don't start anything that you want to have to keep doing, stick to the rules, it is better for all concerned.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #7 on: 27 June 2010, 06:53:57 pm »
Yeah I agree with Danielle. It would be better to ensure that you have transportation worked out already.

What should you have said? Well...exactly what you are telling us. I didnt see in your post anything about you telling him these things. Had you told him, maybe he'd been more understanding?


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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #8 on: 27 June 2010, 08:22:22 pm »
Joey, she wasn't moving in or staying over night, so the client didn't have any right to get put out because she had to leave. Ok, maybe a bit more forethought is required in the future to prevent being stuck, the only bloody thing the client has to understand is she provided the service, time for her to leave, and if he wanted her to stay longer, the gallant thing to do was to offer her the moneys for the extra time. Not pout like a spoiled toddler who's bottle has been taken away.

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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #9 on: 27 June 2010, 08:53:55 pm »
Here here! If a client wants to throw his toys out of his pram because I dont wish to spend another unpaid 7hours so be it. Would they work unpaid just because im nice?! No!
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Re: Extending bookings part two
« Reply #10 on: 28 June 2010, 08:24:05 pm »
the gallant thing to do was to offer her the moneys for the extra time. Not pout like a spoiled toddler who's bottle has been taken away.

Yeah, but she said she didnt want to do the overnight because she wasn't prepared with toiletries. She didnt mention anything about the client not wanting to pay her.

Either way, I dont blame her. Last night my boyfriend (aka former client LOL) wanted me to stay overnight but I hadn't planned on it. Eventually he got upset because I couldn't fall asleep. Well, I was not mentally prepared to sleep at 11 PM...so I left and went grocery shopping  :D