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Taralouise23

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hi friends wanted
« on: 11 October 2008, 08:52:49 pm »
how sad does that title sound... NO im not that bad really.... I used to have lots of escort friends however one has packed in and is worse than a reformed smoker lol and the other has started using drugs... Both of which are not the best to moan at after a bad booking or tell how good a good booking is.. LOL  I have lots of other frineds and a few know i am an escort but nobody knows how your feeling better than another escort... LOL

so friends wanted im in the midlands

Tara xxx

UrbaneAspects

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #1 on: 11 October 2008, 11:08:47 pm »
how sad does that title sound... NO im not that bad really.... I used to have lots of escort friends however one has packed in and is worse than a reformed smoker lol and the other has started using drugs... Both of which are not the best to moan at after a bad booking or tell how good a good booking is.. LOL  I have lots of other frineds and a few know i am an escort but nobody knows how your feeling better than another escort... LOL

so friends wanted im in the midlands

Tara xxx

we are your friends...virtual companions together, our only bond being to relate for a common cause. 

LondonEvie

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #2 on: 11 October 2008, 11:23:52 pm »



oh yeah- Virtual, industry related friends rule (and in this one instance that is absolutely true!)


 Welcome Tara xx

medea

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #3 on: 12 October 2008, 10:19:40 am »
welcome tara

and for me i am also looking for friends as you are who are in a similar boat, so i hear, understand and can relate to your post :)

and as they others have truly stated we are all here for each other in one or the other way, virtually

and i think it is also a good place to reach out to others and also there is plenty of opportunity to moan, share and (ask and answer questions)
:)

brandy@saafe

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #4 on: 12 October 2008, 03:01:09 pm »
I know. It's hard to find good friends in this business isn't? Until you do, you know you're more than welcome to sound off here. That's what it's for.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #5 on: 12 October 2008, 10:07:34 pm »
I know. It's hard to find good friends in this business isn't? Until you do, you know you're more than welcome to sound off here. That's what it's for.

When it comes to having friends, I personally have none that are in the industry. The ones I have known have been really sneaky and they arent out to give you any advice either. (I speak of guys, women may be different) I've had some tell me they would get me on websites or introduce me to clients...never happened. I realized the potential comes from me, booking experiences and the pictures done by the best photographers.

However, I have some older acquientences who arent in the industry,...but since they have no idea about it, are able to give me a perspective from a clients standpoint, which has helped me out quite a bit.

Welsh Lass

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #6 on: 13 October 2008, 07:57:56 am »
Hi Tara,
          It is very tough going when you can't tell your friends things about your life. Not even the funny things like, I slipped off the bed and ended up on my arse on the floor! God damned silk sheets!
I know something like that would have my 'regular' friends laughing their heads off - but couldn't tell them.
Fortunately, through this site I have met a couple of really lovely friends and it works nicely having 2 sets of friends.
I am finding as time goes on though, I am having less in common with my regular mates, I don't think it's amusing or funny when they claim, as the single girl in the group, I need to find a man and night's out, the conversation is almost dedicated to that. If they only knew, the last thing I want on a night out is to hook up with a man.
I have a booking tonight and just got a text from a friend telling me there is a party in the pub - I can't go as I made this booking on Friday - no way would I cancel it for a party, it's just the lies - I have lied and the only thing I could think of to say was I had a date lined up. There would be no other reason I would not be at the party tonight. I am not ill and they know it. I have a babysitter and they know that as well. It's not easy sometimes. I will have to make up a load of tosh about some date when I see them next - I don't feel like going would only get me nagged and my phone would be going all evening so I would have to switch it off and then they would be asking why it was off and what is the matter - so a date seemed like the only thing I could come up with.
You would think Mondays would be safe on the friends party scene, it seems not!
Jo

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medea

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #7 on: 13 October 2008, 08:06:01 am »
yes one would think monday would be safe on the party scene but it seems not

not telling my regular friends what i am doing is what i find most difficult;

lexienight

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #8 on: 13 October 2008, 08:36:56 am »
Joanna

Tell your friends the date went so well you threw caution to the wind and went back to his place but he had silk sheets and you fell off the bed on to your arse so you dont think you will bother seeing him again.   :D

Lexie

Taralouise23

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #9 on: 13 October 2008, 09:18:15 am »
thanks all  :D its nice to no there is support when you need it xxxxxxxx

celebate

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Re: hi friends wanted
« Reply #10 on: 13 October 2008, 05:55:32 pm »
no, no, it's good to say you're seeing him again - so you can use it as an excuse haha! Believe me! Just avoid the subject of him though.

Also, I'm in london (but visit the midlands once in a while to see family) so a bit away but if you want just give me a pm or an email and i'll drop my number - I get unlimited texts (<3) and am a complete gab so if you ever want to talk about work or whatever.

xxx