Don't keep it from your boyfriend. It's very unfair and imagine how you would feel if he was a male escort behind your back.
I once had a serious bf and escorted behind his back for a year. It was soul destroying having to lie day in day out and I was always so stressed about being caught. He eventually found out even though I had been so careful (must have been karma) and he was beyond heart broken. I have ruined his life as he no longer trusts any women now and had to go on anti depressents over it. It's not worth it and if you truly love him you wouldn't keep such a life changing secret from him. If you are absolutely set on becoming an escort I would finish things with him if you cant be honest. Easier said than done but its best to go into this job with as much of a clear conscious as possible.

As for ?300 an hour - It isn't impossible to achieve this rate, especially if you are beautiful or have a niche. There is huge competition in london though and the average hourly rate is ?120 - ?150. A lot of women charing those rates are stunning too so why would a client book ?300 when he can get someone just as attractive for 50% less.

Hi thanks for the advice, But as for working for less then 300 I won't do I have already a few interviews set up with my hourly rate , . I suppose I will have to tell him , either way I will once I have some financial security at the moment its him pulling the cash in, hopefully he will be ok with it since hes been very into mentioning the chance to visit sex clubs and threesomes . either way thanks for the info your right its not fair on his part can be soul destroying , either way I only want to do this to get me through college and out of debt any other tips for me thanks?

hopefully he will be ok with it since hes been very into mentioning the chance to visit sex clubs and threesomes .

Hiyas.
I've done a huge amount of sex clubs & threesomes, long before I escorted.
There is no connection at all between recreational sex and commercial sex.
While your man may like the fantasy of visiting a sex club, that is very different to actually going to one.
And if you both went and or swung, that is again another huge leap away from escorting.

Your man likes the idea of a sex club or a threesome.
That doesn't tell you what he would think about you escorting.
Talking with him before any decision on your part, will.

Also hun, ?300 an hour sounds like a dream amount of money, I worked in London before and unfortunately it's getting cheaper. Have a look at what other independents in your area are charging.
Also for some experience would you consider working with an agency for a while? It will be stepping into the shallow end as you don't have to do all your own advertising etc. Although you will probably find it hard find an agency that charges high enough rates for you xx

Hi sorry have been going over the forum , but what is the norm to charge for a hour? also , can I ask how much work does an escort get per week on average? Just im in deep debt not from drugs or anything like that just im from ireland and moved over here with no money and ended up in getting loans off my bf and have to pay him soon

I agree with Sammy, there is no average and one of the most important things to learn is that you never know how long you might have to stretch your money for. This is self-employment and there is no sick pay, holiday pay or backup if you can't work or aren't getting the bookings and I've come back from busy weeks working away before to find I can't face any punters for another week, which effectively splits my income for the previous one in two.

It's a fallacy to think that charging a very high hourly rate will earn you more money - all that happens is that you're relying on fewer people to make the same amount. If somebody charging ?150 pounds an hour wants to make ?600 they need to see four clients, whereas somebody charging ?300 will only need to see two, but what happens when one cancels? Or both? There are plenty of London agencies which charge these sort of fees (and you'll probably get to keep ?200 or thereabouts), but the clients don't generally sound the nicest and the steady regulars which make up the bread and butter for the rest of us don't seem to really happen with the trophy hunter types.

There is lots of good advice in this thread - have a read of the main site and give it a bit more thought - we're all here to help  .

First of all i would say if you have been watching Bell de Jour and want to be an  escort cos you think its all swanning in and out of 5 star hotels and overnights everyweek then sorry to be the bearer of bad news but its all a load of bollock
I mean Ladies did you ever see  Bell taking a  toothbrush with her when she did an overnight let alone a handbag
She saw the dorchester and the savoy every week im lucky if i see travelodge or premier inn  if i get a booking to a marriot or a novatell i think im real posh and high class 

       The way i look at it is like this  -  think of  your potential earnings and clients as a piece of a pie  ( apple pie is my favorite)
    Pie equals clients and earnings

if you charge let say 80 -100 your probably going to appeal to  90 -  95 percent of the pie    your market is the virtually the whole pie give or take a bit 

if  you  charge  120 - 150  you will appeal to  on average    80 - 95 percent of the pie   this is because on average this is the average price that the client are prepared to pay as a rule   


if you want to charge 200 an hour you might be lucky to  appeal to  40 -  60-  percent of the pie  -

if you want to charge 25o an hour  your might get appeal to  25 - 30 percent of the pie  so missing out on a huge  70 percent of potential customers

if you want to charge 300 an hour  you might be very very lucky to  appeal to  5 -10  percent of the pie   but most likely  you will be hungry and misrable as well   and that 90 95  percent of the pie is left for everyone else 

Put simply  at 300 an hour , you probably only targetting or eating  5 -10 percent of the pie or clients who are willing to pay that amount of money for sex,  but within that  5 percent  you will be competing  with every other escort  who is cheaper than you / more establishied younger/ prettier / offering lots of services and those that are the same price as you
 
I would say that to charge those prices  - you would definatly need a professional looking website, professional photos,  and to be groomed and immaculate   
  Girls that charge 130 an hour are struggling in london so   I think that  300 would be pretty much zombie land imo but  good luck on you if you do manage to do it
 
as other have said there isnt an average amount to be earnt, totally depend on how your market yourself , your prices services  location  age looks    Sometime you can earn 200 for the whole day next day  700  totally depends on the bloody weather I think   


I guess from your writing your not british born  and apologies if im wrong  but if you want to charge 300 an hour i would suggest working in places such as sweden / norway where this is the hourly rate 250 -300 an hour 
   
The higher you  charge,  the less market you have to appeal to  you would imo have to market yourself as something very very exclusive 
   
    Think of  the ways cars are marketed    Aston martin,  lamburginis, ferrarhi ect   - you dont see those for sale at your local car garage  next to the  500 vauxhall corsa with a dogy mot ,  yet there are people that will pay 100,000 k plus for a car   But the car manufactors  target the markets that can afford it to pay it -   the small 5 -10 percent of the population that will pay 100,000 k for a car