I wasn't suggesting placing a 'Prostitute seeks driver' ad, just a 'discreet driver/security wanted' type small ad - you would need to carefully vet applicants (in much the same way as we do clients) and I agree it would be complicated but if you could find someone trustworthy and reliable it could be well worth it.

I didn't say childish - I said child-like; there's a difference. In parlours they do exactly what the rest of us do and what you apparently want to be doing - having sex of various kinds with complete strangers of all shapes, sizes and ages for money.

Hi Emily

I have not had time to read through all of your posts but note here you want some numbers of parlours in your area?

Perhaps you should log onto adultwork and do an agency/establishment search for your area - Wales is it ? Swansea?

I really hope you are going into this in the knowledge of what  you are doing.  We can help you here as much as is possible up front but after that once you are "out there" then you are on your own so to speak.

I am not trying in any way to sound condescending - this is just out of concerrn as was a previous mail to you which mentioned concern as well.

Good Luck
Alex xx

hi emily

Ive been on the network a week or so and although i find the advice the more experienced ladies offer is brilliant i have learned an awful lot by doing my own research.  I have had a scam agency called escortopia try to get money out of me (luckily i smelt a rat and from just looking at the posts on this site i had my suspisions confirmed) i also had an interview with an agency that i didnt feel comfortable with and with the help of ladies on here i was reassured that i didnt need to rush in to anything and i should take my time to either find an agency that i did like or go independent. 

Most of what i have learnt so far has been from small words of advice from the forum which i have then been able goo away and research for myself. 

One thing i have done is realised that i wasnt going to make the decision to start escorting and then start working the next day.  I have 2 jobs at the moment, its a bit of a joke amongst my friends that they get a copy of my rota at the begining of the week to see where they can fit in a coffee and a catch up or a drink down the pub.  Its not as easy as fitting the odd client in here and there.  I'm only saying this because you mention your course work and asking Alex to find parlours for you because your too busy.  I get home from work sometimes at 2am and then spend another 2 hours checking and vetting my emails, sorting the possible genuines from the time wasters, checking the forums, getting myself advertised in the right places, working out how to design websites, checking my rates are right for the area i live in. I then go back to work at 11am the next day.

Perhaps if your really that busy you should put it on hold until you have some time to really concentrate on setting up properly to ensure that when you do start (in a parlour, agency or independently) you are 100% ready to go.  I'm glad i have taken time to do my research because now i know im comfortable with what im about to embark on, what ever happens, good or bad, i know that its of my own doing and my decision to go ahead.

It really does take time to do it properly no matter what method you choose to go with and i think if you take the advice to search AW and other such sites you will find something that suits you best.

I think it might also be usefull if you were able to define what it is you want from a buddy.  I have emailed you before saying that i am really lucky in that one of the ladies took me under her wing and has helped me but by that i mean she was able to answer many of my questions about building my website and security questions.  I think the buddy system is meant as a resource of advice rather than a place to ask people to send you specific details on specific parlours etc.  i honestly feel that you will benifit from doing this research your self.  the way i think of it is that im starting a new business and whether im indie or using agencies etc, its still my business so i have to be in control of it.

I hope this helps.

Lexie

Hey Emily,
I think Amy has already given you contacts for Parlours in Swansea??

I don't have the time to look right now but a good starting point for you would be The Gentleman's club and it is right by the train station should you find it easier to catch a train to and from work.
There are others as well so please take the time to look them up.

We are all trying our best to help you out but you have to actually do some help yourself work with this.
Being a new to this business myself person, I know there is only so much help others can give you, you have to bite the bullet and find out information for yourself also.
Please call them and chat to them.
If you can not find a number for them then I will give you the number later on, but frankly, if you google The Gentleman's Club, Swansea, your going to get them no problem.
I agree with a few posts on this thread that you are going to be better off in a parlour working than out on your own, if you start off in a parlour then you can gain in confidence and also save some money to get your own transport plus you will meet other girls there and chat to them about your concerns and fears.
I have to run now but please think this over and give them a call.
Jo

HI Emily

I have read all the posts on here with interest.  I see you are keen to start this work as an escort, I dont know how old you are so I cant say OH you too young!!  Every girl decides for themselves.  This site and forum is a great place to start and is where I started also.  I was lucky, I had a good buddy and she gave me some very sound advice.  Now a buddy can pass on the things they were taught, ideas that were suggested to them, things they learned through experience and any thing else they think may help, tey cant do your research, make your decisions and take the donkey work out of it!  In my view the buddy system is purely girls passing on the help they reicieved and hopefully in the future you and other new girls can do the same for other newbies.

As a buddy we cant tell you what to do, how to do it or do your research for you - cant be resposible for what you do or dont do.  Any questions you have, or any advice you need -then of course you should ask.  I still run things past girls now, its never too late to benefit from others knowledge.  I would say that as an escort it is quite important to have internet access??  As Lexie said, a lot of time is spent replying to mails, checking sites etc - quite time consuming at times.

There are lots of differetn ways to start to escort - agencies, parlours, independantly....   I would think about what you want to do, and how you want to do it.  For example, a friend I know works in a parlour - sees guys with sometimes 5 mins inbetween??   Would you feel ok with this?   I am independant and need a good hr between bookings to refresh allow for guys who are over time slightly etc etc...... I really cant stop play at exactly 60 mins or whatever the booking is for, just feels a bit mechanical!

Everyone is different but i would think about what you personally feel you can do and go down that route.  If you decide independant work is for you I woud suggest a buddy to help you out to start with.  Lexies advice seems good, although new to this she has researched it and taken advice from a whole sector of people and comments on here and put together her own package of what she wants to offer.

I would suggest have a think about what you will, and more importantly WONT offer and find the option that suits you best.  Good luck, I hope you are ok. Please take care whatever you decide.

Suzy x