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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: meetingdiversity on 01 November 2016, 05:50:40 pm
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Is it possible to live in a house share like renting a room and do outcalls?. I am thinking about if it would be too risky. I am gathering up my options here. Or is any escort living like this. Any advice would be appreciated. While I have my part time job I will still escort until comfortable to move to full time work is my plan and am very hearted about this. :)
Thank you.
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Hello.
I did this for a month when i very first started and i think it depends on your housemates. Obviously you aren't taking incalls (thats impossibls in a houseshare) but you probably dont want them finding out.. If they are your best friends and around a lot they are likely to notice. If, as mine were they are less close friends and all working full time it is possible. Just be really careful with your browser history. Imply that youre seeing a new guy you dont want to talk about yet or that youre dating to explain running out dressed up at strange times. The only real issue is with taking calls. You will have to find a way to either only take calls when they are out the house or say you dont take incoming calls so get guys who want a booking to text or email you their number and a time to call and then sneak out for a walk around the block to call them back.
Also try not to be conspicuous with the increase in money x
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Hello.
I did this for a month when i very first started and i think it depends on your housemates. Obviously you aren't taking incalls (thats impossibls in a houseshare) but you probably dont want them finding out.. If they are your best friends and around a lot they are likely to notice. If, as mine were they are less close friends and all working full time it is possible. Just be really careful with your browser history. Imply that youre seeing a new guy you dont want to talk about yet or that youre dating to explain running out dressed up at strange times. The only real issue is with taking calls. You will have to find a way to either only take calls when they are out the house or say you dont take incoming calls so get guys who want a booking to text or email you their number and a time to call and then sneak out for a walk around the block to call them back.
Also try not to be conspicuous with the increase in money x
Thank you for giving me an insight about how to work it food for thought. I will need to move home eventually as wouldn't be able to afford the high rent. Less pressure making the money up, I am getting more comfortable with spending less like they say living on a budget lol. So escorting can be like a top up here and there. I was thinking to start with outcalls then maybe incall days at a hotel etc depending on interest.
This will be a turn around life style so need to plan carefully but know if approach it with confidence not thinking to much about the what ifs. Things will be ok.
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MD are you sure you want to do this? You have been posting recently about leaving escorting. I will say that if you're visiting clients' homes for outcall, you're probably at greater risk than doing incalls. You will be "on their territory" which in my experience means some men will feel they can behave how they want, push boundaries etc.
I'd be more inclined to do a one day a week hotel incalls day.
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MD are you sure you want to do this? You have been posting recently about leaving escorting. I will say that if you're visiting clients' homes for outcall, you're probably at greater risk than doing incalls. You will be "on their territory" which in my experience means some men will feel they can behave how they want, push boundaries etc.
I'd be more inclined to do a one day a week hotel incalls day.
I hear you and am still deciding but feel out calls will be my option at first then I can move home quicker. At a later date I can offer incalls at a hotel if need be. I will up my screening for out calls and for the first time in a long time I am starting to put myself before clients. :)
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Do your screening really carefully. It's perfectly possible to do outcall only as a supplement to your civvy job, but make them jump through hoops.
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Hi,
I do outcalls only for most of the month and I live in a houseshare.
My housemates think I have a job doing "events planning" which requires me to be dressed up and leaving the house some nights at 7pm. It has worked pretty well for the last 3 months and if they ask I tell them it's really boring doing corporate events, I don't talk to anyone interesting and I have to be at the beck and call of some grumpy man with more money than sense organising catering etc but that it pays fairly well for a second job.
Once a month I do a couple of days stint in a hotel doing incalls and that's when I am "visiting family".
So it is do-able!
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Hi,
I do outcalls only for most of the month and I live in a houseshare.
My housemates think I have a job doing "events planning" which requires me to be dressed up and leaving the house some nights at 7pm. It has worked pretty well for the last 3 months and if they ask I tell them it's really boring doing corporate events, I don't talk to anyone interesting and I have to be at the beck and call of some grumpy man with more money than sense organising catering etc but that it pays fairly well for a second job.
Once a month I do a couple of days stint in a hotel doing incalls and that's when I am "visiting family".
So it is do-able!
So by the looks of it I will need to get a cover story together. Here especially people are very nosey it is in thier blood lol.