Hi Ladies

So i have my first OVERNIGHT booking tonight and i have no idea what to do! What do i bring? how many condoms? - what do i expect? - when does the money get handed over and do i go to the bathroom to check it discretely? How many hours is considered ''over night''? - I am so nervous!

Minx
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I don't have a safety buddy? - you can see how new i am, What is a safety buddy? - I am very nervous as he was very short off and wants to meet tonight at 10 so i have no idea what to expect or do! - I def agree we need to sort out hours before hand and will sort out the condom situation asap

Thank you so much! I need this advice! This site is amazing!

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Just really concerned for Minx, if you're still going ahead with the booking please pm me & I'll act as your safety buddy for this one.

And so am I - I saw your first post and you sounded as if you were only just thinking about getting started and certainly not in a position to be taking bookings (much less overnights, which are difficult, stressful and a nightmare security-wise at the best of times even for experienced ladies). How did this man contact you? Have you put up ads without really thinking about what the job involves? Because if you have, I strongly suggest thatyou take them back down and do some research first - you can't just 'do now and think later' with a job that puts you in such a vulnerable position and as Anika has said, there are some deeply unpleasant and downright dangerous people out there who sit around waiting for newbies to come along so they can tell them a load of crap in order to rip you off, get free/ridiculously cheap sex or worse still rob or harm you.

From the little you've said, this booking does not sound right at all - people don't generally just phone on the day and book an overnight that night with somebody they have never met before (I've had regulars book them at short notice before but never on the same day, bar one dinner date that extended). All I would think is that he is either offering you a completely crap amount of money knowing you're too green to realise it, or he has no intention of turning up (and if he does, no intention of paying you). Please turn it down and take some time to get organised first - read the main site and decide on your ground rules (services, fees, screening and so on) and sort out a security buddy. We were all new at one point, but no matter how much you have to learn, you must always work on your own terms and within your boundaries, and you can't do that if you haven't worked them out yet.

Thank - you ladies so much, I didn't go and am not going to- meeting with someone from an agency tomorrow to see how it all works first. He was very dodge and have no idea what could have happened if i was stupid enough to go- thanks again!

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Please please please have at least a quick look at the main SAAFE site, as all've us mods have said! Just click on that pink underlined text right there and settle down for a very interesting read.

Even agencies are not to be entirely trusted, i.e. it's a good idea to still have your own security buddy because you have absolutely no real way of knowing whether you can trust an agency owner until - well, until it's much too late. Most will consider their commission a slightly higher priority than your personal wellbeing. Apologies if you've read the main site and lots of forum threads already but honestly - it's the absolute number one recommended starting point for all newbies. So consider reading it twice, and anymore questions you have after that, just let us all know here on the forum!