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ana30

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Re: HELP!!!
« Reply #15 on: 17 April 2012, 07:07:13 pm »
Funny thing about this topic is how the race issue is discussed lo and behold  like there was not tomorrow on the punter's forum (including the most important one you know which one it is) but for some reason the WG forum we have to tip-toe around the issue and be all nicey-nicey and politically correct about it. I've read thousands of threads on so punters forum regarding how they will only see asian or thai women, how EE women are all dodgy and whole threads trashing british women because they are a bunch of drunk, badmouthing, cigarette smelling skanks (I swear to god this was literally written. I was shocked too!. If someone is interested I can refer them -in private of course- to so topic in so forum). There's also loooong threads as in: "Which is your favourite WG nationality" and nobody, I mean: nobody finds racism issues with this (not even the moderators).

But I forgot we are girls and therefore must be nice and please.

 And please  this not by any means a critique to the mods (i think they do an amazing job here), but I just wanted to point out what it seems like a cultural & gender double standard. iT'S ok if the guys do it but it's not ok when the girls do it.
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Re: HELP!!!
« Reply #16 on: 17 April 2012, 07:15:35 pm »
sorry to hear that has happened.
i am not racist either but we have alot of asian men who confirm booking fine etc etc but when they arrive they want OWO and even though they book a 30 min appointment which is ?90 they ask for 15 mins as they 'cum' quickly and try and get it for dirt dirt cheap..LESS THAN ?40!

they mess us about so much. I always refuse.
but then friday I had an asian guy and he was lovely, he was done in just less than half hour but paid for an hour and said dont worry he was ready to go didnt ask for any money or give me any problems.

Its a shame as if you do start making rules although you cant rule race, its a shame for the genuine nice clients who do just want half hour or an hour of your time and happy to pay the full price x
Sometimes it's not the youngest or the richest clients you want or the ones you have most in common with.

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KatieKurves

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Re: HELP!!!
« Reply #17 on: 17 April 2012, 07:19:11 pm »
I do not discriminate by race at all but I must say the guys who have been obnoxious, try to haggle my prices, tried to force BB have been of Asian race. That is purely from my experience.

I have some lovely asian guys & some lovely white guys on the other hand there are guys from both races that I would rather kick down the street.

You have every right to see or not see whomever you want, it's your choice entirely. Always be aware of your safety at all times. If guys are nice & respectful to you then you will be the same with them. If you want to put on your profile that you don't want to see guys of a certain race or age then you can, it's your decision & your life.

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amy

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Re: HELP!!!
« Reply #18 on: 17 April 2012, 08:05:56 pm »
But I forgot we are girls and therefore must be nice and please.

And please  this not by any means a critique to the mods (i think they do an amazing job here), but I just wanted to point out what it seems like a cultural & gender double standard. iT'S ok if the guys do it but it's not ok when the girls do it.

It's nothing to do with us being 'nice' or even 'girls' (and I'm nearly forty and haven't been a girl for 20+ years) and having to be all sweetness and light. This is a support and advice forum, and we do not want or need racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic or otherwise prejudiced and offensive posting here.

What other forums permit on their pages is nothing whatsoever to do with us and is completely irrelevant; I doubt that anybody in their right mind thinks it's OK 'when the guys do it' anyway and I know I've reported plenty of offensive posts myself over the years - I continue to do so now. As ever, if somebody has a problem with the content on other boards, take it up with them. They have a Report button just like we do.

EDIT: And rereading, this has run it's course and is not going to go round in circles - there is ample material here to read both here and in the linked thread, and since the OP has had plenty of opinions to think about there will be no need for any more of the same.

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