Hi all,

New to this, so please bear with me 

I've been offering outcalls through an agency for a few months, but am thinking about incalls as well. I'm a bit worried about, well, the neighbours. I live in a nice 2bed flat in E3 in a gated development, so my visitors would have to buzz the flat to get in through the main gate. But I'm more worried about them going to the wrong flat, or meeting my neighbours, and although I could cope with rumours (even comments) I'd rather avoid them. Any hints?

Secondly Captain 69. I can't decide whether it's good, bad, or a necessary evil. I've resisted the temptation to look to see if I can tie-in reports to meetings. What does everyone else do?

Bunny xx

Hi Bunny and welcome,
Sorry I can't offer much advice re: working from home as I use a place separately. But as long as you can put with the curtain twitchers and the nosey neighbours then I guess you'll be fine. It may not even come to that if you're very careful. To avoid bringing attention to yourself, can you limit the amount of gents you see per day so as to reduce foot traffic to your door?

Also it may be best to give gents the outlay of your place (from the gate to the flat) before they get there, so they know where they're going. Like when we do outcalls to hotels. Some ladies make sure and get directions from the hotel entrance to the lift so they don't wander around looking for it thereby drawing attention to themselves. This you can do without giving away your door number. And if they do manage to get lost, ask them to give you a quick call instead of asking your neighbours or knocking on any doors. Let gents know from the get go that your discretion is of utmost importance to you. Most will understand and appreciate that.

At the end of the day, there's bound to be the odd one or two who can't follow directions for their own reasons. Fingers crossed you won't get too many of those.

Can't comment specifically re: C69 as I'm not a member, but I can't see any reason why you can't link to your own reports on there to your own site. Or is there something I'm missing?

I'm not a member of C69 and don't have any reviews there as far as I know. I have reviews elsewhere, all positive and not overly explicit. I link to them from my site because I think it reassures potential clients. If I was choosing an escort and all other things were equal, I'd go for one with a good review over one with none.

Hi Bunny and all!

Re: working from home

For financial reasons, I currently work from home (well only weekdays when my child is at school!!!) and like Brandy said - i certainly dont have numbers going in and out of my door, and therefore am also always keen to do outcalls!

My rates are the same for incalls and outcalls - so therefore there is no incentive for the guy to choose incall if he can accomodate!

I ensure that my clients park in a pay and display car park on the other side of the road, so no parking outside my block and if, like me, you live in a block, then people would not necessarily know who the person is going to visit.

I do, however, have entryphone which is so damn loud but like I said, as the traffic is limited I dont see this as a problem.   - I do know of someone who even put tape and something over her entryphone to try to muffle the sound a little as the damn things are so loud !!!

A few of the people here know I "work from home" and I have led them to believe I do work in a professional business capacity so the men who come here could in fact be related to my work as an IT consultant (thats what the few people I spoke to think I do! LOL).

I do sometimes worry about neighbours noticing (especially if I am being a bit noisy!!! LOL) but then my clients are discreet and respectful so I dont think about it too much.

I also ensure that I am waiting by my door as soon as I have buzzed them in, so as soon as I see the guy through my peephole, I open the door and he comes in quietly.. ............. 

I also play music (not too loud) so again ensure no explicit sound could be heard in the corridor outside my flat!!!!

Maybe i am too careful, having read the above, but this makes me feel reassured!!!

Hope some of this helps you.  Please feel free to ask again and I will answer what I can!!!

love
Nell xx

P.S - and of course I do give them full and detailed directions of how to get to my block beforehand and when I buzz them in they are told which floor to get to in the lift and to turn right out of the lift - so they are well informed to avoid getting lost. xxx