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-xhannahx-

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Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« on: 29 November 2014, 09:07:21 pm »
Hiya

When you meet someone do you tell them what you do ? If so how long do you leave it before you do ?
If you are pretty sure what the reaction will be is it better to just leave it and walk away to save yourself the drama ?
Is lying from the beginning, making your profile as discreet as possible and hoping that he never finds out ever a good idea ?

I'm interested in your experiences and opinions.

Thank you  :) 
 
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Hotblondie

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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #1 on: 29 November 2014, 09:56:38 pm »
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carachameleon

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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #2 on: 30 November 2014, 01:20:36 pm »
Nice job, hotblondie!
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Mistress-Devon

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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #3 on: 30 November 2014, 03:06:01 pm »
Im marrying mine next year after 5years together...

Sometimes he even joins in too :)

Your true love will adore you for who you are and never show concerns about what you do, except when it comes to safety, mines very strict on that

Loves x
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Nia Hope

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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #4 on: 30 November 2014, 05:52:10 pm »
My other half is supportive but this weekend the shits hit the fan! Major argument over a regular, nothing untoward going on but my boyfriend has laid down new rules!

Am tired and emotional now so will say no more than that x
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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #5 on: 02 December 2014, 08:36:17 pm »
Quote from: Mistress-Devon on 30 November 2014, 03:06:01 pm


Your true love will adore you for who you are and never show concerns about what you do, except when it comes to safety, mines very strict on that


Oh, yes ! If it's true love then whatever your job is, it's not a problem. It's all about trusting each other and being honest.
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DustedWithSugar

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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #6 on: 02 December 2014, 10:04:00 pm »
I have a question for ladies in relationships, so I thought it's better to post here than start another new topic.
Do you have unprotected sex with your other half or do you use protection for everything, everytime with punters and also your other half?
I'm not in relationship and I won't be in nearest future, I'm asking just out of curiosity  :)
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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #7 on: 02 December 2014, 10:32:02 pm »
Quote from: Carol on 02 December 2014, 10:04:00 pm
I have a question for ladies in relationships, so I thought it's better to post here than start another new topic.
Do you have unprotected sex with your other half or do you use protection for everything, everytime with punters and also your other half?
I'm not in relationship and I won't be in nearest future, I'm asking just out of curiosity  :)

Yes. Some years ago I decided I would use a condom with everyone I have sex with and I have stuck to that ever since. My private life partners always know what I do, just as they'd know about any other job or sexual activity. It makes things a lot easier, and for me it's about peace of mind and responsbility. I use the free condoms from the GUM with my partner, and buy the brand I prefer to work with for clients.
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roseanna

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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #8 on: 02 December 2014, 11:18:57 pm »
I always have unprotected with partners except for the first couple of times.
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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #9 on: 02 December 2014, 11:23:32 pm »
It's a catch 22 when with normal partner.  How long do you wait till you know you can trust him not to have unprotected sex with anyone else and give him the go ahead to toss the Johnny.  Personally I would want both partners to go to gum clinic to get the all clear before I went ahead too.

I'm with Rosa on this one, keep it covered and know you are safe ..... And I was sterilised at 28 so knew pregnancy wasn't on the cards.
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« Reply #10 on: 02 December 2014, 11:51:43 pm »
It's not particularly about trust or not trusting someone, it's about my responsibility to all the people I am having sex with including private life too.

I have also thought about what if my partner was tempted, it's not completely out of the question with anyone no matter how long you have known them and in that case because my safety then affects that of my clients, so I would rather be safer than risk passing anything on even if it's only a tiny chance. And same vice versa.

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Re: Having a relationship whilst escorting.
« Reply #11 on: 03 December 2014, 03:07:10 am »
Quote from: Carol on 02 December 2014, 10:04:00 pm
I have a question for ladies in relationships, so I thought it's better to post here than start another new topic.
Do you have unprotected sex with your other half or do you use protection for everything, everytime with punters and also your other half?
I'm not in relationship and I won't be in nearest future, I'm asking just out of curiosity  :)

Fully covered with customers (no OWO, even), no condoms with my significant other.
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