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JustAnotherHooker

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Re: Have you ever felt bullied at work whether it be sex work or civvy work?
« Reply #15 on: 12 June 2018, 05:09:33 pm »
I know a girl who was bullied from social workers, basically she got a job as a family liaison officer but didn’t do all the proper training for the job because her mother is high up within the social work department and that’s how she got the job, anyway that got the backs up of people around her (I understand why though) so they were relentless in the bullying of her for a whole year, and these ‘bullies’ have the right to go into folks homes and their lives and decide if your a fit parent or not and I find that super scary! Social Workers are meant to be nice responsible people but these ones I’ve mentioned were far from it!
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Wailing Banshee

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Re: Have you ever felt bullied at work whether it be sex work or civvy work?
« Reply #16 on: 12 June 2018, 07:12:20 pm »
None has dare yet try!

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honeymoonbarbie

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Re: Have you ever felt bullied at work whether it be sex work or civvy work?
« Reply #17 on: 22 June 2018, 06:35:40 pm »
I remember working my civvy job and one place I was at was the worst for gossip and excluding others.

One thing I remember is being invited to 'girls night' where all the women went to a bar after work and the incrowd ordered magnums of prosecco and requested just enough glasses to leave out myself and a couple of the newer (and younger) members of staff and as such for most of the night we were back and forth to the bar being polite and making small talk with others while we waited for our drinks/rounds or popped outside for cigarettes.

A group of men got chatting to us while we were sitting on the outskirts of our 'group' table looking a little lost and we included them into drink rounds and they bought us shots every now and again. When the people I worked with clocked on they asked us what we were doing, even going as far as to say we had ruined their evening and we were being disrespectful by talking to men on girls night to which I pretty lightheartedly commented that I was having a good time and their Amex cards hadn't capped yet.

A couple of months later when I was clearing cache and the networks rubbish bin I found tons of emails recounting the evening and how much of a spoilt uppity superficial gold digger I was including attempts at humour like attaching imagery you'd see in Unicef adverts (I'm black also, I guess that adds to the humour) with captions like "For only a pornstar martini (my name) will give you her undivided attention" and pictures of Courtney Stodden and Crystal Harris and their respective partners with my company picture pasted over.

Never again.
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blue-scorpion

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Re: Have you ever felt bullied at work whether it be sex work or civvy work?
« Reply #18 on: 07 July 2018, 12:49:04 pm »
Like many of us, I’ve had scurrilous rumours spread about me while working in parlours. “Not giving clients sex”, “giving extras for free”, “giving bareback”... the full spectrum. I didn’t bat an eyelid after the first time; the boss knew it was bs, and next week it would be some other girl in the line of fire. No biggie.

But there was one occaision when I was outright bullied, though perhaps I had it coming  ::) .

You see, where I worked there was an ex-couple. He was security, she was a wg. He, I, and our coterie would banter away the evenings. Long story short, I ended up havig a very short-lived fling with him. This was ´verboten’ of course, since we both still worked at the place. But it was over practically as soon as it began.

She and I were on friendly terms, in an impersonal way. I learned a lot about bdsm amd role-play from that girl, for which I am still grateful. So...I tookit into my head to tell her that I had shagged her ex  :FF . Not my smartest moment. Little did I know, he had started hanging with her again, while he was seeing me. I must add, this ass was 10 years older than her and 20 years older than me. This was related to some personal arguments they had when together, about age etc, which it is not my business to tell.

She told the whole damn brothel. I only got lucky because of my youth, which saved me from being fired.

A week or so after, she and her friend and I were all sat down in the garden. I was complainibg to our NEW security about some of the other rumours (because when one thing comes out, you are suddenly the focus of every nasty thought in the house). Her friend SNAPPED. Yelling at me about how everything was true, I was a “filthy slag”, whilst jabbing her finger right up in my face. The ex was cheerleading all the way, “you tell her!” . I snapped right back, smashed a mug on the patio (not my proudest moment) and stormed inside.

A week after that we all kissed and made up. Feelings were high and understandably so. I didn’t hold a grudge, and I still temember what those women taught me with gratitude. But I sure am glad to be working indie again!!! :angel:
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courtney lee

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Re: Have you ever felt bullied at work whether it be sex work or civvy work?
« Reply #19 on: 10 July 2018, 12:01:36 pm »
Yes, its a two faced industry with some girls who have issues. Im not really a parlour girl, Im too trusting and dont see the traps looming. Im looking to work independently now, hoping to find someone to flat share.
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