I’ve had my fair share of bullying in the civvy work place, I was 17 and the next staff member up from me was 26 and she worked as the receptionist, I was a service administrator so worked down the stairs from her in a different department, and she was the only nice female to me. All the females were aged30+ (bar me and receptionist) and they were so lovely to me on my first day, the women that worked in my team were aged 34 to 56 and maturity certainly does not come with age and the way they treated me showed me this! After my first day I wasn’t spoken too at all unless it was work related, they’d whisper about me in front of me, this went on for 5 more months before I found out that the older female colleagues were jealous because the mechanics spoke to me!!! Oh my god! The mechanics were total creeps in all honesty and they they were very misogynistic and derogatory, they def took adantage if me due to my age! This was my first experience of being bullied st work! Never again.


Saunas are full of jealous women so I’ve got hundreds of stories about that but I won’t bore you with all the details! plus I reckon you’s have experienced plenty shitty behaviour in saunas, from girls, yourselves!!


Feel free too add something that you don’t mind sharing with us!


I look forward to your answers XX
Love JAH XX

I did get sexually harrassed by anther escort recently. I'd already been upset by something that happened with a client that day & I confided in her. Such a cuntish thing for her to do exactly the same thing.

There's arseholes in every work place.

Not bullying as such, but I do find it quite lonely so happy to make new friends with fellow escorts. So recently was reaching out to one, offering support. A few people had asked about duos with her so I messaged her about that. But she’d been slagging me off to a client obviously behind my back when I haven’t ever done anything to her so I need to learn to keep myself to myself.

In my opinion most people I have met in this industry are not at all confident about themselves and have a really messed up backstory.

Fixed that for you, SA

Not doing this thankfully but I'm indie so that helps!

I was bullied / manipulated in a previous role in a high pressure environment in a very male dominated industry. Ironically, although the men were a proper little clique (like a bunch of bitchy, back stabbers) the person who bullied me and subsequently forced me into resigning was a woman. She was a repellent individual.

But this work, no never but then I can see it might be different if you work in a sauna with other people. I am completely on my own, seems a bit sad to say that and although it's not without its downsides, I don't work for anyone but me and that suits me perfectly.

 

I've worked in mental health and loads of bullying went on there. Oh, the irony! It comes to something when staff had to go off on sick because of it. Never, EVER again am I working in that area 

The saddest thing I found was people who were so judgemental towards not just patients but staff too .
Not sure why they were even in mental health nursing

The saddest thing I found was people who were so judgemental towards not just patients but staff too .
Not sure why they were even in mental health nursing

It's the same in teaching.  In work-communities whose members should serve as models of rational behaviour, we see the polar opposite of this.

Fixed that for you, SA

Thanks !! Sorry wasn't intended to mean all sex workers!! Just some people I used to work with in agencies..