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Saucysarah2019

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Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« on: 02 September 2019, 07:49:56 am »
Hi I’m giving indie escorting a go alongside my regular job and I have my first booking tonight. I’m doing out all’s only as I have shared custody of my daughter so don’t want to see anyone at my home.

I’ve taken a 3 hour booking for tonight from a man that contacted my ad. I’ve spoken to him on the phone and we’ve shared some messages, he’s given me his address already, and I have his mobile number. I’ve googled his house and checked the rightmove listing for his property and the interior matches the background in a pic he sent me. I’ve also checked him out on Facebook.

Is this enough? I’ve worked in the recruitment industry for 15+ years so I am used to dealing with a wide range of different people, so I like to think I can judge a goodun. Don’t get any bad vibes from him at all.

Is there anything more I should be doing? Especially with a new client?

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #1 on: 02 September 2019, 11:47:57 am »
Be careful checking him out on Facebook if you do so logged on to your personal account, as you could show up as a 'suggested friend'.
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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #2 on: 02 September 2019, 11:53:30 am »
You are confident that he's there and presumably his details don't show up on any warnings list - the next step is more around him knowing that someone else knows where you are and when you are expected to get back in touch.

So that can be done via a call just before arriving, a second 'I have just arrived' call in his presence, and a final 'I have left' one when you have. They don't need to know that sex for cash is involved - this is standard date or work home visit behaviour.

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #3 on: 02 September 2019, 12:02:23 pm »
Be careful checking him out on Facebook if you do so logged on to your personal account, as you could show up as a 'suggested friend'.

Yes the thought did enter my head!! As soon as I looked, I blocked him to ensure my profile wouldn’t show up. But I have a fake Facebook profile I tend to use for my cyber stalking so I’ll use that in future.

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #4 on: 02 September 2019, 12:03:58 pm »
You are confident that he's there and presumably his details don't show up on any warnings list - the next step is more around him knowing that someone else knows where you are and when you are expected to get back in touch.

So that can be done via a call just before arriving, a second 'I have just arrived' call in his presence, and a final 'I have left' one when you have. They don't need to know that sex for cash is involved - this is standard date or work home visit behaviour.

Thank you this is really good advice.

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #5 on: 02 September 2019, 10:31:39 pm »
Did you go, SS?  Was it a genuine booking and, if so, did it pass without incident?
In addition to the advice from others, I recommend:
1.  In the case of cash payment, ask the punter to send you a picture of the cash with the notes spread out so that you can see the full amount and with a note saying the day's date.  (Only yesterday, someone wanting me to travel to Hull from just outside Leeds - where I was located - and claiming that money was no object, he had loads-a-cash at home, I only had to name my price, hung up on me the second I asked for this!)
2.  For further proof of address, first ask the punter to text you his full address, then ask for a recent bank statement or utility bill as proof of address.  (Once, someone who had texted me his address then "doctored" the address on his bank statement.  To be exact, he overwrote the door number with the one that he'd texted me).
3.  Ask who will be at the property.
4.  If you drive, ask where you can park.
5.  Ask if there are any strong smells at the property such as cigarette smoke.
6.  Ask if he has any pets - a dog that might come charging at you, for instance.
7.  For a hotel outcall, ask for the booking-name and room number and then call reception to check that the guy really is there.
8.  For all bookings, check the guy's phone number both on SAAFE and on National Ugly Mugs

My advice comes from experience, SS.
« Last Edit: 02 September 2019, 10:39:07 pm by Braziliana »

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #6 on: 03 September 2019, 02:17:51 am »
This is great advice, thank you!!! I wouldn’t have ever thought about the cash pic, or the utility bill. Such great little tips for next time!!

Yes I’m just back actually - 2 hours instead of 3 (agreed earlier today to the amended booking), and he was a proper gent. Has already asked my availability for 2 weeks time. He was clean, the house was clean and he was very respectful. All in all, it was a lovely evening and I’ve come away with a bit extra cash in my purse.

He’s messaged to check I got home ok and said what a wonderful time he has had.

I’ve used fab swingers and tinder and I have to be honest, that experience tonight trumps most of the experiences I’ve had online dating and having sex for free. And the sex was better  ;D

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #7 on: 03 September 2019, 02:20:27 am »

8.  For all bookings, check the guy's phone number both on SAAFE and on National Ugly Mugs

My advice comes from experience, SS.

How do I check the phone number on here? And what is ugly mugs?

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #8 on: 03 September 2019, 08:47:31 am »
How do I check the phone number on here? And what is ugly mugs?

Search box upper right pop in all but final two digits.

Google National Ugly Mugs.

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #9 on: 03 September 2019, 08:53:38 am »
There’s also client eye app too

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #10 on: 03 September 2019, 09:15:02 am »
Great advice - thank you. Yes I googled ugly mugs and I’ve registered on there.

Thanks again!

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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #11 on: 03 September 2019, 09:25:31 am »
Great advice - thank you. Yes I googled ugly mugs and I’ve registered on there.

Thanks again!

Great stuff my response was very short because I was using a touch screen, glad you took the action and didn't think I was being rude!


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Re: Have I vetted him enough for outvall? Newbie here
« Reply #12 on: 03 September 2019, 11:23:28 am »
Great stuff my response was very short because I was using a touch screen, glad you took the action and didn't think I was being rude!

Oh no not at all! I’m grateful for the very fact you responded  ;D