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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: ladyofthemansion on 15 June 2012, 09:11:10 am
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Never troubled me before but I hate my niles being touched now and find difficult to hide that. Ok with boobs but the minute they lay with nipple I come over all horrible. Is that common?
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I can't stand it when they nibble/bite or even just suck them,it feels almost painful.Can't say anything unless it gets really too much but I hate it!
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I dont think its that uncommon, it's whatever you are happy with that matters :)
I had a client once who wanted me to bite and suck his nipples until they bled. I refused, and said I would tweak them instead, but he was insistent. I still refused however as I was worried about blood going in my mouth- he had had other girls bite them before, and his nipples were red raw with bite marks. Pretty gross.
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I was going to start a thread about that myself a couple of days ago.
I absolutely hate it when they touch my nipples, words can't describe how angry it makes me feel. I never say anything, because it seems a bit, I don't know, unfair perhaps? Instead, I immediately try and get them interested in something else, or say that it's their turn to sit back and enjoy some oral or whatever ;D Works in most cases, but occasionally one does come across the odd persistent prat, who's convinced that a woman tries to get away, cos she's obviously enjoying it TOO MUCH.
Do you know of any methods to make one's nipples a bit less sensitive (temporarily)? You know, something similar to anal desensitizer, but for breasts? :D
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I used to absolutely hate it, I think this was from an ex was kind of violent and used to grab and twist them hard so it traumatised me a little.
I never used to let them touch my nips because it literally made me feel sick, but over the past year I've got a lot better and actually like it now ???
I don't think it's uncommon at all. They never used to question me when I said I didn't like my nipples being played with xx
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I love it!!!!! Its a major major turn on for me, far more so than being touched downunder. In fact due to my USP I'm super sensitive down there so try and distract them to my boobs and nipples!
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I have a similar issue but I HATE my clit and just around it being touched, many clients poke it and press it and are not gentle at all and it feels absoloutely horrible and I always have to tell them I am too sensitive there. Most clients are fine and are either a lot more gentle (its ok sometimes if they really are very gentle), but many have a look on their face like I'm doing something wrong by saying this. I dont mind being fingered but don't like my clit being touched, it feels so sensitive its practically painful. Sometimes I find clients arnt pleased if you tell them you dont want this or that to be touched...ruins the booking for me as I just think they are an arse that doesnt care about my feelings or pleasure and just wants me to let him do as he likes
If you dont like them being touched make it clear to the client, if they dont like or respect your boundaries then they arnt worth having as a client anyway ;D
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If you dont like them being touched make it clear to the client, if they dont like or respect your boundaries then they arnt worth having as a client anyway ;D
I agree I think clients appreciate being told things clearly - I always say I don't allow fingering for example; if they get a bit rough downunder mostly its accidental and they don't mind being asked to be a bit more gentle.
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I love it!!!!! Its a major major turn on for me, far more so than being touched downunder.
I too find it a massive turn on, but only when it's done by my boyfriend. I get really irritated and uncomfortable when clients try to play with my nipples. I guess it's one of those things, like passionate kissing etc. Doing it with a partner who you love and trust is totally different to allowing/agreeing to do it with a paying customer - a complete stranger.
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I love it, but I had a client 4 weeks ago (my last booking whaaaaa!)who bit them so hard they bled and are still scabbed....so never again! I like it hard but not that bloody hard!
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I love it!!!!! Its a major major turn on for me, far more so than being touched downunder.
I too find it a massive turn on, but only when it's done by my boyfriend. I get really irritated and uncomfortable when clients try to play with my nipples. I guess it's one of those things, like passionate kissing etc. Doing it with a partner who you love and trust is totally different to allowing/agreeing to do it with a paying customer - a complete stranger.
I love kissing too as long as the guys are good kissers, same with nipple play I love it so long as they know what they are doing. I am lucky in that I can let go easily and really enjoy my bookings (on the whole)
If I had a partner I might see things differently. Then again, I've made the decision not to date whilst escorting as I like to give 100% to a relationship and I don't feel I can do this whilst escorting.
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Sometimes I find clients arnt pleased if you tell them you dont want this or that to be touched
How dare you not conform to their expectation of what you will or won't like, selfish woman, ruining their enjoyment like that!!!
I have found, contrary to you, that I actually used to like previous partner when he was giving me oral, if his teeth reallllly pressed in there - it hurt but blimey, it was a good hurt!!! I used to make him press all the harder!
Nipples thankfully don't bother me thank god cos I had a (very lovely I might add) dairy worker the other week who seemed very obsessed with my udders, I mean breasts, couldn't stop sucking on them bless him .... wonder why???
It is funny though, you go through things that you do like, then some things you like with one person but not with another - do you find that you are ok with certain activities with certain guys (or girls of course), but with someone else, you just never used to do that???
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I used to HAAAAAAAAAAAAAATE my nips being touched at all, made me feel physically sick with a major cringe going on....so bad it was that I couldn't even breast-feed...
Now I still get the cringe factor on the week leading to period, but know what guys should do so that they de-sensitise - not that my requests are always met! ::)
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Sometimes I find clients arnt pleased if you tell them you dont want this or that to be touched
How dare you not conform to their expectation of what you will or won't like, selfish woman, ruining their enjoyment like that!!!
I have found, contrary to you, that I actually used to like previous partner when he was giving me oral, if his teeth reallllly pressed in there - it hurt but blimey, it was a good hurt!!! I used to make him press all the harder!
Nipples thankfully don't bother me thank god cos I had a (very lovely I might add) dairy worker the other week who seemed very obsessed with my udders, I mean breasts, couldn't stop sucking on them bless him .... wonder why???
It is funny though, you go through things that you do like, then some things you like with one person but not with another - do you find that you are ok with certain activities with certain guys (or girls of course), but with someone else, you just never used to do that???
It honestly depends, if its an occasion where I'm feeling in the sexual mood and the client has been being gentle then I will enjoy it, also with my boyfriend I am comfortable and turned on by it the majority of the time, yet sometimes with clients its so sensitive I feel like i cant have them anywhere near it! I think its something to do with the vast sensitivity of the areas, it can just be cringeworthy having them touched in certain situations/times and with certain people.
Being a woman though sexually the way I feel changes at different times, and I tend to try and work during the times I'm feeling the horniest, so this isnt so much of a ball ache ;D
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Hi
I also hate having my nipples touched. I thought I was the odd one out but am reassured to see quite a few of you dont like it too.
They are just too sensitive and touching/sucking/etc makes me squirm
XXX
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I love it!!!!! Its a major major turn on for me, far more so than being touched downunder.
I too find it a massive turn on, but only when it's done by my boyfriend. I get really irritated and uncomfortable when clients try to play with my nipples. I guess it's one of those things, like passionate kissing etc. Doing it with a partner who you love and trust is totally different to allowing/agreeing to do it with a paying customer - a complete stranger.
This is exacly why most things we hate hate hate with clients are what we like with partners
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I personally don't have an issue with it, as my nipples are pierced,so everyone is quite afraid to touch or suck them! Bless my piercings!
haha
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I'm not a massive fan a lot of the time, but there are certain times when it makes me quite giddy! I just get nervous when clients do it though as far too many seem to want to have a bit of a nibble. Not good at all...
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I got implants,so my nipples are not 100 percent as sensitive,as they were before.It doesn't turn me on much,compared to fingering and good kissing,and I only tolerate it If it's done gently.I don't like rough handling.
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I dont mind gentle touch on the breasts and nipples but when they suck hard it really hurts, they do stop as ive had to ask them!
o
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I love it!!!!! Its a major major turn on for me, far more so than being touched downunder.
I too find it a massive turn on, but only when it's done by my boyfriend. I get really irritated and uncomfortable when clients try to play with my nipples. I guess it's one of those things, like passionate kissing etc. Doing it with a partner who you love and trust is totally different to allowing/agreeing to do it with a paying customer - a complete stranger.
This is exacly why most things we hate hate hate with clients are what we like with partners
Exactly! I think about this every working day - wish there was an easier to way to deal with the cringe factor but I'd hate to lose sensation which I love with my partner!
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A tip gained from a lady on another board. For those who hate to have their nipples licked try spraying deodorant on them lol. Apparently tastes like crap and puts them off :)
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Hey,
Never tried it myself, but what about a numbing gel/teething gel, surely that would reduce the senstion on the nipples for the duration of your booking?
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I'd be very caustious about using desensitising creams because you won't be able to feel when they're potentially getting too rough with you.
I never use anal desensitiser on my boys because I want them to let me know if it's too painful.
Not much help, just a wee concern :)
Janie x
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A tip gained from a lady on another board. For those who hate to have their nipples licked try spraying deodorant on them lol. Apparently tastes like crap and puts them off :)
HA HA!!i do this..with perfume though..
but back fires sometimes and they lick me downstairs,which i hate more.
cant spray perfume there!so dont wash!!(only joking :P)
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A tip gained from a lady on another board. For those who hate to have their nipples licked try spraying deodorant on them lol. Apparently tastes like crap and puts them off :)
HA HA!!i do this..with perfume though..
but back fires sometimes and they lick me downstairs,which i hate more.
cant spray perfume there!so dont wash!!(only joking :P)
;D
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A tip gained from a lady on another board. For those who hate to have their nipples licked try spraying deodorant on them lol. Apparently tastes like crap and puts them off :)
HA HA!!i do this..with perfume though..
but back fires sometimes and they lick me downstairs,which i hate more.
cant spray perfume there!so dont wash!!(only joking :P)
Pmsl. Can't win eh!
I used to get asked all the time "what turns you on baby"- I would reply (semi jokingly) a foot rub and a nice tip haha.
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A tip gained from a lady on another board. For those who hate to have their nipples licked try spraying deodorant on them lol. Apparently tastes like crap and puts them off :)
HA HA!!i do this..with perfume though..
but back fires sometimes and they lick me downstairs,which i hate more.
cant spray perfume there!so dont wash!!(only joking :P)
;D
Some top tips here girls :D Thanks!
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HATE HATE HATE IT! MY RESPONSE TO WHEN THEY TUG PULL FLICK BITE MY NIPPLES IS,{AFTER I HAVE WARNED IS NOW MY TURN TO KICK YOU IN THE BALLS..... they jump explain to them the feeling in there balls is like nipple PAIN..... OUCH
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HATE HATE HATE IT! MY RESPONSE TO WHEN THEY TUG PULL FLICK BITE MY NIPPLES IS,{AFTER I HAVE WARNED IS NOW MY TURN TO KICK YOU IN THE BALLS..... they jump explain to them the feeling in there balls is like nipple PAIN..... OUCH
Has anyone had a man,push finger in the middle of boobs?
its only happened a few times..but god it hurts!
what are they thinking ??? a customer did it yesterday,and i shot of bed in pain..
think i would of cried if they were tender and near time of month!
and he looked like he didnt get what the problem was!!
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I suggest thrusting your finger into their one eyed soldier, see how they like THEM apples!!!
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It's funny, my nipples are extremely sensitive and sometimes my bf can't even touch them while we're having sex because I'm all "nooo please it's too much" *pushes hands away*.... but usually I don't mind if clients touch them and whatnot.
...The only thing that I really dislike is bad kissing; if the booking's long enough you can cajole them into a bit of a new style I've found . Happy days!
Bad kissing is my female boner-kill. Can't stand sloppy make-outs. Why are you trying to eat my whole face? lol
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Its also annoying when they go under your boob and press against your ribcage.
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Hey everyone, you all are great at responding to threads and I am appreciative of all of your responses to my last post.
I have an issue that is becoming pressing and I really need to talk about it.
My issue is that I absolutely can not stand having my nipples stimulated in any manner. That includes touching, rubbing, pulling, licking, sucking, anything. The sensation is extremely strong and bothersome and unpleasant. I do not like it in my personal life, and I have become increasingly adversary to clients doing it. When I first started in the biz it really didn't bother me if a client did something to me that I didn't like, because I had no problem faking it (excluding things that are unsafe or painful). Now days, it drives me absolutely insane to have clients CONSTANTLY playing with my nipples. It makes me want to scream at them to fuck off. I am sick of feeling like I need to do something that I don't enjoy and I am sick of clients assuming that it is pleasurable for one area of a woman's body to be stimulated endlessly. There are other things I don't like so much, like kissing and receiving oral from clients, but I can deal with it. Nipples - I can't deal with it because I don't even like it when someone I *LIKE* does it to me.
So, I realize that I can simply stop allowing clients to do this. I have several restrictions which I am able to enforce comfortably with no guilt, and I am glad about that. But for some reason, I am having a lot of trouble with this. I am not sure if it's like this where you ladies live, but in the Ontario (Canada) escort scene, telling a client not to touch your nipples is a BIG deal. In almost every negative review I've ever seen, the client has written about how the lady asked him not to touch her nipples, and everyone seems to go ape-shit over how ridiculous and overly restrictive that is, and that if she doesn't like being touched she should leave the biz, etc. I know there will be a lot of negative backlash when I start asking clients not to play with my nipples, and I need to be prepared for that somehow. I've got an extremely good reputation where I live, I'm one of the best, and I am almost positive that it won't be long before people start talking about how my services are "going downhill" or how I'm not the amazing escort that I used to be. I *have* been feeling a bit burnt out lately, but I think it's something I can manage if I can reclaim some of my power, and the nipple thing is going to be a big part of that.
Thinking about this is getting me really upset and worried, but I'm not sure how much longer I can go on allowing clients to touch my nipples. Every time one of them does it, I seriously become so frustrated that I almost want to cry, and it's really doing a number on my mental health.
What's the best way to go about this? I need support badly :(
x0 Noelle
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Hey everyone, you all are great at responding to threads and I am appreciative of all of your responses to my last post.
I have an issue that is becoming pressing and I really need to talk about it.
My issue is that I absolutely can not stand having my nipples stimulated in any manner. That includes touching, rubbing, pulling, licking, sucking, anything. The sensation is extremely strong and bothersome and unpleasant. I do not like it in my personal life, and I have become increasingly adversary to clients doing it. When I first started in the biz it really didn't bother me if a client did something to me that I didn't like, because I had no problem faking it (excluding things that are unsafe or painful). Now days, it drives me absolutely insane to have clients CONSTANTLY playing with my nipples. It makes me want to scream at them to fuck off. I am sick of feeling like I need to do something that I don't enjoy and I am sick of clients assuming that it is pleasurable for one area of a woman's body to be stimulated endlessly. There are other things I don't like so much, like kissing and receiving oral from clients, but I can deal with it. Nipples - I can't deal with it because I don't even like it when someone I *LIKE* does it to me.
So, I realize that I can simply stop allowing clients to do this. I have several restrictions which I am able to enforce comfortably with no guilt, and I am glad about that. But for some reason, I am having a lot of trouble with this. I am not sure if it's like this where you ladies live, but in the Ontario (Canada) escort scene, telling a client not to touch your nipples is a BIG deal. In almost every negative review I've ever seen, the client has written about how the lady asked him not to touch her nipples, and everyone seems to go ape-shit over how ridiculous and overly restrictive that is, and that if she doesn't like being touched she should leave the biz, etc. I know there will be a lot of negative backlash when I start asking clients not to play with my nipples, and I need to be prepared for that somehow. I've got an extremely good reputation where I live, I'm one of the best, and I am almost positive that it won't be long before people start talking about how my services are "going downhill" or how I'm not the amazing escort that I used to be. I *have* been feeling a bit burnt out lately, but I think it's something I can manage if I can reclaim some of my power, and the nipple thing is going to be a big part of that.
Thinking about this is getting me really upset and worried, but I'm not sure how much longer I can go on allowing clients to touch my nipples. Every time one of them does it, I seriously become so frustrated that I almost want to cry, and it's really doing a number on my mental health.
What's the best way to go about this? I need support badly :(
x0 Noelle
If something upset me that much I wouldn't allow them to be touched. But many clients want the whole safe package or look elsewhere to get fully satisfied. All I can suggest is talk to your doctor for the best advice fixing things or at least know the score. As the root problem is the sensitivity of your nipples it sounds. Clients can be very good at picking up body language. I know if clients see a decrease in me they will be like oh she used to be.... Losing interest. I always keep personal and escorting separate and will never mix the both. If things get that bad in my personal life, I take time out for a few days. Until mentally strong to give clients their moneys worth. Sorry if this wasn't the response you wanted. I just like to give my point of view, maybe am too strict in my ways. :)
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Thanks for your answer :)
It's not just that they're too sensitive, I just don't enjoy the sensation. Even a tiny bit of stimulation is not *overwhelming* but it's just unpleasant. I don't like them having touched at all. It's not a medical issue at all. I will definitely have to suck it up and simply tell clients to stop doing it, it seems.
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Thanks for your answer :)
It's not just that they're too sensitive, I just don't enjoy the sensation. Even a tiny bit of stimulation is not *overwhelming* but it's just unpleasant. I don't like them having touched at all. It's not a medical issue at all. I will definitely have to suck it up and simply tell clients to stop doing it, it seems.
Oh right got you now, I'm not sure what to say other than believe in yourself as it is your body. I would get clients to suck gently to see if that helps. But I know as soon as you say one of the things you don't do re your nipples out of the question. Many will move on sooner or later. As the majority of men love playing with boobs and the vigina on a woman for stimulation. It's just all part of being male. I am being realistic here with you.
It sounds like an impossible answer that will help as the issue lays within your nipples. At least doctors would be able to advise you better. Maybe they was sucked to much that lead to your sensitivity. When reverse oral is done to me it sometimes tiggles. I have to try and stop busting out laughing. I think this is because it gets sensitive from too much usage.
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I don't mind having my breasts played with and touched, just not my nipples directly, so I don't think it will be as big of a deal as if I were to ask them to stop touching my breasts entirely.
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I am very similar- I CAN NOT STAND any activity around my nipples proceeded by guys who I am not physically attracted to. But, I LOVE my nipples being touched by guys who i am attracted to. I guess it's all in my head, because I know it can be very very pleasant, but 'with the right person' which doesn't necessarily mean it has to be the love of my life, just someone who I would want to have sex with in the real life.
If i don't like the guy, I literally want to scream&shout&kick if they touch my nipples, and I do tell them to stop. It's so terribly unpleasant, I can't even describe this. It makes me cringe.
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I am exactly the same. I used to be ok with it but now I hate my nipples being touched. Am happy to have the whole boob squeezed but the minute they try to go near my nipples or lick nipple I hate it. I get no sensation. It just turns my stomach.
It's on my profile but the way I word it is I love having my whole boob squeezed but not the nipple. I also have instructions on there for them not to lick finger then touch my boobs lol. I go on about how I love having whole boobs squeezed though and that put a positive over the negative. I haven't seen decline in business.
It's like some people don't like their arse or feet touched. You are normal. Concentrate and emphasise on the things you like.xx
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Totally agree with lady of the mansion, just point out things you do like or direct them elsewhere, it's not like you're saying don't touch my boobs you're just saying not you're nipples kinda like saying you can suck my clit but don't lick it, it'll probably make your service appear even more genuine because you have preferences instead of liking everything, I wouldn't worry about it most guys don't have a specific thing for nipples themselves they're far more interested in 69's or something.
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This is the wording on one of my AW FAQs-Please do not lick your fingers then make my nipples wet. Also, dont put oil on them. Actually, go for the WHOLE boob! I will show you how I like my boobs touched lol.x Squeeze them hard but do it right lol. :-) Mwaah! X
If any lady wants to copy that on own profile feel free.
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Hey noelle,
I can totally relate to you about the nipple thing as I am exactly the same!!! I did have a bob job about four years ago, but even before that ( i have been escorting for 2 years), I can remember I hated my boyfriend touching them.
Some clients, they pull and twist that much, I even say "Are you trying to tune in to the radio?".
To get them "off", I will apologise and say that due to 'my enhancement'-they have become over-sensitised-which is a common side effect having boob surgery.
If you are seeing a first time, non-regular client could you not use some sort of 'procedure' etc as a reason as to why they need to be very gentle? That would hopefully make them concentrate their 'main' focus somewhere else?XX
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I totally know where you're coming from on this matter, I also can't stand it. Yesterday I had a client who kept sucking them way to hard and I had to keep saying something. Why the hell do they do it, do they not realise that sucking the life out of them is gunna hurt!?! Well clients go near them I'm thinking "please dont suck, please dont suck". So yes, you're not the only one that dislikes it x
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Wow - glad to know I'm not the only one who feels this way! Though I am also sad to hear that so many of us have to deal with this annoying problem..
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It sounds like an impossible answer that will help as the issue lays within your nipples. At least doctors would be able to advise you better. Maybe they was sucked to much that lead to your sensitivity. When reverse oral is done to me it sometimes tiggles. I have to try and stop busting out laughing. I think this is because it gets sensitive from too much usage.
There's nothing wrong with my nipples, though. It's not a medical issue that I need to see the doctor about, I just don't enjoy people touching them and I never have.
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I don't really mind them playing with my nipples mine seem quite desensitized, it's a nice break from french kissing for 30 mins, I absolutely hate having my urethra poked though (who doesn't?) a lot of customers don't seem sure of my clits location and start stabbing me with fingernails. :(
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I think the issue of slight burnout is actually really important here. I know it's annoying, but I don't think it's any sign that you don't love the job enough or don't "have what it takes" etc etc. You clearly are great at the job, as you mention being very highly-rated and popular - but this may in itself be contributing to the stress you're feeling. Any person with high standards for themselves will be more stressed by their job. :)
While obviously no one enjoys having their delicate areas prodded roughly (and surely any ideal partner or client would ask whether you like something before just zooming in to gnaw on your bodyparts!), it's definitely possible to handle things better if you're not overworked.
I do not know about your personal situation so do accept that it might be impossible for you to cut down on work at the moment. But if it's not impossible, what about restricting your working hours? These days, with it being so important to maintain a perfect reputation plus the immense amount of competition, escorting is no "lie on your back yawning all day and then count your money" situation. You've got to give every client 100% or he'll be disappointed and you may get negative feedback. (You also get the fun of watching out for the few-but-nightmarish guys who are emotionally unbalanced, so they receive 100% but always want more and become obsessive and get caught up in odd fantasies about you, and then harass you endlessly - oh, yes, that's not exhausting at all!) So I have personally found that taking the stress caused by this work seriously and making sure to never see more clients per week than I can handle means that I get to keep enjoying the job and giving it 100%.
We all have different limits - it's not to do with how good or bad you are, or whatever, it's simply the available emotional and physical energy which can go up or down depending on other life stuff, too - and it's really important to work within them if we want to be okay in the long term.
I don't think there should be any problem redirecting clients from your nipples towards somewhere you prefer being touched, but it would always be essential - as you know - to do so in the most 100% positive, smiley, happy way so the client doesn't sense any negativity. You can obviously do this no problem, but only if you're not overworked.
Also, it's not necessarily a case of cutting down on jobs - you could also/instead look at restricting availability to hours that suit you best? Your most energetic hours, for example, or being sure to have a day off between bookings to fully restore energy levels. Many escorts can be nervous about doing this but I've personally found that restricting my available hours (while still offering as much choice as possible, within my limits), putting a calendar on my site and sticking to my guns means that I'm doing much better overall. When new, I worked whenever a client wanted to see me, and saw as many clients as I could, but that inevitably lead to a huge burnout (barely worked for 6 months!).
I'm also really strict about not seeing clients who drain me or disturb me or generally make me want to quit the business immediately! There are so many lovely clients who make you feel delighted to be working in this job, but there are also quite a few who are needy, emotionally unbalanced, impossible to talk to, rude, unhygienic or disrespectful, and these guys must be avoided if you want to keep up that energy for working in the long term.
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Everything Emily just said
The nipple thing. I hate mine being otuched in anyway at all. My nipples never go down so are nearly always fully erect due to nerve damage so the slightest touch is agony for me
I literally keep my bra on until they ask me to remove it and when I do I say oh god my nipples are so sensitive today(use an allergy to wash powder, hormones etc as an excuse) please play around them and not with them as it will hurt me otherwise.
They then happily just play with my boob and do their very best to avoid my nipples.
Regulars know me anyway so know they are out of bounds unless it is a rare day when the nerves settle down and my nipples go flatter
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For gods sake don't let them if you feel like that, it's not worth the mental anguish it WILL cause you. I hate my clit being directly stimulated for the same reason as you and if any client disturbs it I tell them straight away politely but firmly that it is too sensitive and I prefer my vag touched further down.
It's just the way I am they can like it or lump it, its never affected business for me. Maybe the odd clit loving client didnt come back but so what I haven't even noticed. I believe many girls do have sensitive nipples its simple tell them no, who cares about negative reviews most clients don't even read forums or similar prossie dissection sites.
Don't let anyone touch you in a way you arnt comfortable with, it's not worth it. For me I really enjoy my nipples played with, and would rather that than receiving oral as TBH most guys are far too rough down thee for my liking.
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I'm not keen on having my nipples sucked. I found that when I started breastfeeding having them sucked made me incredibly thirsty which is nature's way of ensuring that you increase your fluid intake when producing milk. Unfortunately the sensation never went away, 30 years on the sensation still remains.
Even now sucking on my nipples does nothing for me sexually, it just makes me want to pour myself a large cold glass of water or two and start drinking to try and get rid of the intense feeling of thirst it induces. I've learnt over the years to just be honest about it and suggest something else. It's never seemed to put anyone off.
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Got an outcall for tomorrow and he's just mentioned the word "nipples" in a text. It actually makes me feel sick and not want to go.
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Got an outcall for tomorrow and he's just mentioned the word "nipples" in a text. It actually makes me feel sick and not want to go.
How did it go hun? Hope it was ok!X
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It went fine. I told him in advance I hate having them touched but happy with other stuff. He was fine.xx
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It went fine. I told him in advance I hate having them touched but happy with other stuff. He was fine.xx
Great stuff.XX
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Unless they're being incredibly gentle, I certainly don't like it :/ I'm like you, I have sensitive nipples and I've run into a lot of clients that are just way too rough, pinching, squeezing, biting, etc. So yeah, anyone goes in that area, I'm automatically on guard. I don't think it would be weird at all for you to tell clients that they can't touch your nipples... its your body and you should be comfortable with everything that's happening to it... I would just go ahead and tell clients. They may find it disappointing,but in the end, I can't imagine it'd be that big of a deal. I mean, they're still getting off....
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Unless they're being incredibly gentle, I certainly don't like it :/ I'm like you, I have sensitive nipples and I've run into a lot of clients that are just way too rough, pinching, squeezing, biting, etc. So yeah, anyone goes in that area, I'm automatically on guard. I don't think it would be weird at all for you to tell clients that they can't touch your nipples... its your body and you should be comfortable with everything that's happening to it... I would just go ahead and tell clients. They may find it disappointing,but in the end, I can't imagine it'd be that big of a deal. I mean, they're still getting off....
Same here, so many guys squeeze them like they are milking a cow! I'm worried so entires my implants will pop x
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(Merged with a very similar thread with some good advice!)
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Whenever my clients go to them I put up with it for 10 seconds and then start moving my arms around or start touching/sucking them down there to distract, but occasionally I will get some guy who's trying to touch my nipples while I'm giving him head.
I'm exactly the same you're defo not alone! I can only take a small amount of time on each nipple and then I do other things to distract. I absolutely hate having my nipples stimulated by clients but love it in my personal life. They are really sensitive and it does make me cringe. I don't like being stimulated when I'm working, but that's just me - work is work. I let them stimulate my nipples as little as I can get away with because it's work. Yes I hate it, but I can just about put up with it to give the best service I possibly can. But it is annoying when they are reaching down and twisting and pulling on them whilst you are giving oral. Makes you want to slap their hands away sometimes. Gets right on my tit :P
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In the past I didn't mind my boobs being touched then a couple of years ago it was just the nipples I hated being touched. Now I hate them being touched at all. I manage to get out of it by telling them how much I love my bum being squeezed lol. My boobs not sore or sensitive. I now just can't stand them being touched at all in any way, shape or form. Even emails or texts talking about touching or sucking them turn my stomach. On about one out of 100 occasions it's ok when they are doing a massage technique kind of touching around the boobs but that's about it. On a couple of occasions they've asked to suck and on those occasions where I decided to grin and bear it when I saw their tongues coming out mouth to do it I pulled away thinking yuck!!! I don't get it because this hasn't always been the case. I haven't had a bad experience or anything. Wonder if this has happened to anyone else.
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I have this very feeling come and go, for me personally it's caused by flare-ups of gender dysphoria. I'm gonna guess that's not the case for you, though?
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I sometimes get this when I need a break.
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I think there is something in what bibi says. When I read your post I said to myself "sounds like she is getting scunnered with the job" ... maybe it is time for a break.
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In the past I didn't mind my boobs being touched then a couple of years ago it was just the nipples I hated being touched. Now I hate them being touched at all. I manage to get out of it by telling them how much I love my bum being squeezed lol. My boobs not sore or sensitive. I now just can't stand them being touched at all in any way, shape or form. Even emails or texts talking about touching or sucking them turn my stomach. On about one out of 100 occasions it's ok when they are doing a massage technique kind of touching around the boobs but that's about it. On a couple of occasions they've asked to suck and on those occasions where I decided to grin and bear it when I saw their tongues coming out mouth to do it I pulled away thinking yuck!!! I don't get it because this hasn't always been the case. I haven't had a bad experience or anything. Wonder if this has happened to anyone else.
I've had this on and off over the past few years, it was really bad a few years ago when I was taking the 'mini pill', they were so painful even taking off my bra was sore. They were swollen, red and really painful when touched. Anyone touching them I couldn't bear it. I was at the point where I wanted to put on my profile 'please don't touch my breasts' but thought better of it as soon as I make an issue of something that I Don't like, I can guarantee guys will do!!! I really dislike my nipples being squeezed or even worse gently bitten, and have sacked off a few of good regulars for doing this.
Anyway, since having the mirena coil fitted they seemed to have settled down and aren't as sore and sensitive as they were, although still are a bit at the time of my period.
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I think there is something in what bibi says. When I read your post I said to myself "sounds like she is getting scunnered with the job" ... maybe it is time for a break.
No. I'm ok with everything else. Im thinking to continue with the massage and hand at lower rate with no touching at all but don't know if that would go down well. It's not so bad when they touch at the last minute when about to come but that's about all I can take.
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I don't mind my boobs being touched or squeezed, I just hate having my nipples bitten and I hate it when they squeeze too hard.
I had a man on top of me the other week while using my boobs to hold himself up, was fucking agony.
Our boobs are full of glands and they really hurt if too much force if used especially on the run up to time of the month.
As I said, I'm fine with most things in moderation. When some people take things too far is when it becomes uncomfortable but that can be said about practically everything sexual like kissing for example, fingering or giving someone deep throat. There's always someone who wants to devour your entire face, finger you dry and stuff as many fingers in as they can with raggy nails and then there's always someone who wants to force their cock so far down your throat that you vomit and that's just a few examples.
It must be really difficult to be in a job like this when you really loathe having your boobs touched OP
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I am the same and it came out of nowhere too.
I didn't even used to notice someone was doing something to my nipples/breasts. They weren't at all sensitive and it did nothing to me when they played with them. Now I can't eve stand the idea, and at this very moment I cringe inside eeeewwww.
However! However... I love when someone who I am sexually atracted to does it, ans it gives me pleasure. But unfortunatley 99% of my clients are not in that category.
So, I can say- it could be that it's all in the head.
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I am the same and it came out of nowhere too.
I didn't even used to notice someone was doing something to my nipples/breasts. They weren't at all sensitive and it did nothing to me when they played with them. Now I can't eve stand the idea, and at this very moment I cringe inside eeeewwww.
However! However... I love when someone who I am sexually atracted to does it, ans it gives me pleasure. But unfortunatley 99% of my clients are not in that category.
So, I can say- it could be that it's all in the head.
Mine were never painfully sensitive until a few years ago, with my (then) boyfriend I couldn't bear them to be touched even by him. I think its mostly a hormonal problem.
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I like it during actual sex but I have always hated it during paid sex. I hate when they try to make my nipples erect. It fills me with rage. I spend a lot of time trying to distract them from my nipples. I don't mind the entire breast being squeezed so I tell them that that's how I like it. But some still try to stimulate the nipples.
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I like it during actual sex but I have always hated it during paid sex. I hate when they try to make my nipples erect. It fills me with rage. I spend a lot of time trying to distract them from my nipples. I don't mind the entire breast being squeezed so I tell them that that's how I like it. But some still try to stimulate the nipples.
It's because so many guys think that you have to have erect nipples to be turned on not understanding for a single second that some nipples go really erect and some don't. We're all different x
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I am the same and it came out of nowhere too.
I didn't even used to notice someone was doing something to my nipples/breasts. They weren't at all sensitive and it did nothing to me when they played with them. Now I can't eve stand the idea, and at this very moment I cringe inside eeeewwww.
However! However... I love when someone who I am sexually atracted to does it, ans it gives me pleasure. But unfortunatley 99% of my clients are not in that category.
So, I can say- it could be that it's all in the head.
Mine were never painfully sensitive until a few years ago, with my (then) boyfriend I couldn't bear them to be touched even by him. I think its mostly a hormonal problem.
I was going to say, I think it (the OP's problem) could be hormonal. Menopause or peri-menopause or HRT or new contraception or just periods in general. I can't stand my boobs being played with for the 2 weeks between ovulation and period, don't come near me when I'm on please, then I really enjoy it just after I have finished my period. My boobs just feel happier and more sexual.
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Yes, nipples go erect when stimulated because of breast feeding. This doesn't mean women are sexually aroused whilst nursing!
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Had menopause 11 years ago so no idea what it is lol. X
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Had menopause 11 years ago so no idea what it is lol. X
Ha, then it's not that then ;D
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I get this. They're a sexual area and if someone who turns my stomach is all over them it can make me feel sick.
I'm off at the moment, already dreading all this when I have to come back
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I think sometimes its the way they touch them, I've had a few press them on the nipple like you would a door bell ffs !!
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Hey girls...
It seems I have a problem. At the beginning I thought that is just in my mind but now I can't really cope with it anymore.
I just can't resist anymore when clients are playing with my breast. I am a 36E and I know that a lot of them are attracted to me only because of my breast. I love my breast. However, when I offer incalls, I feel like I am going to die. After one client my breast are so sensitive that I can barely touch them. It is not only about my nipples but I feel pain everywhere. If they want to play with them - it's a real nightmare. No matter how gentle they are after a client or two, I feel like I can't do it anymore. Moreover, if they want to kiss or suck my nipples that's it - worst pain ever. What can I do girls? I am already desperate. After a day of incalls when I see 5 clients or even more sometimes, all I wanna do is hold my breast for 30 minutes and try to forget about the pain.
Please help me ... Do you have the same problem or is this just me ( they are quite heavy and massive - this might be a problem somehow) ?
Thanks xxx
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My boobs are a 38gg and although my nipples are sensitive, they don't seem to give me the same issue as yours. The reason I am replying is because I have the same issue with my clit. Men are really rough and since Jan, I have had nothing but uti's and kidney infections. I only worked an hour today and the pain is intense as he seemed to think my clit was like scratching a lottery card!!!
Anyway, back to your boobs lol. You could always spray them in strong perfume which will stop them sucking at least due to the awful taste in their mouth. Failing that, just say your boobs don't do it for you and you'd prefer their fingers to play down below as that is where you get the most pleasure from. Try to get them to lay down and rub your boobs on their man parts if you can stand it, before giving oral?
I guess we just have to manipulate the best we can at the time of the booking. Put some wet flannels in your fridge for between bookings as hopefully this will help ease the discomfort.
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My boobs are a 38gg and although my nipples are sensitive, they don't seem to give me the same issue as yours. The reason I am replying is because I have the same issue with my clit. Men are really rough and since Jan, I have had nothing but uti's and kidney infections. I only worked an hour today and the pain is intense as he seemed to think my clit was like scratching a lottery card!!!
Anyway, back to your boobs lol. You could always spray them in strong perfume which will stop them sucking at least due to the awful taste in their mouth. Failing that, just say your boobs don't do it for you and you'd prefer their fingers to play down below as that is where you get the most pleasure from. Try to get them to lay down and rub your boobs on their man parts if you can stand it, before giving oral?
I guess we just have to manipulate the best we can at the time of the booking. Put some wet flannels in your fridge for between bookings as hopefully this will help ease the discomfort.
Good point !! I am telling them that I don't really feel pleasure when they play with my boobs but men are men. No matter what, they just like to touch them.
I am sorry to hear about your clit :-[. I never had this problem but sometimes my pussy get sore too and they I need to stop from making sex at least few hours. ( I think latex condoms are the problem sometimes ).
I am really pissed off about my breast problem but I hope I will manage somehow. Just the idea of a man playing with them and licking my nipples makes me sensitive. God !! :'(
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I have the same issue with my breasts...im a 34HH and they are totally obsessed. When they are being to rough i tell them in a firm voice GENTLE! It seems to work....Years ago i had my nipple bitten and was hanging...Not a nice experience so i am really firm when it comes to me feeling uncomfortable.
With the clit and vagina business i totally know where your coming from...especially if they have been sucking on it for ages..or you have seen a lot of clients. I use plenty of lube and also you can by a numbing cream or a cream called Vagisil which has a numbing ingredient in it. The things we endure [sigh]
p.s. you could use a numbing cream on your nipples also x
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It could be Fibromyalgia and Chronic Myofascial Pain. Reading up on it avoid caffeine (Coffee and chocolate) and see a doctor to get your pain diagnosed.
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Mine don't get pain but I hate them being touched now to the point it turns my stomach. X
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I have the same issue with my breasts...im a 34HH and they are totally obsessed. When they are being to rough i tell them in a firm voice GENTLE! It seems to work....Years ago i had my nipple bitten and was hanging...Not a nice experience so i am really firm when it comes to me feeling uncomfortable.
With the clit and vagina business i totally know where your coming from...especially if they have been sucking on it for ages..or you have seen a lot of clients. I use plenty of lube and also you can by a numbing cream or a cream called Vagisil which has a numbing ingredient in it. The things we endure [sigh]
p.s. you could use a numbing cream on your nipples also x
Definitely!!! I am telling them to be gentle too if I think I cannot endure anymore but usually my clients are nice and gentle. The problem is with me. I will that cream you were talking about. Thanks x
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It could be Fibromyalgia and Chronic Myofascial Pain. Reading up on it avoid caffeine (Coffee and chocolate) and see a doctor to get your pain diagnosed.
I never thought about this. Hmmmm. This is helpful. Thanks a lot.
I am not drinking coffee ( never ) and I am not a big fan of chocolate so I don't think these might be something that affect me. However, I will go to a doctor soon ... Thanks x
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Mine don't get pain but I hate them being touched now to the point it turns my stomach. X
Oh yes ... I know the feeling!!! :FF
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I have the same issue but my boobs are very small. I have cysts in one of them that come and go depending on my cycle (hormones) and them being played with seems to just irritate me. Additionally, my clit gets very sensitive too. I really do't know what you can do to avoid clients playing with them, especially since yours are so big, they are a USP of your service!
The only thing you could do is just be honest and say that they are very sensitive so don't show them too much attention?
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I don't mind mine being played with as long as its not rough, but I have found myself occasionally developing abscesses in the last year or two.
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I have had same issue lately. Im 34FF and most clients who book me love my boobs. But lately the are so oversensitive. I have one client who always wants to pull and twist and slap my nipples and it is agony. I have no idea why they have become so sensitive lately, but I am hating them being touched at all, so feel your pain. :'(
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I have smaller boobs and experience the same thing, i think mine is down to how much some idiots slap, twist, suck them (so hard they practically suck them off), its made me so sensitive. I cant stand it at all now.
If you dont like it put a little in ya profile (faqs on aw) that whilst you like them being admirared you prefer alot of the attention to be downstairs, as your boobies are really sensitive, that way youve covered your back. If they dont read it, well thats their tough luck.
You shouldnt do anything in this job youre not 100% happy with. X
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Sorry to hear that Kassandra, that sounds like a horrible position to be in xx
Do you think it's the roughness of clients that is the problem, or do you think you have breast tenderness generally? I only ask because if you're on the contraceptive pill sometimes this can make that area feel a bit tender and sore. A bit of a long shot I know but if you think it might be this you could always try changing pill maybe?
Probably though it's clients isn't it.... if you tend to attract "boob men" it's difficult to dissuade them from playing with their favourite things I guess. But if it's causing you pain I really think you have to get them to be more gentle..... you're not there to be hurt! Could you say that when you're horny your boobs get very sensitive to touch (true) and you love them to be stroked gently with butterfly kisses all over... etc. So making a big deal of your assets but encouraging gentle play as well. Or after a brief period of boob play just say they're turning you on so much that you can't take any more and you need to fuck them / do something to them / have them go down on you. Again minimising boobies time :)
Hope you feel better soon
H xx
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I've got huge natural knockers on a tiny frame and they cause me no end of grief to be honest but when clients are being too rough I just firmly tell them to take it easy, if they ignore me I will redirect their attention by putting the focus on their dicks works every time.
I get very sensitive at different times of the month though so I understand your pain, a cold cloth sometimes helps as already suggested above.
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Hey girls !!! I am back ...
I have been away a while because I had a surgery to do. However, everything is fine now and I back in business. ;D
I am so glad to see so many replies. ::)
As I said before, the pains are because I am sensitive in general - not because my clients are rough. Well, I guess there is nothing I can do - maybe just to let them know how sensitive my boobs are and that they need to take care of this.
I didn't work for 2 weeks and I am back to work this weekend - pretty excited. I am really curious to see how my body and my breast will react after such a long time without sex. Ops !!!
Kisses x :)
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I'm getting to the stage I can't stand them being touched at all. :-(
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I'm getting to the stage I can't stand them being touched at all. :-(
That's me !!! I understand you 100%. I feel like I wanna kill him if he is gonna touch my boobs. Strange feeling !!!!
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I'm getting to the stage I can't stand them being touched at all. :-(
That's me !!! I understand you 100%. I feel like I wanna kill him if he is gonna touch my boobs. Strange feeling !!!!
Used to be ok with it. ???
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Grrrrrrrrr I'm the same .. Hate it .. Hate it ... Hate it ! Never used to tho .. My god used to be my thing .. Not anymore .. Makes me want to shout " u ain't tuning in a bloody radio " just made me cross my legs thinking about it ! I feel your PAIN .. Xxxx
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I have the same problem with getting sore, except I have smaller boobs.
My nipples hide until I'm either cold or turned on, so I often get clients trying to get them erect by going at them like they are trying to scratch off a scratch card (I like that one)
This almost always has the opposite effect, and leaves me feeling sore and uncomfortable afterwards.
I always tell them that the best way to turn me on is to be gentle and sensual but most don't take note. As a result of this I now can't stand them playing with my boobs :(
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This is going to sound odd but for me I think it is related to the release of oxytocin... Which is a love hormone which makes you feel caring and cuddly, even maternal(it helps with breastfeeding and bonding with your baby). So when a guy starts playing with my nipples I instantly feel like my sex drive/horny self switches off.
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Hmmm. That's interesting ..
I have no idea what's the real reason for this but I suppose we should understand that we are also human beings. Doing this job is not that easy ... If we would have only one client a day I do not think we would have this problem but with 5 clients or more a day, this becomes a serious problem. ....
I still didn't find any solution for it. I worked this weekend: awful sensation after 2 clients. :FF
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For me it's feels awful in an emotional way.. Its not physical pain but makes me immediately feel nauseous almost, turned off and non sexual. Yet if they grope and play with the rest of my book it's fine. Just the nipples I cannot stand! Absolutely Hate guys sucking them
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Hmmm. That's interesting ..
I have no idea what's the real reason for this but I suppose we should understand that we are also human beings. Doing this job is not that easy ... If we would have only one client a day I do not think we would have this problem but with 5 clients or more a day, this becomes a serious problem. ....
I still didn't find any solution for it. I worked this weekend: awful sensation after 2 clients. :FF
Could you go to your doctor and ask him/her why your boobs are so sensitive? Did you say it hasn't always been this way? Plus, you mentioned your clients are gentle...
Somebody mentioned birth control, that defo gives me sore/sensitive boobs at least 1 week out of the month and I have the mirena coil so dont even get periods but still get all the symptoms every month...
It could be something hormonal, are they always sensitive and, if not, how long has it been going on for?
Just with you saying your clients are gentle, you could try asking for a medical explanation without having to tell the doc what you do.. Even say it happens when your bf touches them?
Also, numbing cream sounds good as well as covering them in perfume as a last resort lol. Good luck finding an answer! Xx
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I have naturally big boobs and guys always go for my nipples, depending on the time of the month, it can be unbearable :( I had a guy last week who I asked to be gentle with and got a very sarky answer back and kicked him out.
Men don't realise we are human beings and sometimes, just sometimes, we are able to feel pain like them, too. Would you believe it? xx
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Yet if they grope and play with the rest of my book it's fine. Just the nipples I cannot stand! Absolutely Hate guys sucking them
I quite like having boobs gently stroked too, but nipple sucking just feels horrible, a total turn off, its as if they're trying to breastfeed off me..YUK! I'm always conscious of clients attempting to be rough with them and tell them to be gentle straight away now before they get near them lol
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Hmmm. That's interesting ..
I have no idea what's the real reason for this but I suppose we should understand that we are also human beings. Doing this job is not that easy ... If we would have only one client a day I do not think we would have this problem but with 5 clients or more a day, this becomes a serious problem. ....
I still didn't find any solution for it. I worked this weekend: awful sensation after 2 clients. :FF
Could you go to your doctor and ask him/her why your boobs are so sensitive? Did you say it hasn't always been this way? Plus, you mentioned your clients are gentle...
Somebody mentioned birth control, that defo gives me sore/sensitive boobs at least 1 week out of the month and I have the mirena coil so dont even get periods but still get all the symptoms every month...
It could be something hormonal, are they always sensitive and, if not, how long has it been going on for?
Just with you saying your clients are gentle, you could try asking for a medical explanation without having to tell the doc what you do.. Even say it happens when your bf touches them?
Also, numbing cream sounds good as well as covering them in perfume as a last resort lol. Good luck finding an answer! Xx
Hey! Thanks for your reply.
I didn't went to the doctor yet. I think it is all because of the job. I had a boyfriend ( we just broke up recently ) and I never felt the same. I think that after 2 clients I become very irritated and my breasts become very sensitive.
Anyways, I will try the cream soon x
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Didn't want to start a new topic so thought I'd add to this. I have really sore nipples and not sure why as I'm not on my period or anything and even on my period I don't usually get sore nipples. I can't bear having my nipples touched and now that's all my clients want to do! Any ideas what's wrong with my nipples and how to get clients to stop touching them?
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Didn't want to start a new topic so thought I'd add to this. I have really sore nipples and not sure why as I'm not on my period or anything and even on my period I don't usually get sore nipples. I can't bear having my nipples touched and now that's all my clients want to do! Any ideas what's wrong with my nipples and how to get clients to stop touching them?
Yes. I now say to them how I love having my bum squeezed lol.
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OMG how do you get on in a job like this if you don't like getting your boobs touched? :o
I really don't mind, only thing I hate is having my nipples bitten or twisted and that goes for my private life too :(
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Had menopause 11 years ago so no idea what it is lol. X
Could your post-menopause be something that has been causing this issue? Menopause is like..a massive change in all levels. I get to hear that some women would go off sex completely post-menopause if not everyone.
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OMG how do you get on in a job like this if you don't like getting your boobs touched? :o
I really don't mind, only thing I hate is having my nipples bitten or twisted and that goes for my private life too :(
Actually I like the breast being held or squeezed gently, just not my nipples. And for some reason they are sore at the moment.
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OMG how do you get on in a job like this if you don't like getting your boobs touched? :o
I really don't mind, only thing I hate is having my nipples bitten or twisted and that goes for my private life too :(
Actually I like the breast being held or squeezed gently, just not my nipples. And for some reason they are sore at the moment.
Not sure why you quoted my post? As I never said I didn't like having my boobs touched.
I do enjoy having them touched, I just don't like being bitten or twisted.
If your boobs are sore at the moment then it will definitely be hormonal :-*
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I literally hate my boobs being touched. I have this one client who thinks kneading them like dough is mind blowing. Then he goes in for the kill by slobbering all over them, which literally makes me cringe. Then asks me whats wrong ::) ewwwww just stop ;D
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Didn't want to start a new topic so thought I'd add to this. I have really sore nipples and not sure why as I'm not on my period or anything and even on my period I don't usually get sore nipples. I can't bear having my nipples touched and now that's all my clients want to do! Any ideas what's wrong with my nipples and how to get clients to stop touching them?
Put some of that 'stop n grow' on them that you put on childrens nails to stop them from biting them see if that works ;D
Other than that what I do when mine are ultra sensitive is to keep them in a bra for as long as possible and say very loudly 'Ouch' when they try and grab/pinch bite them ;) :)
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I don't like my nipples messed with, although soft licking while I masturbate can be nice. But ordinarily it really bugs me in a way almost like hitting my funny bone on a table edge.
When they tweak my nipples I take their hands and cup them over my breasts and ask them to squeeze gently but firmly. That way they can still get a feel of my lovely lady lumps without irritating me. Some of them will still sort of pinch my nipples between my fingers.
The thing that absolutely fills my stomache with a little black ball of rage is when I lean over to grab a condom or something from the box by the bed and they fondle my nipples.
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Omg I'm like this recently where it cringes me as these are my sensitive soft points so when a cringed client touches or licks I feel to kick out as its tingling but for the wrong reasons because the client is a cringe and I just want to lock them off of me but have just about managed to bare it
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If I don't like the way a man is touching me then I scarper to the end of the bed to give them a blow job. That usually keeps them happy and they can't reach you!
Other thing- have your dildo/vibe somewhere in the room slightly away from bed and get up and stand in place they can't reach you and give them a show- say things like I love to watch a man wank as I play with myself....
Though if I am honest if you can't stand having nipples touched at all, this might be the wrong job for you...
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I went for a mammogram yesterday, not because of any concerns or my age (47) (the NHS are currently doing a survey on women who are a few years under 50 and a few years over 70 and asked if I wanted to participate) I agreed to take part but was dreading it with mine being so sensitive after hearing all the scares about them being clamped and squashed but it was actually the most pain free, comfortable examination I've ever had in my life! Just like having an x ray on your boobs, over and done in about 10 minutes.
Anyway the link to sex work, as well as reassuring ladies its nothing, is that it has made me realise just how rough clients have been with my boobs over the years! So from now on I'm going to be even more strict about the handling of them.
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I'm so reflexively "flinchy" about my nipples that it freaks me out when they touch them.
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since having my boobs done most guys cause me pain while sucking, even if I catch myself in the shower it kills
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Didn't want to start a new topic so thought I'd add to this. I have really sore nipples and not sure why as I'm not on my period or anything and even on my period I don't usually get sore nipples. I can't bear having my nipples touched and now that's all my clients want to do! Any ideas what's wrong with my nipples and how to get clients to stop touching them?
Yes. I now say to them how I love having my bum squeezed lol.
Thats what I say, but I actually do love having my bum squeezed, they love it too ;)
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Thats what I say, but I actually do love having my bum squeezed, they love it too ;)
Oh yes my bum cheeks are tough as old boots, I enjoy having it grabbed and spanked to quite a moderate level but my boobs are gradually becoming a no go area :(
Just had a client who loves having his nipples clamped and squeezed as hard as I can, its a massive turn on for him :o
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I had a client who was squeezing my bum, it was really nice (he was gorgeous, that's why) lol
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Just had a client who loves having his nipples clamped and squeezed as hard as I can, its a massive turn on for him :o
I discovered spanking "can" be nice if done right. I noticed marks left on my bum cheeks. :o
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I had a client who was squeezing my bum, it was really nice (he was gorgeous, that's why) lol
Ooh yes even better when they're gorgeous...They can squeeze away to their hearts content :P :-*
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Ooh yes even better when they're gorgeous...They can squeeze away to their hearts content :P :-*
;D indeed! ;D
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wishlist will this be that way forever? Does sensitivity change after a boob job?
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I really detest my nipples being touched, played with, sucked or twisted! Always have done even in my private life. I don't mind my breasts being cupped but just no attention on my nipples.
Should I write something on my profile about this? Sometimes I can see the guys disappointment when I tell him I don't like it.
Is anyone else like this, if so how to you get them off them?
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How long have you been working? Are you fairly new to this job? If you have been enduring nipple attention and hating it I would defo state something on your profile(s) as in my experience most guys love to have a tweak and a suck.
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I've been doing the job 3.5 years and I've always hated it but now it makes me want to punch them in the face so I want them off them ;D
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I hate it so much!!!
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I'm glad I'm not the only one LOTM! They're so damn sensitive but not even in a good way. It's just commonly assumed all women like it, it makes me wanna kill them :FF ;D
Do you just grin and bare it?
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I've been doing the job 3.5 years and I've always hated it but now it makes me want to punch them in the face so I want them off them ;D
Then you deserve a medal and a rosette for endurance! ;D I hate having my ears licked but it is not often they want to do it, nipples are another matter though, men like a good twiddle and suck. I am ok with this but what makes me want to scream is when they press the nipples in. I steer them towards something else usually but all I can suggest is that you say they are far too sensitive but I am sure you have tried that one.
I will ask my neighbour, she is 85 but is a bit of a girl. (joke) !!!!
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Is anyone else like this,
Nine pages of posts say that plenty of people are like this :).
There's a post in here somewhere that suggests painting them with that anti-nailbiting stuff that's supposed to taste awful or spraying them with deodorant - it would only really work on the slobberers, chewers and biters but it's a start?
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Nine pages of posts say that plenty of people are like this :).
There's a post in here somewhere that suggests painting them with that anti-nailbiting stuff that's supposed to taste awful or spraying them with deodorant - it would only really work on the slobberers, chewers and biters but it's a start?
:D :D :D :D :D
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wishlist will this be that way forever? Does sensitivity change after a boob job?
Only just seen this LB, I would imagine so and yes I would say in a bad way, for me anyhow
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Nine pages of posts say that plenty of people are like this :).
There's a post in here somewhere that suggests painting them with that anti-nailbiting stuff that's supposed to taste awful or spraying them with deodorant - it would only really work on the slobberers, chewers and biters but it's a start?
I can always tell when a guy has sprayed Lynx all over his chest because his nipples taste really gross and my mouth goes all puckery. So try spraying perfume directly onto them if you want to discourage it, but that won't work for guys who just want to pinch/tweak them.
(In all honesty I have the opposite problem: I can feel hardly anything in my nipples. If a guy really bites them then I can feel it. But if they just touch them, or anything on my boob, unless I'm actually looking at them I have no idea they're even touching me.)
I think just putting "I don't allow nipple play" on your profile should weed out a lot of guys, and maybe if it's a common problem state this when a guy books. "I provide kissing, oral without condom, light fingering, and full sex with condom. I don't allow nipple play or anal" should do the trick.
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I can always tell when a guy has sprayed Lynx all over his chest because his nipples taste really gross and my mouth goes all puckery. So try spraying perfume directly onto them if you want to discourage it, but that won't work for guys who just want to pinch/tweak them.
God, I think the powdery ones like Right Guard are the worst. Occasionally they spray it down the kecks too, which must be a real treat for anybody who does OWO.
The nipple stuff doesn't bother me especially (and if I've had a very busy day I sometimes direct them to mess about with boobs just to get a break from the fanny maulers if I'm a bit sore) but I do sympathise - I went from being fairly ambivalent and unbothered about RO to absolutely hating it to the point I had to stop offering it, and I think if you can't avoid constant exposure to whatever it is you started off just not being keen on eventually it's going to push the unpleasant feelings right off the scale.
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I've bit the bullet and put it on my profile on my services tab and in the FAQs so I've covered my arse now, glad I have I couldn't stand another booking of it!
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most guys love to have a tweak and a suck.
'Tweak and a suck urrghhh' that's not normal behaviour. Babies suck breasts for food not grown men! Tweaking of my nipples only makes me want to punch the offending person in the face. There's no excuse for bad behaviour, no one in my private life has ever annoyed me by touching my tits but *some* clients well they really need educating on the female body. A few times when I've said 'ouch don't do that' to a client they've said they've seen it in porn....*rolls eyes*
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Of course we could always get our own back, if they pinch or tweak too hard then just do the same to them. See how they like it! ;D
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Of course we could always get our own back, if they pinch or tweak too hard then just do the same to them. See how they like it! ;D
Yeah I've done that to a few with their balls (squeezed pulled and stuck my nails in) and asked them if they like the same treatment. They soon see the error of their ways lol :-)
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God, I think the powdery ones like Right Guard are the worst. Occasionally they spray it down the kecks too, which must be a real treat for anybody who does OWO.
After shave/deodorant on the cock is the most stupid thing ever!!! Why just why lol Do they really think we're that dumb as not to notice not only the smell 'down there' but also the taste! *bangs head against the wall*
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Absolutely hate my nipples being touched/sucked hard. I am hyper sensitive on my nipples and clit ::)